@JoshuaC I feel that... Tagalog is trickier than its reputation.
Verbs are difficult. All anyone ever discusses is Aspect and Focus. WTHW? When we speak English...CAN WE SPEAK ENNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGGLISH!!
Tense and Pronoun use. That is 2 hours...I can teach you all the core ideas you need in 2 hours. Take a you a bit longer to sink it into your brain, but 2 days, DONE.
Blah blah blah...the rest of your life...you will hear nothing else. Aspect / Focus. GRAMMERISH!
THEN its gets hard...what are all these affixes. What are they used for? Who knows? Who can speak about for longer than 3 minutes. Search the best texts and you are fortunate to unearth maybe 3 or 4 sentences at best. Mighty thin for so much effort?
No one knows. Ask. Ask your wife. She knows in her puso (heart). She knows in her bones. Talk about it. NOOOOOOOOO WAY. IF she can, I want to talkto her.
And most people don't WANT you to know.
And most people don't WANT you to TRY...very hard.
So...my best advice...you better feel in your PUSO somewhere...a connection.
AFFIXES are AWESOME. Why do you LOVE your WIFE. AFFIXES are a big part. ASTIG! Pero...secretoooooooooo...
I feel you...