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So ito na my love, basahin natin ang kuwento ng buhay ng ating kabisong, itatago na lang natin sa pangalang SAB.
00:31.0
Hindi ko alam kung paano simulan ito, pero hindi naman pala nakakapagod magmahal.
00:38.0
Nakakasawa, literal.
00:40.0
Almost 3 years na kami ng dyowa ko.
00:43.0
Opo, parehas kaming babae.
00:45.0
Weird, pakinggan?
00:46.0
Pero ngayon ko lang naramdaman ang paulit-ulit masaktan sa isang relationship.
00:52.0
Akala ko kasi healthy na eh.
00:54.0
Akala ko lang pala.
00:56.0
Masama ba maramdaman na nasaktan ako nung umamin siya na
01:00.0
na sex niya yung kaibigan niya nung time na nagsisimula palang kaming mag-usap?
01:08.0
Akala ko walang susunod.
01:10.0
Hanggang sa nahuli ko siya, kausap niya yung ex niya, exact birthday niya pa.
01:16.0
Inayaan ko kesyo birthday niya, pero dun sa part na tawagin niyang mahal yung ex niya,
01:23.0
mas nanlumo ako DJ Lala.
01:26.0
Ngayon ko lang nasabi na mahal niya lang pala talaga ako kapag masaya kami.
01:31.0
Kasi sa mga times na may problema ako, nawawala siya.
01:35.0
Ngayon di ko alam saan ako lulugar.
01:37.0
Nasasaktan ako sa part na wala akong maramdaman.
01:40.0
Ayoko nang umiyak sa paulit-ulit na sitwasyon.
01:44.0
Halos dati di ko na makilala yung sarili ko eh.
01:47.0
Nung time na nag-uusap sila ng ex niya,
01:50.0
hindi ko na pagtantunah lah. Parang ang bobo-bobo ko pala.
01:55.0
Mas pinili kong magmakaawa, huwag niya lang akong iwan.
01:58.0
Sa naging relationship natin, namin hindi ako dapat masakta ng matagal.
02:03.0
Pero kapag siya yung nasakta na sa ginagawa ko, halos lumhod ako, mapatawag niya lang ako.
02:10.0
Ngayon nawala na.
02:11.0
Hindi ko na alam yung nararamdaman ko.
02:14.0
Wala na akong maramdaman DJ Lala.
02:16.0
Dapat ko pa bang ipagpatuloy to? Kasi may part sa akin na nagsasabing,
02:21.0
laban pa kasi baka magbago.
02:25.0
Thank you po and more power to your show.
02:32.0
Love kapag gumabot ka na sa punto ng relationship that you are tired.
02:37.0
Too tired to even feel anything about sa relationship na nandun ka.
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It's a sign that that relationship is too toxic for you to bear with anymore.
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Ibig sabihin, you have to stop.
02:53.0
Stop before you hurt each other even more so.
02:58.0
Or stop because you are losing yourself sa isang toxic kind ng relationship.
03:07.0
Kapag nagaano nalang kayo pingpong kung sino yung may kasalanan,
03:10.0
pingpong kung sino yung magsasori, pingpong kung sino yung magmamakaawa para patawarin.
03:16.0
It's about time that you set each other go or set each other free.
03:23.0
Kasi isa to sa mga sinasabi natin, my love, kung napanood niyo yung recent na TikTok na meron ako,
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na sometimes holding on to a relationship that's no longer working
03:35.0
will hurt you even more than the thought of letting it go.
03:40.0
Kaya kung pareho na kayong hindi nagkakaintindihan,
03:43.0
if you cannot even see yourself in the future with this person,
03:48.0
I think it's time you let that person go.
03:51.0
I think it's time na pagpahingahin nyo na yung isa't isa sa sakit na nararamdaman nyo sa isa't isa.
03:56.0
I think it's time na tanggapin nyo na na ito na yung hangganan, ito na yung dulo.
04:03.0
Hindi naman natin sinasabi na kapag sinabing ito yung hangganan,
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ibig sabihin na you will never be happy again.
04:12.0
That you will never find someone again that will give you a purpose,
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na makakapagparamdam sa'yo ng kilig, ng love.
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Hindi naman yun yung ibig sabihin natin.
04:24.0
When we say this is over, yun lang yung chapter, yung storya.
04:29.0
Yung storya lang yung nagtapos.
04:31.0
Pero hindi yung hope, hindi yung pag-asa,
04:37.0
na baka magkaroon pa na nga someone in your life
04:42.0
that can make you believe in love once more.
04:46.0
For now, my love,
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instead na magsakitan pa kayo even more,
04:53.0
instead na saktan nyo pa yung isa't isa nang mas malala pa sa the way you guys are hurting right now,
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pakawalan nyo na lang yung isa't isa.
05:06.0
Huwag nyo nang paabutin dun sa puntong wala na kayong respeto sa isa't isa.
05:10.0
Huwag nyo nang paabutin dun sa punto na parang wala na kayong pakilam
05:15.0
kung masasaktan nyo siya sa mga sasabihin ninyo.
05:18.0
You just wanna let it all out kasi it hurts keeping it in.
05:25.0
Alam mo yung feeling ng sobrang hype ng emotions mo,
05:29.0
ang taas ng emotion mo,
05:30.0
tapos kinikimkim mo lang siya kasi ayaw mo siyang ilabas,
05:33.0
kasi ayaw mong makapanakit,
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ayaw mong masaktan siya sa mga sasabihin mo,
05:38.0
pero there are just those days na you cannot hold it in anymore.
05:42.0
Huwag nyo nang paabutin dun sa puntong yun na pareho pa kayong sumabog.
05:49.0
Stop being toxic to each other.
05:52.0
If you do recognize that the relationship is no longer healthy,
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then there's no sense in keeping it.
06:01.0
Wala ng point para ipaglaban pa yan.
06:06.0
Maybe you need time apart?
06:11.0
Or maybe it's about time that you guys accept
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na meron man pa kayong nararamdaman para sa isa't isa.
06:21.0
It's no longer enough to keep the relationship alive
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kasi what you have is no longer love.
06:30.0
What you have for each other, it's no longer pagmamahal.
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It's more of familiarity.
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Pamilyar ka na kasi sa feeling ng andiyan siya.
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Pamilyar ka na sa feeling ng presence niya.
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That you cannot imagine yourself without that presence.
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Pero that doesn't mean it's love.
06:53.0
Naintindihan mo ko, Sab?
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Palayain mo na yung sarili mo.
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Minsan, kahit masakit, kahit mahirap, kahit nakakatakot,
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kailangan matuto tayong i-accept
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na may mga bagay na kailangan magtapos
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para magkaroon tayo ng bagong simula.
