Paano ba mag-solo travel? May mga gusto ka bang gawin pero natatakot ka? | Share Ko Lang
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Who ride the world?
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Nasa gitna ako ng 7,641 islands.
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Sobrang saya ng lusong dito pero biglang boom!
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Marami sa atin takot magbiyahe mag-isa.
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Pero ang makakakwentuhan natin ngayon,
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hindi lang solo traveler, bike pa ang gamit niya.
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At ang kanyang super trip sa buhay
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ang mapuntahan ng bawat sulok ng Pilipinas.
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Kahit delikado man sa kailang ng dalawang gulong.
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Ang tanong, paano nga ba mag-solo trip?
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Hello mga kapuso!
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Ako si Doktora Anna Tuazon,
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ang inyong kakwentuhan na psychologist sa Shareko Lang.
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Marami sa atin ang takot lumaba sa ating comfort zone.
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Kailan ba natin malalaman na the risk is worth it?
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Pag-uusapan natin yan kasama si Zarlim,
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ang pinaka-brave na siklista sa likod ng
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The Bike Wanderer of the Philippines.
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Hello Dok! Hello mga kapuso!
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Paano ka ba nagsimula sa biking?
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At saan ka ba nanggaling before that?
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To be honest, I'm a pandemic biker.
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Before akong maging biker, traveler na talaga ako.
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So nandito na yung passion ko for travel.
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Yun na rin yung buhay ko because I'm a travel videographer.
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Yun nga lang nung nagkaroon ng pandemic.
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Parang nasira yung lahat.
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Hindi natin alam kung mayroong pa ba tayong pag-asa.
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And then, na-discover ko yung biking na
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pwede akong hindi makulong sa bahay through bike.
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Na-e-explore ko lang muna yung community ko,
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yung hometown ko with this bike.
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And nahanap ko yung passion ko dito sa biking na
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it's also a way to have a sense of freedom.
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Because kapag nagba-bike ka,
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ikaw yung manibela kasi ikaw yung nagbamaneho.
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So ikaw yung gumagawa ng sarili mong direction.
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Nagsimula ako sa sobrang lapit lang na lugar.
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And then, as time goes by, lumayo na ko ng lumayo
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at na-enjoy ko siya.
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It's not a sports for me actually.
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It's a way to travel and discover new places,
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new people, and culture na rin as well.
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You're not just any type of biker.
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Diba talaga nagba-bike tour ka
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all around the Philippines, solo pa.
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Para sa akin, nung napapanood ko yun,
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oh, ang lakas ng loob.
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Solo female biker.
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And ako as a woman, sa totoo lang,
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una ko ay parang nakakatakot.
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Did you notice that you were getting braver?
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Kasi parang diba palayo ng palayo?
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Umabad ka pa ng marawi,
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umabad ka ng tawi-tawi.
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Pumukunta ka sa mga lugar
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na hindi necessarily mga pang-Instagram lang,
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pang-photos lang.
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Talagang marami kang naipapakita
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sa mga viewers mo.
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Marami kang na-experience.
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Na konti lang sa amin,
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ang nakaka-experience.
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Have you always been this brave
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and this curious kahit before?
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O medyo through biking, parang
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lumalakas na rin ang loob,
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mas nagiging confident,
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mas nagiging wise na rin siguro?
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Nagsimula ako nang
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wala talaga akong idea
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I mean, may idea ako,
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pero wala akong idea
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kung paano ko siya gagawin.
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And takot din ako.
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Nag-solo ride ako from Quezon
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going to Laguna for two days.
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Nag-camping ako doon
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for the first time in my life.
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yung mindset ko kasi,
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gusto kong gawin to,
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pero paano ko siya gagawin
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kung hindi ko siya sinisimulan
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sa maliit na bagay.
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So kung meron kang fear
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always start it by
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conquering a small fear
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before you conquer that fear.
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So yun yung natutunan ko.
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nung nagpa-bike din ako around,
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parang napapansin ko
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kapag bago ka doon sa isang lugar,
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And kapag tumagal ka nang tumagal,
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nagkakaroon ka na ng idea
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doon sa isang lugar na
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parang mas nangibabaw lang
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yung fear sa utak natin
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because na doon siya.
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Hindi mo talaga kasi
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Nag-eight-month tour ka pa?
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Eight-month tour na
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minsan hindi naman siya
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bike all the way.
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Tumitigil din ako sa province
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to learn something new
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like tumigil ako sa Siargao
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to learn surfing.
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Tumigil ako sa Bohol
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to learn freediving.
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And nami-meet ko din
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yung iba't ibang community
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ng mga adventurers
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na may mga different perspective in life.
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Para sa iba kasi,
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hindi naman necessarily biking
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ang kanilang passion.
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Pero meron silang gustong
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Karamihan ng mga tao
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na hindi nagpo-pursue
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ay dahil sa takot.
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Kunyari mag-corporate,
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mag-step-by-step,
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promotion sa isang kumpanya.
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pero at least medyo may alam ka
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kung ano ang susunod.
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Pero something like biking,
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kailangan din ng konti courage,
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na walang nag-relead sa'yo.
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Actually, marami kang
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isa-sacrifice na bagay
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para ma-pursue mo yung passion mo.
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So, sometime it's a matter
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of taking the risk
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na mawawala sa'yo.
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Maraming mga bagay
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na mawawala sa'yo.
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Pero kasi kung hindi mo
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susubukan yung gusto mo talaga,
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hindi mo siya ma-achieve
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during white war.
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Siyempre, malalayo ka sa pamilya mo.
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Yung time din to bond with people
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okay naman yung buhay mo before,
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bakit mas tinili mo
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yung uncomfort zone?
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na kaya mo mag-take ng risk?
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I choose freedom na
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yung expectation kasi
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ng society natin,
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kailangan ganito ka na
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at the age of ganito.
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Kailangan ka na, may asawa ka na,
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familyado ka na, may bahay ka na,
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and mas tinili ko yung simpleng buhay
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na I invested more on experiences
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rather than possessions.
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So, renege ko yung stereotype
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ng society natin na
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mas tinili ko yung sense of freedom
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more than following the norms
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The experience cannot be bought.
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Kahit magbuka ko ng tour,
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hindi ata ako makakarating
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sa mga pinuntahan mo.
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What has been the most surprising
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na experience para sa'yo?
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Ang tinaka-surprising experience sa'kin
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talaga yung mga tao.
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Kasi yung lugar, parang
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given naman na maganda yung Pilipinas,
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oh, it's amazing.
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Pero yung mga tao na mamimit mo,
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especially when I visited
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Sulu, Tawi-Tawi, Basilan.
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So, dun ako pinaka-surprised na
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yung notion kasi natin
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yung mga tao dito,
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parang papatayin ka agad.
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Pero dun mo makikita yung
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genuine ng mga tao na
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ibang-iba sila dun sa mga
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Kasi if hindi ka nagtravel,
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parang yung word lang yung
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naririnig mo, like Mindanao.
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Hindi mo alam na napakarami
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province sa Mindanao
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and sa province na to
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merong mga different towns
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and sa different towns na to
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may mga different barangays.
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So, yung mga pinaka
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na tumatak talaga sa'kin
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yung experience ko with the people,
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kababait yung mga Pilipino
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kahit sa hapong munta,
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they will offer you house,
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kahit na wala silang matulugan.
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At kahit hindi nila ako kilala,
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papatuloy nila ako.
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Now, tinanong namin
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ng aming mga kapuso,
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kung anong nagbibigay kahulugan
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sa kanilang buhay?
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living life to the fullest.
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Ayan, yun talaga yung
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nagbibigay kahulugan.
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Ang sabi naman ng isa,
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because life is short.
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Ang sabi ng isa pa nating kapuso,
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masarap mag-enjoy,
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kasi di natin alam
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kung hanggang kailan tayo dito
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Now, kaming mga professionals,
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syempre, nung nagsimula yung pandemic,
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mas naging reflective
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ang mga tao, di ba?
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Kasi na-realize na rin,
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ay, hindi pala, gano'n ka.
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Di ba, ka-certain,
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Sa liit ng panahon natin
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anong gusto mong gawin?
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yun naman talaga yung
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ibig sabihin ng kahulugan ng buhay.
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Hindi ito sa degree
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o sa trabaho mismo, no?
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Sa mga experiences.
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kasi sinama mo talaga
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Paano mo naisipan?
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karamihan ng mga...
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Ayan, sabihin na natin, di ba?
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Pag may look at travel,
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we think vacation spot,
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we think aesthetic,
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Parang meron tayong visuals
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pumunta ka sa marawi.
09:02.0
Anong naisip mo at,
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behind that decision?
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At anong naman ang
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naging experience mo?
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kumapuntahan yung
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81 provinces ng Philippines,
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parang when you're traveling
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for a long period of time,
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yung mga beaches,
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parang nagiging pare-parehas na lang
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So, I am craving to get to know
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Yung break yung stereotype natin.
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So, nung pumunta ako ng marawi,
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syempre takot din ako
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kasi nga alam ko na
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may nangyaring ganito.
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And nung pumunta ako doon,
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nagulat ako kasi,
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bago pala ako makapunta sa marawi,
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So, it's a big city.
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So, bago ako makapunta doon sa marawi,
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sa ground zero na pinatawag,
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dadaan ka muna ng city
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na parang din na sa Manila,
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Ang daming sasakiyan,
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may mga coffee shop.
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So, yun yung nagulat ako
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kasi ang mindset ko,
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marawi, parang bomba agad.
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Nabreak yung stereotype ko
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nung pumunta ako doon.
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And pagkapunta ko doon,
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yung ground zero pala,
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is napakaliit lang niyang part doon.
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And thankfully din,
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unti-unti na silang nakaka-recover
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although nandun pa rin
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yung result nung nangyari doon sa war.
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Yun yung mga ano rin
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natutunan ko sa pagta-travel
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na you're not just there
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to learn something new,
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to learn from the people,
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Kasi kapag pupuntahan lang
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for the sense of picture,
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walang namang sense.
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I mean, may sense
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for documentation.
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Pero if you get to know
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the place itself,
10:41.0
mag-iiba yung perspective mo
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kasi nakukuha mo din
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yung perspective nila
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kung bakit ganon.
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So, yun yung nagustuhan ko din
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medyo hindi fully captured
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yung term na solo rider.
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Kasi yes, solo ka.
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You're doing it on your own.
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more are about connection.
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Connecting with the people,
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I'm a solo rider,
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parang never kong
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na-experience na solo ako
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because there are people
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na sasabay sakin.
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Kahit di nila ako kailala,
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ipapasa-pasa nila ako
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doon sa mga ibang bikers.
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So, nabubuo yung community
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ng not just bikers
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but also adventurers
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Kamusta ang cycling community?
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kumukontak ako ng mga tao
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especially na alam ko na
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medyo critical tong lugar na to.
11:36.0
May mga biking group
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per town, actually.
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So, may mga president per town.
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So, sinasuportahan nila lahat
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ng nag-Philippine tour.
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And nakakatulong din siya
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to attract bikers from abroad.
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na unti-unti na silang
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pumapasok dito sa bansaan natin
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to explore the Philippines
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So, napakalaki ng biking community
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at kahit na mag-isa ka,
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hindi mo siya mararamdaman.
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I think it matters a lot
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na you're also a solo female biker.
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lagi nang sasabay
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huwag ka lalabas,
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nakakatakot dyan,
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hindi mo kaya yan.
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Ano yung mga na-experience mo,
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specifically yun nga,
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na bilang babaeng rider?
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Naging nasa kasada ko,
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sobrang nagugulan sila
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na mayroong babae.
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So, titingin sila,
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bihira yung nakikita nila
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And feeling ko kasi,
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marami sa mga kababaehan
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na takot gawin yung isang bagay
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dahil na peligado,
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Mas dalami yung mga kababaehan
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mas magiging normal na sa mundo
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kaya naman para ng mga babae.
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So, yung na-experience ko naman
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laging ganon yung talong nila,
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bakit mag-isa ka?
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And sinasagot ko na lang sila
13:04.0
may problema po ba tayo?
13:08.0
ganon talaga yung standard
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ng society natin.
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kailangan may asawa ka na,
13:13.0
kailangan ganito ka na.
13:14.0
And then, natutunan ko
13:15.0
kung paano ako maging independent,
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na hindi mo naman kailangan
13:19.0
laging pumasa sa ibang tao
13:20.0
para magawa mo na yung mga isang bagay.
13:24.0
gusto ko rin ma-encourage
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yung mga kababaehan
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outside of their comfort zone.
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sana mas dumami pa yung mga tao
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Mas sana mas dumami pa yung mga women
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na itry yung mga bagay
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na kinakatakutan nila
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at the end of the day,
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kaya mo naman din pala.
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going outside of our comfort zone
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makes our comfort zone
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until the world becomes,
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the whole world can become comfortable.
14:01.0
kung lahat tayo nalilid sa takot,
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tas baka si Zarr lang ang lumalabas
14:11.0
it remains parang
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kung ako lang babae,
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medyo unsafe nga.
14:15.0
Pero kung mas maraming
14:17.0
maraming nagpa-personalize
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ng mga passions nila,
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it can technically even make it
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physically safer,
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kung mas maraming babae.
14:29.0
Kung gagawa tayo ng mga safe bike lanes,
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kung meron tayong mga,
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mga infrastructure
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to make safe spaces,
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safe public bathrooms,
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outside things like that.
14:44.0
Kung physically safe,
14:47.0
mas magiging malakas ang loob natin,
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Kasi hindi ako naniniwala na
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we are less capable
14:58.0
ng solo sa group?
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pag nagka-hiking ako,
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hindi talaga ako solo
15:04.0
kasi nag-join ako sa mga strangers
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na hindi ko kilala
15:08.0
at hindi rin nila ko kilala.
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yun yung napansin ko
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mas ikufriend ka nila.
15:16.0
kapag may companion ka,
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parang hindi ka naman nila kakausapin
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kasi may iba kang kakausap.
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yung ibang people
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and mas makikilala mo sila.
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yun yung enjoy ko.
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And kahit na solo ako,
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hindi ako introvert.
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How does that work?
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An extroverted solo rider?
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Ang na-experience ko
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na nag-bike ako nang
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wala kong kakausap for 10 hours.
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pinsan titigil na lang ako
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dun sa mga lugar na
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mayroon naman mga interaction with that.
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tas marami kang karga,
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kakausapin ka nila.
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Ano yung pinaka-challenging,
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you put yourself to the test.
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Ito na yung pinaka-labas
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Ano yung pinaka-challenging?
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Kasi sabi nila sa akin,
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huwag daw akong sumakay
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Bancana Yard kasi
16:24.0
may possibility daw
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na ma-ambush ka gano'n.
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ang only way is to go back
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to San Juanga City
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which will take around
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another 10 hours,
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then another 18 hours.
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kasing gawin yan,
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masyadong hassle.
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nag-take na lang ako ng reason
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na sumakay na lang ako
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even though I'm alone.
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yung mindset ko syempre parang,
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last day ko na to,
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Ang bait din ng mga tao
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nakasama ko dun sa banka
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para ako offering
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iihi ako dun sa parang
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bathroom dun sa boat,
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tutulungan pa nila
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para lang maka-CR.
17:03.0
takot na takot ako
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nung time na yun,
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nawala na yung lahat
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sa mismong situation.
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meron din ako mga challengers
17:15.0
sa mga librib na lugar
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hindi ko alam kung saan
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yung mga hotel dun.
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nag-try akong mag-wild camping.
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Yung wild camping
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is yung mag-camp ka lang
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nang hindi naman siya
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bago ko naman gawin yun,
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na-feel ko naman na
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meron dong family.
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I can imagine yun nga,
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the thrill and the adventure
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gusto ko lang naman
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safety and adventure.
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Can one have an adventure
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that's also safe?
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mga safety precautions.
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Bago ko gawin itong
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isang bagay na to,
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ipa-plan ako muna siya
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na saan ako titigil.
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meron akong application
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na matatrack ko yung
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nung isang lugar,
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kung ilang oras ko siya
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kung saan ako pwede
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mag-stop over dun.
18:14.0
i-cocontact ng mga
18:17.0
na kailanganin ko
18:20.0
kung nag-research ka
18:22.0
bagay-bagay beforehand,
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malaki ang matutulong niya
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for safety precautions
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pero at the same time,
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family members mo
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better din if meron ka
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ng mga emergency contact
18:49.0
dun sa isang lugar
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for safety purposes.
18:52.0
Just because we're
18:58.0
the more you want to
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Napaka-importante din
19:07.0
there's enough fun
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in the adventure.
19:10.0
Hindi natin kailangan,
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by lack of preparation.
19:18.0
Ano yung pwede mong
19:23.0
medyo na-realize nila,
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outside of my comfort zone
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and I wanna take risks.
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Yung pinahan na tutuloy ko
19:32.0
kung hindi ka nalalabas
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sa comfort zone mo,
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hindi ka mag-grow.
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sa comfort zone mo,
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worth it ba mag-risk?
19:45.0
kung lagi kang nasa loob
19:49.0
para mas malawa kang
19:51.0
mas maraming kaalaman,
19:52.0
mas maraming experience,
19:54.0
syempre kailangan
19:56.0
at experience yun
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Thank you so much, Zar.
20:05.0
Thank you so much
20:07.0
Thank you so much.
20:10.0
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20:18.0
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