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Umuuwi akong pagod na pagod sa buong araw na pagmamaneho.

Tatlong anak, dalawang grade school at isa naman sa kolehyo.

Walang sariling bahay, umuupa, at ako lang ang nagtatrabaho.

Nagsisimula na ako ngayon.

Nagsisimula na ako ngayon.

Nagsisimula na ako ngayon.

Walang sariling bahay, umuupa, at ako lang ang nagtatrabaho.

Minsan iniisip ko, magsisisenta na ako? Hanggang kailan ako magiging ganito?

Alam ko naman ang responsibilidad ko bilang tatay, pero minsan di ko maiwasang mangamba.

Ano bang plano namin? Para na akong robot na bumabango, nagtatrabaho, kinabukasan ganun-unit para akong makina.

Naiintindihan ko din kailangan kong bigyan ng oras. Pagtapos ng mga anak ko, makakaramdam din ako ng ginawa.

Pero kapag iniisip ko na dadating yung araw na yun, ano na pagtapos? San ba kami papunta mag-asawa?

Ako si Dani. Sa totoo lang, kinakalyo na ako sa pagod.

Sa tanda kong to, di ko na alam ang salitang long-term goal.

My love, sa bansa natin to, I don't think dito sa Pinas, uso yung retirement plan, kung tawagin nila sa ibang bansa.

Ito yung mga things that you can do when you are past your golden age.

And ready ka nang isabit yung hat ng pagiging worker, kasi you've done.

Your share of responsibility sa mga anak mo and you are now ready to take on and continue on with your life.

Some of us are lucky enough, they have already planned that one out.

Meron silang long-term goals.

Some of us are lucky enough, they have already planned that one out.

Meron silang long-term jobs. Jobs that they can do even when they are past 60.

But there are some jobs that you cannot just stay that long with.

And sometimes it scares people.

After working, after doing what I've done or I've been doing for the longest time in my life,

saan ba ako papunta? Ano yung goal ko?

Kasi dati before nung nagtatrabaho ako, my goal is to have my own family.

Nung may pamilya na ako, my goal is to send my kids to school.

Nung nag-aaral na yung mga anak ko, my goal was pagtapusin silang lahat.

Pag nakatapos na silang lahat, where does my story continue?

My own journey continue.

Saan ba siya patungo? San siya pupunta? Anong next goal natin?

Kasi the goals after that, with regards to my kids, is not my own.

That will be their goal.

It's just that sa goal nilang yun, masasama yung part that I am being a grandparent.

And sometimes napapaisip ka na lang na oh nga no,

after you have sent your kids to school, after they have graduated and have careers on their own,

where does that lead you?

San ka na nun?

How do you continue on with your own life after being used to doing things para sa pamilya mo for as long as you can remember?

Dani, ganito no, like everything else in this life, di naman talaga tayo sure.

Kung saan tayo papunta, kung anong meron tayo five years or ten years from now.

Pero I think dahil naisip mo na siya, dahil nandyan na siya on your thoughts,

I want you to think about the things you want to do.

Kasi right now what you've been doing are the things you need to do.

Kaya tayo napapagod kasi these are responsibilities.

These are work na we need to get done.

Kasi yung mga nakasalalay dito ay mga necessities kung tawagin natin.

Mga mandatories in life that we have to take responsibility for.

Bills ng bahay, kuryente tubig, pag-aaral ng mga bata, groceries.

These are the things that's mandatory in life for us to live.

And I know along the way na wala kasi yung part of what you want.

Because alam mo sa sarili mo, you needed to prioritize everything that you guys need.

So I think this is the moment where you ask or when you ask yourself, Dani,

Ano ba yung gusto ko?

Ano ba yung gusto ni Dani?

Ano ba yung gusto ni Dani 30 years ago or 40 years ago before you had your family?

What was the dream, Dani?

Did you dream of having a house by the beach?

Over the mountains?

Having a place sa bukid ng sayo?

Having your own palayan?

Your own garden, palaisdaan?

Bumili ng car na maganda?

What was your dream?

I think this is where you should continue on with your life.

Do the things that you want.

Do not pressure yourself.

Doing something meaningful.

Just because you think na it's gonna give purpose to your life.

Huwag mo i-pressure yung sarili mo.

You need to do something extravagant para masabi-sabing you've lived your life to the fullest.

Sometimes, my love, yung stability na meron ka ngayon.

The family that you have.

The things that you have done.

That's how you know that you've lived your life a full 360.

When you look at them and you see how proud of them of you,

then you know that you've lived your life to the fullest.

So if you are asking me kung after everything,

nang nagawa mo, inagawa mo na,

where does life take you?

It will take you to a place where you and your wife

can enjoy the presence of your loved ones.

It will take you to a place where you and your wife

can enjoy the presence and company of each other.

Sabi ko nga sa inyo, hindi nyo kailangan ng extravagant experience para masabing you've lived your lives to the fullest.

Hindi nyo kailangan ng crazy travels, adventures,

craziest journeys in life.

Hindi lahat ng tao kailangan yun.

If it's not within your personality,

if you are more of a person na nag-enjoy ng quiet,

intimate place together with the people you love,

then you know you are giving yourself something that you want.

Kasi if there's one more thing worse than doing something you don't like,

it's doing something for the sake of other people.

According to their definition of happiness,

their definition of living life to the fullest.

So my love, huwag kang magpa-pressure ngayon, Danny.

I know you're tired.

I know you've been doing this for so long para sa pamilya mo,

but you are doing a great thing.

And you are doing great at it.

And if there's one thing na hindi nila mababawi sa'yo,

even if yung mga kaedaran mo eh right now nasa beach house

or sa ibang bansa enjoying the weather,

it's yung company ng family mo

waiting for you every single time you go home.

And you are about to celebrate a day to remember

how great you are of a dad in a few days' time

with the family you love and the family who loves you.

So my love, I know minsan kapag pagod tayo,

we are thinking that our life is meaningless,

purposelessness or basta walang purpose.

Purposeless.

Just because we are struggling.

Just because we are tired.

Pero ako na nagsasabi sa'yo na even if lahat ng meron ka

at medyo mahaba-haba pa yung tatakbuhin mo

para matapos lahat ng responsibilidad mo,

so the way you are doing it right now,

you won't be doing it alone for a very long time.

Sa galing mo as a father,

your kids will learn how to help each other,

help you.

Kaya huwag ka mag-alala, Danny.

Even if hindi ka mag-isip ng something for your future,

there are already three people

that you've sacrificed your life to

na nag-iisip ng future mo for you.

Klaro?

Klaro.