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BREAK AGAD?! | Byahe Sender (January 24, 2023) | Love Radio Manila
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So this one was sent to us over at our Facebook page, DJ Lala Banderas.
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Itago na lang natin siya sa pangalang Anne.
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My love, ito po ang biyahe ng buhay ni Anne.
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At itago na lang natin siya sa pangalang Anne.
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At itago na lang natin siya sa pangalang Anne.
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My love, ito po ang biyahe ng buhay ni Anne.
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Hello DJ Lala, isa ako sa avid fan mo.
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Ihigilig!
00:39.0
Kahit nung nasa ibang bansa pa ako, pinapanood kita sa YouTube.
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Sana mapansin mo itong message ko, tago mo na lang ako sa pangalang Anne.
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25 years old, galing ako sa 3 years LDR.
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Nag-end siya last November, last year.
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After 5 months, nag-start na akong mag-date-date.
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Hanggang sa May, nakilala ako.
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May nakilala ako, ayan.
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Naging kami for 1 month at tapos may nangyari sa amin.
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Nag-break po kami nung first month siya.
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Last month, nalaman ko I'm 1 month pregnant.
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Sinabi ko po sa kanya, tapos sabi niya, willing naman daw siyang panindigan.
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Mag-settle na daw kami.
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Ang problema po kasi DJ Lala, ang dahilan kung ba't kami nag-break nun,
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ay di ko naramdaman na mahal niya ako.
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Sinasabi niya, pero hindi sa gawa.
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Ngayon, ganun po uli siya eh.
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Ako po yung naguguluhan, pakiramdam ko po kasi,
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di rin kami magtatagal.
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Kasi ngayon, nakailangan ko ng pag-iintindi,
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siya pa yung may attitude sakin.
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Sinasabi niya na bipolar siya.
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Gusto ko siyang ngintindihin kasi gusto ko rin namang mag-settle with him.
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Pero di ko po kasi ramdam na mahal niya ako.
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Hindi ko maramdaman na ganun niya ako kagusto
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tulad ng feelings na meron ako para sa kanya.
02:08.0
Ano po ba kayang pwede kong gawin?
02:10.0
Minsan may pupapasok sa isip ko maging single mom na lang kaya ako
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kaysa ipinagpipilitan ko yung sarili ko sa taong hindi ako maramdaman
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o hindi ko maramdaman ng pagmamahal.
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Sana matawagan po niyo ako para ma-explain sa akin ng maayos.
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Aasahan ko po.
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My love, I cannot call you but I'll do one better.
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I'll do this.
02:34.0
Love, depende kasi ito sa definition mo of love.
02:38.0
Sabi ko nga sa inyo, ang lahat ng tao, we are uniquely formed.
02:43.0
Therefore, meron tayong unique ways of showing how we love a person.
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Meron tayong kanya-kanyang love languages kung tawagin.
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May mga taong vocal, may mga taong sakilos ipinararamdam,
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may mga taong hindi man nila masabi, hindi man nila magawa
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yung conventional type ng partner na very sweet, very romantic, very mushy.
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In their own little ways, they are trying.
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Trying to let you know that yung actions man nila may feel or may fell short.
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It doesn't define how much they love you.
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Ang hindi ko naiintindihan right now is ba't ako naiiyak?
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Bakit ako naiiyak?
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Pagod ba to?
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Ba't ako naiiyak? Hindi ko nagigets?
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Ako mismo sa sarili ko bakit ako maiiyak?
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Ba't ako affected?
03:53.0
Anyway, moving on kay Anna.
03:57.0
One month mo pa lang siya kilala.
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One month mo pa lang siyang nakakasama.
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One month pa lang siya nagroon ng chansa to show you how he loves a person.
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I want you to give him more chance.
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I want you to give this relationship more chance.
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You told me that you want this to work.
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That you want to settle down with him.
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So give it a shot.
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And when I say give it a chance, I'm not saying na sige, yun ang ginagawa ko.
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No, no, no, no.
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Commit.
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Commit ka dun sa part na giving him a chance.
04:35.0
I-set aside mo lahat ng prejudice mo sa kanya.
04:38.0
Set aside mo lahat ng opinions mo.
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Sa the way niya mag-act, sa the way niya mag-move, sa the way niya mag-express.
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Set aside mo yan ngayon.
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Mag-start ka from a clean slate.
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Kasi marami ng factors that you have to consider.
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Na maybe you are just being emotional.
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Kasi hormonal imbalance kung tawagin nila kapag pregnant ka.
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Parang may mga nag-heighten na mga hormones sa'yo.
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Maybe you are extra emotional now because you are pregnant.
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That's why you're overthinking things.
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I'm not saying it's a bad thing.
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But you have to consider it as well.
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It's our body.
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It's hard to explain.
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Hindi natin alam kunsan siya nang gagaling.
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But it's a girl thing.
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Just like kapag meron tayong dalaw for the month, we are extra sensitive.
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O diba?
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So maybe na-interpret natin yung things differently because of the condition ng physical body natin.
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The reason why I want you to give him a chance with a clean slate.
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Kasi I want you to see him for who he is.
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Not for what you want him to be.
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Kasi yun yung mahirap dun eh.
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If you have a certain expectation or standard of a boyfriend, of a partner, of a romantic partner.
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Then my love, nobody will ever pass sa'yo.
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Nobody will ever reach the standard that you have.
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Kasi kapag tinignan niyo sila, you are not looking at your partner for exactly who they are.
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You are expecting them to be someone they are not.
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That's unfair.
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And that's not a clean slate.
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So I want you to look at him on a different light.
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Tignan mo siya for everything, every little thing he does for you.
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Kasi imagine my love, parang ilang months lang kayo nagkakilala.
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Nag-break lang kayo after a month nang may nangyari sa'yo.
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Pero as soon as you told him that you are pregnant,
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that you are carrying his child, walang kabog-abog he told you,
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I will say yes to that child.
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I'll be the father of that child.
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With one condition, be with me.
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And that's not a hard bargain my love.
06:58.0
A lot of girls na nag-engage sa isang relationship na short, very brief,
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tapos merong nangyari, some girls hindi sila pinaninindigan,
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hindi nga sila pinaniniwalaan na kanila yung anak na yan.
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Pero siya, walang kabog-abog, tinanggap niya.
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Walang kabog-abog, inako niya.
07:23.0
And for that you have to give him a point.
07:26.0
Diba?
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Naging lalaki siya sa parting yun.
07:30.0
He was man enough to be responsible.
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He was man enough to be responsible for what he did.
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He is not even asking for any proof na siya talaga yung ama na yan.
07:45.0
Kasi one month lang kayo nagsama eh.
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Some people might say na, oh one month lang kayo nagsama, may nabuo agad.
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Diba? May mga taong ganun eh.
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My love, there are harsh people out there.
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And I want to believe that you are with a good one right here.
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Meron man siyang shortcomings, meron man siyang flaws.
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Like yung sinabi niya nga na bipolar siya.
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At least aminado siya. Diba?
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He is fully aware na he is not as emotional stable or emotionally stable as everyone are.
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Pero he is trying, my love.
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The fact na inopen up niya yun sa'yo, the fact na inamin niya yun sa'yo,
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ibig sabihin meron siyang intention to change.
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May intention siya to be better.
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May intention siya to let you know na I am aware.
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So give me time until ma-reach ko yung point na maayos ko to.
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I think yun yung kulang sa inyong dalawa, my love.
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Time to get to know each other.
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And there is no better way to do that than this nine months na dadalhin mo yung anak niya in your womb.
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Having him there beside you is the perfect way to get to know this person.
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Not only as a man, not only as a partner, but as a father to your child.
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So again, my love, give this love a chance.
09:16.0
Maybe in the process of giving him so, medyo ilower mo yung standard of love na meron ka.
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I'm not saying na ilower mo yung standard mo sa person kasi diba parang ang sinasabi ng lahat ay
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kailangan niyang i-reach yung standard na yan.
09:36.0
If he is a real man, you are a queen, he needs to be a king to be partnered to you.
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I know a lot of people is saying that.
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There's even a quote for that.
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Pero my love, this is real life.
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Maybe we should set aside expectations and know a person for who they really are and accept and embrace them
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before we say na we love them.
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Kasi that is what love should be.
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Accepting a person for who they are, not for what they can become.
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Naintindihan mo ko my love, and whomever that person or version may be, yung magiging outcome ng pagsasama ninyo,
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yung version niya after nyo maging together for a very long time, that my love is a product of your relationship.
10:33.0
That version of him is a product of your relationship, of your presence in his life.
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That is the reason why I want you to give this a chance.
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Kasi I don't want you to regret your decision.
10:46.0
There's nothing wrong in being a single mom.
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I applaud all the single mom out there.
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I love their strength, I love their character.
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Gusto ko yung tapang nila, yung grit nila sa life.
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Pati yung pagmamahal nilang unconditional sa mga anak nila.
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I love single mom.
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I applaud them.
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Saludo ko sa kanila.
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Pero that doesn't mean you have to be.
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Kung meron ka namang option not to.
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Naintindihan mo ko my love?
11:23.0
So kung medyo some kinda, right now you cannot feel anything from this guy, you cannot feel spark,
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hindi mo maramdaman yung hinahanap mong effort, hindi mo mahanap yung gusto mong initiation mula sa kanya.
11:41.0
Open up.
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Communicate with your partner.
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Ilang beses ko na ito sinabi sa programa natin.
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Uulitin ko ulit my love.
11:51.0
Hindi sila mangkuhula.
11:52.0
Let's tell them what we want.
11:54.0
They will do it.
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Tanggalin natin yung perception sa mga utak nating they are only doing it because we asked them to.
12:01.0
No, they are doing that because they love you.
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Kasi even if they hate it, even if they can't, they will try.
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Because that will make you happy.
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Because that means a lot to you.
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That's the reason why they are doing it.
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Same reason why we're doing things for them.
12:19.0
We're doing things for them not because sa girlfriend nila tayo, that's what they expect.
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We're doing that because we want to please them.
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Because we love them.
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Because seeing them happy makes us happy.
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So ganun din yun.
12:35.0
Diba? Kung meron kayong gusto mula sa mga partners ninyo, it's 2023.
12:40.0
Come on, just say it.
12:41.0
Sabihin nyo na lang sa kanila na hey, I know na medyo marami akong magiging demand.
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Kasi pregnant ako, there are a lot of things I want.
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And these are the things I want from you.
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I want you to be sweeter.
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Can you do that?
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Gusto kong maging vocal ka.
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I know it's petty but I want you telling me that you love me.
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I know it's petty but I want holding hands.
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I want to cuddle.
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Gusto ko ng hug.
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Gusto kong mag-date.
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Gusto ko yun.
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It makes me happy.
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Can we do that?
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Now, pag sinabi ng boyfriend mo, huwag naman lagi.
13:20.0
Then fine, haggle.
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Di ba? Compromise.
13:25.0
Yan yung mga basic principles ng relationships eh.
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Compromise, adjusting to one another, getting to know what you want, getting to know what he wants.
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Give and take.
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Basic principle ng isang relationship.
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Do that, my love.
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Kapag ginawa mo na yan for a specific span of time, sabihin na natin sa duration ng nine months.
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At pagdating nung duration ng nine months na yun, pagdating sa dulo, wala ka pa rin talagang naramdaman.
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Wala pa rin talaga.
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Nga nga.
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Wala.
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Wala kang nakuha.
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Walang kilig.
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Walang anything.
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Then, saka mo sabihin sa sarili mo na I think this is not gonna work.
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Not because we did not try, not because hindi natin binigyan ng oras yung isa't isa, but because we're just two different people.
14:19.0
Hindi talaga tayo fit together.
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That's when you say that.
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Pero hanggat hindi mo pa natatry lahat, hanggat hindi mo pa binibigyan ng chance ah itong relationship na to,
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hanggat hindi mo pa to binibigyan ng time to flourish like any other flower to bloom,
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then my love, it's too soon to tell.
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Nintindihan mo ko, Anne?
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Sometimes, you have to be patient.
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You have to be patient and wait until the flower blooms for you to see how beautiful it is.
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Just like how a relationship should be.
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It gets better with time.
14:59.0
Klaro?
15:00.0
Klaro.


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