Long-time Married Couples Play a Lie Detector Drinking Game | Filipino | Rec•Create
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My name is Vanessa.
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We've been married for 10 years.
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We've been married for 6 years.
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15 years together.
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Going on 9 years marriage.
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2010 kami kinasal.
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Alright, so how has your marriage been so far?
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Okay naman. Napagtitiis.
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Grabe mo sa magpatitiis.
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Yeah, I know. Well...
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Married life for us has been really great.
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Especially that, you know,
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I married my best friend.
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Actually, mas madaming nagbago nung married na.
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Pero yung kalukuan na doon pa rin.
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Especially nung nagka-kids na kami, medyo...
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Hindi, ano yung gaani namin eh.
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So, lagi kami nag-aaway.
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Anna siya kasi introvert siya.
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Ako naman, very social.
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May hirap nakisama pagbungagi.
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Kumalmakay dito open forum.
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Mamaya pag nakainom na, makikita niyo.
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Alright. So, today we're going to test your relationship as a married couple
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with a lie detector and a set of question cards.
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Shot naman na tayo ba eh?
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Question number one.
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Do I contribute enough to the household?
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Ang sakit na ito.
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Oh my gosh. I think so.
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Oh, grabe ka naman.
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Parang may pagdududa ka.
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May detector yan. Sabi ko na nga ba eh.
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Yes naman. Siyempre, ang contribution hindi naman puro peri.
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Siyempre, yung presence mo.
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Wow! Ano ka, eye candy ka na?
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Well, kasi hati kami ng chore. So, ako yung sa kids and then siya yung mostly sa mga house chores, sa bahay.
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That's why I was a bit hesitant to answer it.
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Because she can't really contribute that much.
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In terms of yung chores and stuff.
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Because she's the one who's working more than I do.
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Yeah, and I'm lazy.
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But it's okay. I'm not complaining.
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Because when you get home from work and you're tired,
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I have to be the one to massage your feet.
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Pag ako lang ang nasa bahay, tahimik lahat.
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Pero pag siyang nasa bahay, parang may palengke.
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Na-embrace siya talaga yung paliging nanay.
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Pati yung pagbabato ng sinela, sa mga ganyan.
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Pagkakabal ng ano.
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Magpupunta yung maniniwala.
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Hindi kompleto ang bahay.
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Siyempre, yun yung contribution mo.
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Is there anything you found out about me
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that you didn't like after we got married?
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Kailangan mong pag-usapan to.
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I have one answer.
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Just say yes or no.
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Sabi ko sa'yo yun dito, open forum.
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So, if I get shot, I'm lying.
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Ibig sabihin, gusto mo ako.
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Nauungkat na yung mga nakaraan.
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Hindi kasi siya marunong magsaing dati.
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Hindi, totoo talaga.
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Marunong magsaing.
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Eh, wag kang ano sa amin.
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Tapos ngayon ka lang natutong maglaba.
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Marunong maglaba, hindi lang sa standards mo.
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Yes, because I didn't know that he didn't like traveling before we got married.
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There was an activity, the cliff diving in Boracay, di ba?
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He didn't allow me to go.
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Sabi ko, what if you hit a rock?
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And it was my first time.
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Because I've been single my whole life.
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He's my first boyfriend.
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So, for me, what the heck?
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You're telling me not to do something.
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I'm not used to this.
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But as you said, boyfriend pa lang nung time na, you could've backed out.
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Marami talagang bagay na makikilala ka kapag kasama mo nasa household.
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Mano siya, selosa siya masyado, tapos mayigpit siya masyado.
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Matatandaan mo rin naman yun, masasanay ka rin.
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Yung hindi naliligo na ilang araw pa nasa van.
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Be, work from home tayo.
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Ito yung kilikili mo pala.
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Next time, iba nalang recreate niyo.
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Huwag na yung mag-asaan.
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Meron ka bang sexual fantasy na gusto mong subukan?
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Kahit ngayon lang, kahit ngayon lang.
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You, you told the truth again?
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Why, you want me to have some fantasies?
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Kasama mo ba yung ano, like, yung mile high, like you're having sex dun sa airplane?
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Ah, gusto ko try yan eh.
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Hindi, tingnan natin kung kaya.
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We, ah, take a detour, go around back.
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Sabi ko na nga, gusto mo nga magiging vegetarian muna for a month.
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Anong kinanaman ng gulay dun?
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Naku, i-research mo.
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Namumula ako, nahihiyakan.
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Hindi kakata naman alam.
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Hindi natin sure.
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May pinirman tayo, di natin sure.
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Sa tingin mo ba, nagagawa mo pa rin yung gusto mo even after years of marriage?
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Yes, except traveling.
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Oo naman, nagagawa ko, pero kailangan muna natin mag-away.
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At least nagawa mo.
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I told the truth.
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Hindi, hindi tayo iba.
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Oh my God, wala pa talaga.
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Bakit kaya puro sinumaling?
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Aray ko, hindi daw.
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Bila naman pata ako nagpa-install ng ano.
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Nang tambucha sa sasakyan.
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Para lang po every time naaalis ka.
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Medyong matagal na rin ka pala, like half of our lives, we've been together.
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Ang dami kong gustong gawin talaga, nag-photography, nag-motor, ang dami talaga.
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Ang ganda lang sa amin is kung ano yung gusto ko, sinusuportahan niya and vice versa.
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Kahit nga itong buho ko eh, sinuportahan niya.
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And also, she has her own thing, I have my own thing.
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So, we still do have a sense of this is me and that's you.
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And we don't interfere.
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I think the problem is when you say, oh I don't want you to do that if it's without me.
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Iba kasi yung trip niya eh.
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Ma-adventure siya.
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Bike, lahat ng anong.
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Pero nagagawa pa rin niya.
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Nervyosa kasi ito, nervyosa.
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Nagagawa pa rin naman niya.
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If I died, do you think you would remarry?
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We talked about this na.
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And you said after an appropriate number of years.
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That's not what I said.
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That's from how I met your mother.
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Bakit po ka tinaglag?
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Matagal pa naman siya mamamatay eh.
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Mababa pa buhay eh.
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Kasi masamang tao siya.
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Ba't parang napipilitang na?
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Amaya magtatampo yan.
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Baka, siguro ano lang.
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Mga casual hookups lang.
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Ang sinapogi mo yun.
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But I answered you.
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We were just talking about this.
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I can't imagine remarrying.
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Especially right now.
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We have two kids.
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So, I'll just spend my,
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the remaining life
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dun sa dalawang kids namin na nag-girl.
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we will never know kung anong mangyari
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Huwag mo kumanggama si Papa P.
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Talagang pakakasalan ko yun.
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nag-re-research ako ng mga terminologies
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Syempre, hanap ka pa rin ng...
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Hanap ka pa rin ng
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Ganun ba yung mga tawag ngayon?
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Ngayon, yung nakita ko sa Facebook.
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Ask them anything that can be answered
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with a yes or no.
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I can ask you anything.
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Do you still find me sexy?
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I tell you that every day.
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I'm not even kidding.
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Man, you better not shock me now.
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It didn't shock me the whole time
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and if it did right there,
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May babaguhin ka pa since 2009?
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Nung naging tayo?
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Sa sitwasyon natin?
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Ah, sige, sige, sige.
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Yes, yes, yes, yes.
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Pagka naging lay,
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ibig sabihin perfect.
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Wala na mo gagawin ka po.
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Aray, putang ina.
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mag-re-modulate muna tayo
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before tayo nagkaanak.
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Parang I just wish
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na I could have given more.
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Lalo na yung sa mga
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hard times natin.
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Bakit wala tayong gas
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pero naka-buttered shrimp?
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pagkasama mong pamilya ko?
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binersonal ako dito.
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Sabi ko sa'yo eh.
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Alam na alam ko yan.
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Minsan lang iba yung trip nila
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Pero nagkakasyon doon kami
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Kasi malakas talaga kaming...
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Inom ka mag-chismis
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Malakas talaga kaming
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May pagsisisi ka ba?
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Grabe yung pagsisisi.
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Yung word na pagsisisi.
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May pagsisisi ka ba
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Pag nagkamali ka,
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thank you very much.
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leaving the premises.
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umahok ng budget.
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decision-making is
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napag-uusapan naman natin.
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di naman one-sided
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yung relationship natin.
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Palitan nyo na po yun
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sa kanilang episode na to eh.
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Do you think our love
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since we got married?
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Pero sa magandang ano,
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May nagsabi ka rin maganda.
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Mamaya mo nalang explain.
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Pag nakuryente ka na.
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Sana kahit to lang,
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pinasinungalingan.
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ko tama nagsinungalingan naman ako.
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Nagbago in terms of
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deeper yung feelings.
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Dati kasi talaga,
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konting paalam ko,
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sobrang immature.
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parang bata pa rin.
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thing that they call the
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The butterflies in the stomach.
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After being married for,
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we're almost 7 years married na
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It's not like that
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I'll be honest with you guys.
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And that's not a bad thing.
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It does get better.
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mas nag-iisip na kami ng
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kung ano ba yung pwede naman ipondar
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like nung nag-30s na kami,
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nakilala namin yung
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Managkaroon kami ng time
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magpapatatag sa ano,
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If nakafocus lang kayo sa
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kids yun sa work,
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hindi mo mamamalayan
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like after 5-10 years,
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you don't know your husband.
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nagpapasyaya sa kanila
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Sana yun yung ginawa ko
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You know, at the end
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kayo pa rin naman eh.
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Because the kids will have
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their own family.
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Hindi pa ko ready.
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Even with the smallest
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do not keep it inside.
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Don't tell yourself na
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And then after a while,
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and then it just stacks on
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many other things.
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mahirap na pag ganun.
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So, always communicate.
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I agree with you.
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Sana sakyan mo lang
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lagi yung trip ko
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Hindi lang naman.
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Hindi lang yung sasakyan ko.
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Nak, matulog ka na.
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Wala na akong time
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Yun yung isipin mo, no?
