JOO'S TIBAY STORY: On Autism, Life Learnings, and His Progress Journey - anneclutzVLOGS
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His autism diagnosis,
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how we found out,
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anong science yung mga nakita namin,
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which made us seek help, and so on.
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Gusto ko rin mag-focus generally sa mga bagay na nakatulong sa amin
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to make us more equipped to be able to help Drew.
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Dahil autism is not a one-time thing
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or a phase na pwedeng makalakihan ng bata.
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So this is the story of Drew
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and paano namin siya pinapalaki
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ng may tibay na matuto sa buhay.
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Believe it or not guys ha,
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si Drew, never namin siya nakita nang science
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up until he was two to three years old, mga ganyan.
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Namit niya lahat ng tibay, milestones,
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And you guessed it right, yung pagsasalita niya.
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He was one happy, healthy,
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and matibay na baby.
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Okay yung appetite niya.
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Very active at nagsasayaw.
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Nagre-react siya when called.
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Matalino rin pag tinatanong namin
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Sumasagot talaga siya enthusiastically.
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At pag nagdadadal din,
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though hindi namin ma-recognize yung mga words,
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yun lang pag may need siya,
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talagang hinahatap niya kami,
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tapos turo sa gusto niya.
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As you may now know,
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si Drew ay may unilateral cleft lip din.
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Pero hindi affected yung kanyang palate.
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Na-repair yung kanyang cleft lip
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when he was eight months old.
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On April 15, 2019.
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Tandang-tanda ko pa.
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Actually, second deaf-ped assessment na ito ni Drew.
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First one was a year before.
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Sabi sa amin ay baka language delay lang
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kasi nga may eye contact si Drew.
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Okay yung facial expressions niya.
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Nakaka-follow siya ng simple commands.
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In short, walang nakitang autistic tendencies sa kanya
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Pero nagpa-second opinion kami
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kasi nga it became challenging
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for us to communicate with Drew.
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Drew was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder.
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Ang severity is level 3,
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which means he requires very substantial support.
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This time medyo expected din namin
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kasi mag-four years old na siya,
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pero di pa niya na-hit yung milestone
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of being able to speak a full sentence.
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Challenging din for him
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to be in noisy environments.
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Tinatakpan niya talaga yung tenga niya
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at di niya kami tinatawag na mama at papa.
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Challenge din for him na makipaglaro
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and makipag-socialize
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with other kids his age.
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So yun, after yung diagnosis na yun,
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sobrang naging hectic na yung schedule niya.
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Yung therapy niya, back to back na yan.
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OT, speech, ABA, SPED.
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Until now, na kahit na nagsa-school na siya,
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patuloy pa rin yung tibay ng loob namin
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as we support him because it can help him.
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Sobrang bilib na bilib din ako kay Drew,
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and proud ako na he's strong enough
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to also help himself
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by consistently attending his sessions.
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Challenging for us,
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and most especially for Drew,
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pero nandun pa rin yung happy Drew
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And in addition to the learnings
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that he gets from the therapy,
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regardless how many times he spent doon,
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iba pa rin ang mga learnings
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na kukuha ng mga bata through us parents.
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Hindi matatapos sa school or sa therapies,
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in our case, yung learnings, di ba?
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Kaya we as parents, you know,
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andito lang tayo lagi para gabayan sila
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sa kahit anong sitwasyon
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para may tibay silang matuto sa buhay.
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Kasi itong learnings na may encounter nila,
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dadalhin nila yun hanggang sa pagtanda nila.
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Madalas natin naririnig yung,
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yan tayo sa mga anak natin.
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We make them feel safe
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and tayo ang magbibigay ng tibay
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ng kanilang pundasyon bilang tao.
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Having a kid with autism,
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let's be real here,
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Emotionally, physically, financially,
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pero since tayo ang rock
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ng mga kids natin,
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hindi tayo pwedeng basta-basta bumigay.
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Kailangan matibay tayo.
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Tibay na gawin ng tama,
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tibay patibay ng loob,
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at tibay na di madaling sumuko.
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I know that Drew sees and learns from his parents
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since, hello, we spend a lot of time together.
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So through my actions,
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I try to show him those values.
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Because it's important to raise him
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as a batang matibay.
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Despite the challenges of autism,
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kasi tayo ang role model ng kids natin.
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At bilang awesome mom,
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hangad ko syempre na matuto sa buhay
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Lahat naman tayong mga magulang, di ba?
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Syempre kasama na rin dun,
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madating maging matibay ang katawan ng mga bata.
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Pagbibigay ng tamang nutrisyon,
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gaya ng pagkain ng healthy,
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like fruits and vegetables,
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pag-iinom ng milk for stronger bones and immune system,
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pagkakaroon ng regular physical activity,
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We won't be here forever.
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We won't be here forever.
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So might as well we give our very best
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habang andito pa tayo.
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With Drew being on the spectrum,
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ang focus namin right now is for him to grow up
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na isang batang matibay,
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to learn to take care of himself,
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yung simpleng matuto siya na gawin yung mga basic needs niya,
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like yung pagkain,
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paghugas ng kamay,
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pagbihis ang damit.
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Right now, yan ang goals namin,
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na lumaking matibay si Drew like other kids.
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It may be simple to some,
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pero it is a big deal for kids in the spectrum.
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And we're so proud that Drew is slowly,
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but surely learning to be independent.
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Kahit sa other responsibilities niya,
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like yung simpleng pagtulong sa kusina,
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sa pag-aalaga ng kapatid niya,
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at pagpapakita rin niya ng tibay as a kuya,
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yung pagliligpit ng toys.
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Yung maging self-aware siya,
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at masasabi niya yung feelings niya,
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para he will know how to solve it.
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For example, kung hungry siya,
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Kung thirsty, edy drink water.
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With that tibay na di madaling sumuko,
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even for simple problem solving,
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madagrasp niya yun, next step natin
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is yung responsible decision making na niya,
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na madadala niya hanggang sa pagtanda niya.
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Ayon guys, I hope na may natutunan kayo
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kahit papano sa about Drew story,
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and how we are currently managing.
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Sana ma-inspire ang mga parents
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in the same situation as us.
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And if you can, feel free to share your story
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as well sa comment section.
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Thank you, thank you so much for watching
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Very special itong part na ito for us.
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My Chirru, Chirru!
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Good morning, baby!
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Alam niyo, ang galing niya na umupo.
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Teka lang ha, punasan muna natin
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yung mouth mo ha.
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Ayos yung hair mo ngayon ha.
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Hi guys, good morning!
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Come on, come on, come on.
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Huwag ka na tumingin sa camera.
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Kaya muna, deadmau5 sila.
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Yeah, what's this?
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Tingnan niyo na yung mouth.
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Ang lakas naman yung baby na yun.
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Gusto na maglakad ha.
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Can you hold the ball?
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Wow, taste the ball.
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Nakatayo na yan ha?
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Tingnan niyo, minimal na lang yung ano to.
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Baka maging katulad ka ni Kuya Ju
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na una yung maglakad e.
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Hindi na gumapang, Kuya.
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Hindi gano'n siya masyadong inaalala yan.
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Nakaupulang siya.
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Nagaling mo na umupula ba?
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Konting embot na lang bae.
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Kaya manong stabilize, no?
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Oh, saktan ko na.
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Lahat-lahat, bae.
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Oh, gigil na yan, oh.
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Gigil na yan, oh.
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Nakikita ko na yung dalawang ngipin, oh.
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Syarap, syarap yung ball na yan, ah.
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Ano ba to yung umaga?
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Marigels na yung dito, oh bae.
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Oo nga, I'm getting old.
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Your mama is getting old, ah.
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Huwag mo saktan yung sarili mo, bae.
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Where's the ball?
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Oh, gagling kami.
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Is that you, my papa?
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Is that my father?
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Nginitihan na naman kay Jiro.
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Ah, nanggang dito, oh.
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Late kami ni mama.
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Yabaw, nakasandal na, oh.
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Nakasandal lang yan sa akin, oh.
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Parang hindi, anong ah, five months?
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Anong day ka pala ngayon?
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Ano seven months?
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Five months na ako!
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Five months na ako!
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Karami, five months na yun?
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Kahapan nanalad ako nun nung nananak ako.
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Yung vlog nung nananak ako.
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Five months na yun, bae!
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Ang bilis naman, bae.
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Bilis talaga ng panahonan, oh.
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Hindi din siyang, anong, ginitignan niya lagi,
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ano, kung kung, kumakaway daw, eh.
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Hindi din siya sagaling.
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Hindi din namin gumawa!
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Pinag-aaralan na.
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High five ka na kay papa dan, eh!
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Ayan na dyan na yung lugaw?
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Okay guys, we're gonna eat muna.
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Amaze na amaze talaga siya sa ganyan.
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We're gonna eat. Ayan na. Sige look at your hand.
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Tapos close open.
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Like that. Close open.
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Oh! Gamit na natin yung ano.
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Oh! Diba? Ang cute ng bowl.
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Ayan. Guys, kung nag-a-crave
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kayo ng lugaw ha, order na
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Hindi mo pa napwesto yung kanak mo panin.
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Narinig niya kasi yung
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kanak sa nabas. Miak.
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Napwesto ko lang yan.
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Oh! Iliwan mo na.
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Kumuha kasi yung mga tuta.
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Mashoot yung mulo sa
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Ang galing mga cartoon.
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Oh! Ito na guys yun o.
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Yung tamatis natin o.
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Ano yun sa'yo? May bunga na?
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Wala pa. Wala pa?
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Sa'n kaya pwede ilagay ito?
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Yung naaarawan talaga siya.
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Love, sa'n pwede ilagay ito?
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Yung tinanim namin ni Jeya o.
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Sarap mag-swimming Britney o.
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Nasa wala si Kuya Ju.
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Paan dyan yung pagkahain? Ano pang ginagawa yun?
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ang kutuloy nila.
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Can you say that?
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feeling. How does
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How does Teacher JB feel, Ju?
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Happy. How does Teacher JB
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Okay. Here's your
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remote. Okay, very good.
14:22.6
Gato rin pinu-massage siya.
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Andan pa sila sa taas kasi tinutuluan si Regine
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mag-massage kay Ju.
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Yung dito sa face
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para lumambot ang jaw.
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Hindi ko pala napakita sa inyo to guys.
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Napakita ko nga sa inyo. Ito yung giveaway namin.
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Gawa to ni Babina Balloons.
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Naka-discount si Babina.
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Sabihin nyo lang ang Antroots.
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Merong kayong 10% discount sa mga
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homesite na setup or
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yung mga ganitong klaseng products.
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Meron tayong candle diyan.
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Tapos yung kandila. Kasi
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Ninang niya to hindi na naka-abot e.
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Pero galing US. Ayun Ninang, honey.
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Papadala namin to ngayon. Thank you
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Nablasan niyan. Oo. Yung kandila
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ni Jiro. Kasi sabi ni father
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pag may sakit yung bata
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yung pala yung sisindihan niyang
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kandila na yan ng mga nino
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yung Ninang. Tapos kaya ninyo sa amin
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mas malaki. So every time na may sakit
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kagaya niya niya sa surgery siya
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sisindihan yung kanyang
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sisindihan yung kanyang
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kandila para ano.
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so ayun. Ay yung ganitong
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kandila pala. Sige ilalagay ko yung
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Facebook. CNC shop
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sa Facebook. Pero lahat to
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inasikaso yun ni Sarina.
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Yung pagdesign nito.
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Yung candle. Alam ko yung candle binili niya
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yung balay ng itay ito e. Ayan.
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Kay Mareng Mean. So ayun lang.
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Mamaya unbox ko yung regalo ni
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Ninang Honey ni Jiro.
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Diba anong kami sa dining? Sa baba?
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Natakot ako. Oh my gosh!
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Si Jiro. Nung pinasa ni Papa
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Cory si Jiro. Hala.
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Alam niyo para hindi siya makahinga.
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Tapos tinignan ko yung sa bibig. Merong
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malaki. Yung chunk ng
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namuong gatas. Ay naman ako.
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Syempre nagano kaagad ako.
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Yung tinanggal kaagad yung nasa
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bibig. Tapos pinatagilid ko.
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Tapos tinuroan ko na lang din si
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Yaya Cory niya na pag
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naulit yun. Yan dito.
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Titignan muna yung sa bibig.
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Yung para isa swipe sa loob.
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Kung merong something. Kasi baka mamaya
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hindi makahinga. Tapos sabi ko
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patagilirin mo. Tapos tawagin mo ko agad-agad.
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Sabi ko. Ay my gosh!
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Kailangan ko yata mag
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mag refresher ko sa ano.
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Yung mga basic na CPR
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na ganyan ako dati sa
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Red Cross. Tapos may isa pa pati ALS
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kasi kaso syempre
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matagal na yun. Nakalimutan ko. Nabaka obsolete
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na yung nalalaman ko
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What did you put?
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Do you want more?
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Chu is doing a great job.
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Something's missing.
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What do you think?
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What do you think guys?
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Si Jiro dun magswimming.
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Ian ako muna to. Lagyan mo muna
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You want to swim?
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Oh my God! Ang lamig na! Oh my God!
18:08.6
May yelo! Kaya gusto ko na
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ipaheated po nito.
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Swimming! Gusto ko yan
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On the blue turn!
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Mamakaan niya ako!
19:14.6
Maka matipa yung kulay nang dun.
19:16.6
May oil? May oil yan?
19:20.6
Sokto yung sa decathlon.
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Ba't dati warm? Ba't dati warm daw?
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Dati warm daw. Ay! Ang cold na!
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Ang warm yung sa kakaitay.
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Ano yung reaksyon?
19:52.6
Ano yung reaksyon?
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Naka-adjust na siya.
20:28.6
Kanina nilalamig ba siya?
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Once na naka-adjust naman.
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Ayan nakaligo na ako.
20:54.6
Actually kanina pa, kaso nag-upload kasi ako sa main channel.
20:56.6
Nag-upload din ako ng vlog.
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Kaya I'm back! Hello!
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Yung pwede ko lang hatiin yung katawan ko para
21:02.6
abang nag-upload ako eh.
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Nung may nag-u-vlog.
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unbox nga tayo kasi
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Thank you so much, Maring Honey!
21:16.6
Pakamusta nilang kay Eric,
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kay Kuya D, Ate Hanna,
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This one is for Jeru!
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Ang pagi naman ako dito, kulay green!
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Wala ba siyang green?
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Thank you so much,
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Ang cute na yung shoes!
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Pero matagal pa nito magagamit.
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Siguro one year old pa.
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Ang cute! Oh my goodness!
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Ito naman for Kuya D!
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Ang ganda ng tela!
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Ako magugustuhan din to ni Papa.
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Si Papa ganito lagi yung mga gustong
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damitan. Ano ba to? Parang may ganito na nga si Papa.
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Ideology? Ideology.
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Ay, ang cute! Big bro!
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And my born shorts.
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Ba tawag dito? Yan.
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Thank you, Honey!
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At may Kate Spade. Siguro kayo
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Ate Jeya ito. Oh, ate
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Ate Jeya! Salamat!
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Lalagyan ng maliit
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ng coin purse and
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lalagyan ng card. Uy!
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O, di ba may $1 na siya.
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Kaya pag nagbigay kayo ng wallet, lalagyan nyo
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lagi ng ano, pera, ha?
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Magkano lang, parang sabi
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pang paswerte daw yan.
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Pero alam niya na, iniwala ako doon.
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At never kong tinatanggalan ng kahit
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piso yung wallet ko. Huwag nyong
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sisimutin. Okay, so
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ayun lang. Likpitin ko muna ito.
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Wow, si Sir! Sarap!
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Ang lakas talaga kumain ito ngayon, ano?
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Kanina doon eh. So ang tuwa kami habang
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nagtatanghalian. Ang lakas siya kumain.
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Lalo ng pagsabaw.
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O, pagsabaw talaga. Ay, naku nakain niya.
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Lalo nung pag may sabaw.
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Soup and rice siya.
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At ito guys, try mo shawarma.
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Nakita mo na yung dine-in nila?
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May dine-in sila, Along Regalado.
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Anong meron siya? O, pero hindi pa siya
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bukas. Nakikita, nadadaanan lang namin
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kasi may gate pa sa harap eh.
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Hindi ba yung dati pa?
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Parang bagong-bago pa yung sign eh.
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Hindi, kasi magpunta dito.
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Ah, ganun ba? Hindi ka ba nakapunta dati?
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Along Regalado. Meron na silang
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sign na pula sa labas, yun ba yun?
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Yung tagot nakapunta rando.
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Hindi, Regalado, hindi yung salagro loob ah.
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Ah, hindi ba dun sa labas?
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Sa Regalado talaga.
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Ayun, comment down below
23:54.6
sa mga taga dito na nakita yun.
23:56.6
Ano ba, bago ba yun? O renovation lang?
24:00.6
kabibili ko lang nung suot ni Jiru.
24:04.6
Saktong-sakta na naman sa kanya.
24:06.6
As in parang, wala
24:08.6
ng isang buwan niyang masusuot.
24:10.6
Ang bilis lumukay ni Jiru.
24:12.6
Ang bilis niya humaba.
24:14.6
Ay, sabi ni, inulit na naman
24:16.6
nga ni Doktora nung last na check-up
24:18.6
sabi niya, alam mo kung magiging 6-footer
24:20.6
itong anak niya kung tuloy-tuloy yung
24:22.6
pagtangkad, sabi niya.
24:24.6
Grabe talaga, nakakagulat siya.
24:26.6
Parang nag-pass na siya ng
24:28.6
kalahati ng higaan eh.
24:30.6
Yung sa ano ah, pag, I mean,
24:32.6
pag nakahiga siya ng horizontally.
24:44.6
Ito na yung donut natin.
24:46.6
Ito yung pangalawang pinuntahan namin, guys.
24:48.6
Kasi bandang kaloka na yun, guys.
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So pwede namin ipasok si Ilugawan doon.
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Ah, nahihiyak ako.
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There, this is siya.
