Breaking Free from GREED: A Step-by-Step Guide to Overcoming the Love of Money | Chinkee Tan
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Hi there! This is Chinky Tan, your Pambansang World Coach.
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Para sa ito na ito, we are starting a series called Breaking Free Series.
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This is part of the Breaking Free Series.
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And today, we are going to talk about the topic of greed.
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But before we talk about that, mga friendship, let me ask you,
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So, let's talk about greed.
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It's a powerful emotion na pwedeng pakilusin ang isang taon
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at gumawa ng mga bagay na hindi normal sa kanya.
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At kapag hindi natin naagapan to,
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eh, makakasira to ng buhay.
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Pag may greed tayo sa buhay, honestly,
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nagkakaroon tayo ng sense of unfulfillment.
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At the same time, ang feeling mo talaga,
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yung parang kulang, parating kulang,
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kahit na kumita ka na,
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na dagdagan ng kita mo compared to before,
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pero feeling mo kulang pa rin.
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And then, there's what we call as, to the point,
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na pumunta ka sa borderline,
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yung tinatawag natin,
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unethical and immoral behavior.
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Like, for example,
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hindi ka na nagsasabi ng totoo,
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wala ka ng pakialam sa ibang tao.
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In the process, it damaged relationships.
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And then, for some people naman,
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because of, again, greed,
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because you want more.
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Again, ang nangyayari po niyan,
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nagkakaroon ka ng financial problems,
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kasi, you take a lot of risk.
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And finally, it's making a negative impact
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on your mental, emotional, financial health.
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you are living in a state of depression.
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If I just describe your situation,
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may good news po ako,
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you can still break free from greed.
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Sa pagsunod ng greed na acrostic na ito,
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I made an acrostic called,
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So, ito po yung step-by-step guide na gagawin po natin.
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So, if you have paper and pen,
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I highly recommend that you take down notes.
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if you want to really break free from greed,
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practice gratitude.
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It's important po,
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na magkaroon tayo ng gratitude.
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You know what gratitude can do?
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Gratitude can turn what we have into enough.
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Kung anong meron ka,
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Yan ang tanong sa akin,
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actually, ito lang ah,
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confession time tayo.
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One time, yung pastor po namin,
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ininvite ako sa bahay nila.
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Pagkatapos, nung ininvite na ako sa bahay nila,
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Kamusta business? Mabuti.
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Kamusta pamilya? Mabuti.
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Kamusta naman ang spiritual life mo?
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okay naman business,
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okay naman yung ano.
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So, in other words,
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masyado ako nakonsume sa business
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sa ibang ginagawa ko.
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Pero yung spiritual aspect,
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medyo tinamaan po ako.
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Kaya nga tinanong sa akin ng pastor ko,
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during that time was this,
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how much is enough?
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So, para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig.
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Kaya nga, alam mo,
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from that day on,
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I just remind myself,
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every single day up to this day,
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how much is enough?
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Kaya para sa mga taong naging katulad ko rin,
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o pinagdadaanan mo,
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being grateful and thankful.
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Magpasalamat ka with what you have right now.
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And then, ito yung next tip ko sa iyo,
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Huwag mong bilangin yung mga bagay na wala ka.
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Bilangin mo kung anong meron ka.
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And the question is,
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paano ka magpapractice ng gratitude?
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Alam mo, araw-araw,
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paggising mo lang sa umaga,
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magpasalamat na kay Lord,
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Lord, maraming salamat na gising pa ako,
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yung pamilya ko okay,
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kahit wala ka masyadong pera.
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Magpasalamat ka sa mga taong
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na mahalaga sa iyo sa buhay,
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na tumutulong po sa inyo,
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kahit sa isipan mo lang.
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in prayer or meditation,
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basta every single day,
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huwag kang magreklamo.
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Be thankful and grateful.
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That can help you to cure greed.
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Let's go to letter R.
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Realize your worth.
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Alam mo, may quote nga si Maya Angelou.
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Ang ganda naman ito.
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Ang ibig sabihin po,
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hindi mahalaga kung anong meron ka.
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kung ano yung pinagdaanan mo
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at pinagtagumpayan mo sa buhay.
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Ang worth ng isang tao,
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hindi ito nasusukat
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kung ano ang iari-arian mo,
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kung magkano pera ang bank account mo,
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kung ano yung income mo,
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kung ano yung na-achieve mo sa buhay.
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ang worth ng tao,
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dapat sa ating pagkatao.
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yun yung nakakalungkot eh.
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From the world perspective,
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pag wala kang sasakyan,
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wala kang ganito,
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hindi ka nakapag-travel,
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Wala kang halaga.
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Alam mo, kilalaning mo ang halaga mo.
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Based on your strength,
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God-given strength.
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Based on what you have,
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not what you don't have.
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Maliit man o malaki.
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Pag yan ang perspective natin sa buhay,
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magbabago po talaga.
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Kaya may naririnig ako minsan nagsasabi,
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ay mahirap lang kami.
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Hindi. Mahirap lang kami.
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Mahirap lang kami.
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Hindi. Hindi ka mahirap bilang isang tao.
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Mahirap lang ang pinagdadaanan mo
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Pero ang pagkatao mo,
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So, I hope that you will disassociate
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Alamin mo yung worth mo.
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Based on your position.
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Now, back to our video.
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Oo. Ano yung gagawin po natin
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para magkaroon tayo ng cure sa grid?
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Evaluate your priorities.
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A famous quote from the Bible,
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Money is a good servant,
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but it is a very bad master.
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Naniniwala ba kayo?
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Totoo yan, di ba?
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ginawa mong kasangkapan,
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Para gumanda ang buhay mo.
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Gaganda talaga ang buhay mo.
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Pero, pag ang pera na
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ang nagiging master mo na,
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nagiging diyos-diyosan mo na,
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ay, magkakap-problema.
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Kasi, pagka hinahabol mo na yung pera,
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Ito lang po, sabihin ko po sa inyo,
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Don't let the pursuit of money and possession
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overshadow yung mga mahalagang bagay sa ating buhay.
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Ito lang po, ano yung ibig sabihin, di ba?
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May mga kakilala ko talagang mga
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kababayan natin naging ibang bansa.
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Eh, syempre, makatulong sa pamilya.
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Pero, ano po nangyayari?
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Imbis na nakakatulong sa pamilya,
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nasisira ang pamilya.
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nasisira ng relationship, di ba?
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Gumanda nga ang buhay,
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maganda nga ang bahay,
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So, napakalaga po,
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naiunawain po natin,
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gumawa po tayo ng listahan na mahalaga sa ating buhay.
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At ito nga, ito yung mga values,
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Why am I working for?
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I'm working for my family.
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If my work and my business
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is taking time away from my family,
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there's something that is wrong.
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Alam mo, yan ang actually na pinagdaanan ko rin.
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In the year 2006,
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my business was growing during that time,
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but my business was taking away time from my family.
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So, it's a really challenging decision during that time.
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Ang pinagpipili ako na family or pera.
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Family or success.
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bakit ba ako nagkatrabaho?
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Parang sa pamilya.
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Eh, kung dahil sa pagtatrabaho ko,
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sa pagnenegosyo ko,
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masirang pamilya ko,
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So, I made a decision to switch career.
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In the year 2006,
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sold all my businesses,
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and started my career as a book author,
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and communicator.
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Kaya nga tayo nandito.
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Kaya nga, mga friendship,
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tanungin mo sarili mo,
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yung ginagawa mo ba talaga,
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aligned pa ba sa values mo?
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mag-isip-isip ka na.
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Baka masira pa ang buhay mo.
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Kaya, bago tayo magpatuloy,
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kakamustahin ko muna si Kaulam TV,
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at the same time,
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Kamusta na po kayo, mga friendship?
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Let's go to another E of greed.
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para makira ang ating greed,
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eliminate comparisons.
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Maniwala po kayo.
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sinabi ng Presidente ng Amerika,
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comparison is the thief of joy.
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ng kasiyahan sa buhay.
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Wag mo ikumpara ang sarili mo,
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yung ari-arian mo,
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kung ano meron ka sa ibang tao.
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dalawa lang mangyayari
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if you start comparing.
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dahil mas nakakaangat ka sa iba.
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dahil mas may nakakaangat sa iyo.
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yung halaga mo is not based on what you have.
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Society is telling you,
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yung anong halaga
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sa mundong ibabaw na ito.
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kung anong kakayanan mo,
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eh, that's uniquely yours.
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Stop comparing yourself
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with other people.
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If you consistently compare
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nako, maniniwala ka.
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Greed will never stop.
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letter D on the word greed
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is discipline your spending.
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Yan ang pinakaimportante.
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Alam mo, may nagsabi
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na isang bilyonaryo
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by the name of Warren Buffett,
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if you buy things
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you will have to sell things
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Ang galing talaga nito.
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Pagbili tayo ng bili,
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wala tayong kasiyahan.
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Bili ka ng bili ng mga gamit,
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travel ka ng travel,
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consume ka ng consume,
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pag naubos ang pera mo,
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mabibenta mo rin lahat mga yan.
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kaya nga importante,
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kahit na meron kang pera
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o maraming kang pera,
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gumawa ka ng budget.
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At gumawa ka ng budget,
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dapat maglagay ka ng
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Panindigan mo to,
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iwasan mo yung tinatawag natin
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yung pagbibili ng mga bagay
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na hindi mo kailangan.
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mag-ipun ka sa mga bagay
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talagang mahalaga.
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Yung talagang truly
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that matters to you.
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talagang mahalaga po sa atin
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Atin-atin lang to.
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tapos may makainan,
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May tuition fee sa mga anak,
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at the same time,
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may pambilin ng gamot,
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kung may karamdaman.
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essentials lang po tayo.
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if we just live off the essentials,
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just like what happened
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noong March ng 2020
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inagkaroon ng lockdown,
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napakasimple lang ng buhay.
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Kaya mga friendship,
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para makure ulit natin
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medyo mahaba-haba
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itong series na ito,
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itong session natin na ito.
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na umabot po kayo dito.
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At ulitin po natin
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practice gratitude.
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R, recognize your worth.
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Ano bang halaga mo?
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Nasa possession ba?
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O nasa pagkatao mo?
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evaluate your priorities.
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Ano bang mahalaga sa'yo?
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eliminate comparison.
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Huwag mo i-kumpara
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sarili mo sa iba.
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discipline your spending.
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if you follow these five steps,
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itong greed na ito,
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a more fulfilling life.
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So, para sa mga taong
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