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Alam niyo yung lobot na to.
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I'm Yenise Reyes.
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We actually just recently got married.
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Yes, around March 11.
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Noong November 29.
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It was last year.
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Alright, so how would you describe married life so far?
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Sobrang rollercoaster ride siya.
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We have a baby na kasi.
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I just gave birth last February 1.
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Siguro more on appreciating or understanding yung responsibilities niyo as individuals and as partners.
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For me, marriage, for some reason, kahit anong maling gawin niya, for some reason I still love him.
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It's fun to get to know him on this marriage, ano na, life.
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Baka pag nakainom na ako medyo, medyo mag-go into that na tayo.
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Alright, so today we will be testing your relationship as newlyweds with a lie detector and a set of question cards.
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Bigay mo nang sumapainit.
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Ikaw ah, may balak ka sa akin ah.
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Uy, first alak ko to after nine months.
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Did you have any hesitations going to our marriage?
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No, wala hesitations.
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This is making me nervous.
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Hindi ka uwiin ng bahay dun kaya wala ka rasyon.
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Siguro sa mga lalaki kasi, we don't have like a biological clock or timeline kung kailan namin gusto ikasal.
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Kasi syempre, pag hindi pa kayo married, iniisip mo pa lang yung mga gusto mo, mga kailangan mo.
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Hindi mo pa priority yung pag-save, ganun.
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Nienjoy mo pa yung sahod mo, yung pagiging single mo.
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Pag pumasok ka na kasi sa married life, dalawa na kayo, tas plan mo pa maging tatlo or maging apat, diba?
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Parang hindi ko pa siya like, in-expect na kaya ko.
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It was like, I knew that I wanted to be with you, but it was more of like, would I be good enough?
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Hindi ko lang alam kung paano ko siya pakakasal.
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With the money that I have at that time.
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Pero going into it, kaya naman talaga siya.
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Depende na lang sa inyong dalawa on how you will juggle things and accept things together.
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Rate me as a spouse.
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Below average, average, above average, excellent.
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Kasi nga, excellent ako.
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You know the things I want, sometimes you can't really bring it.
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But it's understandable kasi.
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It's like 100% I do not expect you to do.
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Slowly kasi syempre, mas nakikilala mo rin yung how I am sa bahay, with my family.
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Above average kasi parang nakikita ko yung understanding mo.
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Naikinig ka lang rin talaga.
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But besides that, for me, above average is a good thing.
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It's like a 10 out of 10.
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Excellent kasi 20 out of 10, mga ganun.
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Super duper above excellent siya.
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Kasi sa totoo lang, ang hirap magkaroon ng anak.
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Siya lahat e, kasi focused ako kay baby.
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Siya sa work and everything, sobrang above average, excellent ko.
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Ano mang rating yung meron doon.
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Huy, hindi ko etyo sera!
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Well, sama ako true naman kasi nung bumukod kami, hindi ako makapaniwala na kinain ko lahat na sinabi ko.
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Before sabi ko, pag kinasal ako hindi ako maglalaba, hindi ako magluluto.
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Pero ngayon, ako lahat gumagawa.
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Nagugulat na lang din ako sa sarili ko na nagagawa ako lahat yun for my wife and for my son.
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Syempre, dapat may unting push pa para maging excellent, right?
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Game, warming up! Let's go!
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Do you still play with yourself? Yes or no?
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Parang may question mark.
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When was the last time? Sige.
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Do you clean? Joke na after.
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Hindi na kasi may self-together na dapat eh.
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Ah, yun pala yun!
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You know, since it's all candid anyway, I prefer doing it with her, whether it's foreplay or anything at all.
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You know, it's like, what's the point?
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Minsan kasi wala nang oras, pero tinatry ko pa rin mag-solo.
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Kasi nung binata ko, medyo manyak talaga ako.
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I think it's normal to play with yourself, pero mas masaya kung may kasama ka.
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Alam mo, nalawa ako, di ba?
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So, I encourage naman.
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Pero sana maibalik ko yung glory days.
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Paging manyak mo!
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Are you also back?
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If my parents had to live with us, would that be okay with you?
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Oh my God, camera!
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Lagot siya kay mommy!
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Well, one, our house is a bit small.
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It's just for two people and a puppy.
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So, hindi ko alam saan sila matutulog.
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So ngayon, dahil nangyari yun, kailangan nating pag-usapan.
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Okay, promise, okay sa'kin.
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Kasi yung mom niya, bata pa kasi.
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So, medyo vibes kami ng mom niya.
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As in like, matatawagan na kami ngayon.
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Uy, bruha! Ganyan!
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Para mas okay nga rin na tumira yung parents with us.
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Or at least malapit sa atin.
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Kasi syempre, tumatanda rin parents natin, di ba?
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Especially pag nagka-anak na tayo.
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Para may deposit tayo.
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Hindi kayang alam makakapag-manyak.
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Kaya nga hindi okay.
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How you wanna drink together?
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Let's just drink together.
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Ay, gusto mo ito?
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Okay, sino mas magaling maghugas ng pinggan?
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Mas madalas akong naghugas ng pinggan eh.
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Because you leave stuff on the fork.
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That was the two times that I did.
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Ano yung sabihin mo? Nakalinti ka ba?
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Alam niyo yung lobat na ito.
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That was the two times that I did.
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Siguro sa baby bottles, I try to avoid it.
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Kasi natatakot ako eh.
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Eh syempre siya may ano kasi siya.
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Medyo pagka OC kaya.
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Pero admit mo rin na magaling ako.
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Pero mas magaling ako.
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Kasi pag masebo nga yun,
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binabalihan ko pa ng mainit na tubig eh.
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I do like washing dishes.
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I do like doing house chores.
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Because you know,
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you kinda get used to it.
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especially in the military,
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it's just one of those things.
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You gotta put your big boy pants up.
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Pero pagka mga ano, mga...
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Dalawa lang ang option.
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Ugasan ko or mag-end up siya sa basuran.
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Okay lang eh, mag-asawa na tayo.
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Am I the best sex you've ever had?
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Sa lalaki o sa babae?
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Okay lang ba na sinabi ko yun?
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Shot na lang kaya.
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Anong shot na lang?
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Magkaalaman tayo ngayon.
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My husband is the best sex I've ever had.
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What are you shoot?
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I'm about to break my heart.
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Of course, it's you.
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We all know that.
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My friends know that.
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I didn't know that.
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Do I not tell you?
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Yeah, but I didn't tell your friends.
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Hoy, to be honest.
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Yes, sa lalaki siya.
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Kasi yung iba masakit eh.
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Di ba, hindi marunong.
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Partner na rin ng decision ka-joke.
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Nakaya tayo kay Nasal.
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Grabing book of revelation.
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Kasi before maging kami,
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she has been with girls.
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Pero we're open to talking about it.
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Kasi it's kinda hot.
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Do you like my cooking?
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That's gonna be a lie.
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Oh, do you like it?
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No, there was one time.
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I taught him how to cook carbonara.
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He forgot the chicken cubes.
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Even like sinigang mix.
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The sinigang mix, the sinigang.
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What is sinigang mix?
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Yeah, I completely forgot about that.
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I mean, don't get me wrong.
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Backstory nga namin.
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Kaya kamig kinasal
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because of the house
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na may opportunity
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yung biglang may available.
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Noong dumating yung opportunity
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na may bahay na binibenta.
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Na-force ka ba ikasal tayo?
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Fourth of you pala.
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Di nga ako na-force.
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Siguro more on pressure niya.
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First time mo bibili
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ng ganon ka laking bagay.
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Or ganon ka valuable na bagay.
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Pero at the same time kasi,
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na-realize ko rin na,
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Kailan mo ba talaga masasabi na
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ready ang isang tao?
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Parang wala naman talagang time
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na masasabi mo yun.
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And that's the thing na lang rin
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sa point na masasabi mo na
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ito yung partner na ready ako
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maharap kahit anong iba to sa akin ng mundo.
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And kung nasabi mo naman na
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ready ka naman na
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na ready ka na, diba?
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Why not go for it?
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Kasi pag alam mo naman
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or alam mo may fear ka,
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it's something that's important.
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Minsan ba namimiss mo din na
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maging naughty with girls?
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Sinasabi ko naman sa'yo, diba?
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Siguro kasi pag girls,
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you know how to make her feel
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loved and everything.
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Kasi pares kaming babae.
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So kung ano yung gusto ko maramdaman,
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yun yung bibigay ko sa kanya.
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And like pag boys,
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di ba, kasabi nga na lang,
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sabihin mo na lang kung anong gusto mong namin gawin
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kasi hindi naman kami mind reader.
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Kunyara, anong gusto mong kainin?
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Ang dami niya sasabihin.
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Pero pag yung sa girls ko before,
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ano agad yung gusto ko.
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Ang gusto niya kainin, ikaw?
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Oh, there's one more.
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Do you miss the single lifestyle?
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I will explain this.
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Do you miss the single lifestyle?
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Sayang kirap din maging single eh.
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I'd be surprised if, you know,
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I'd be upset too.
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Oh, see, it's true.
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Kasi never ako naging single.
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So ever since I was a kid,
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so ever since nagkadyawa ko,
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never ako nang bakante.
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baka may makapanood sa'kin dito nun.
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Kaya nagpasad na lang kami,
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para hindi na ako mabakante.
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pag single kasi hindi naman meaning dun
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parang do'n miss kayo yung dating style.
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I think more on yung personal space,
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I do miss it because
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I get to sleep the moment I get home.
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I already text him every day.
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I still have to take care of him.
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Because sometimes,
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the ingredients in the food
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isn't gonna be the same.
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That's something that
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I have to adjust with.
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So it's a working progress.
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Na lagi na kitang kasama.
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You know, the moment I get home,
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the first thing he's gonna ask,
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you wanna play video games with me?
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Yes, is the answer.
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Pero with our relationship naman,
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you give me the time rin talaga
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to just let me be.
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Parang pag nag-work lang,
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hayaan mo lang akong mag-focus do'n.
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Hindi mo akong binabother.
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He allows me to go clubbing.
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He's okay with it.
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I don't have to allow you anything.
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You're a grown-ass woman.
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There's no reason for him to stop me.
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Because he can't stop me, you know.
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Because I'm mildly serious.
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you don't lose sight of your character.
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Kasi parang once you get married niya,
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parang 24-7 yung decision mo.
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Dapat decision niya rin.
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Kailangan niyo mag-grow
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Agreement na lang rin natin na
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as much as possible
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at the end of the day,
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kailangan may time tayo together.
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Ayun, thank you for being
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extraordinary nga.
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yung mga PG-13 moments,
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being extraordinary means
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not being mediocre.
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Each day na dumadating,
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it's full of surprises.
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I guess, you know,
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a little advice is
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before you get into it,
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just have an honest
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ganito lang tayo,
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chismes and buddies forever
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Kasi kung ano naman yung
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ipakita mo sakin,
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kahit hindi naman yung
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best side ng sayo,
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natutunan ko pa rin
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Kasi whatever naman yan,
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we'll go through it together,
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we'll grow together,
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and we'll understand
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the world together.
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I'm really thankful na,
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in this rollercoaster ride.
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as married couple.
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One for the road.
