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Hi guys! Welcome to Lucky TV!

Bagong lahat, maraming maraming salamat dahil ang Lucky TV ay umabot na sa 2 million!

Oh my God!

Oh my God!

Ang lapit!

Abonado nga ako, abonado nga ako.

Akala nga nila studio ko to, di na ba ako na studio to.

Hi guys! And today is a very special episode.

Kung bakit, para sa akin, isa to sa magiging pinakamasaya but at the same time,

serious interviews na magagawa natin dito sa Louise Listens.

Dahil naniniwala ako, marami tayong matutunan sa kanya.

In fact, kamakilan sila yung laman ng internet talaga na pag-uusapan.

And aminin naman natin na pagpipiestahan ang mga nangyayari sa kanila mga personal na buhay.

Kaya naman kasama natin ngayon walang iba, si Ms. Grace, also known as Malithis.

Hi Ms. Grace!

Hello!

Hello po and welcome po sa Louise Listens sa Lucky TV.

At gusto ko lang i-confirm, dalala natin si Ms. Grace yan, ang galing pang United States.

Kamusta po? Why are you here in the Philippines?

Just vacation and just have fun, make content.

Isipin nyo, bakasyon yung tao pero pumunta pa rin sa Louise Listens.

Turist spot ang dating ko.

Talagang kahit mga foreigner, hinahanap to it.

Pero wag yun pong hanapin, may asawat, anak na ako.

So Ms. Grace, kamusta kayo?

The year is fairly new, 2023 po tayo.

But how was your 2022?

Everyone knows exactly what happened.

But you know, I'm getting through it.

You know, slowly, slowly healing with the help of my family and friends.

How's the family to begin with?

Yung mga chikiting, kamusta po sila?

Okay naman sila.

They're slowly healing also.

Two of them mayroon silang autism so they don't really understand.

Okay.

Pero yung youngest namin, yung si CJ, yung kasama namin sa vlog,

he's trying to adjust kasi you know, it's a shock.

Of course, syempre pinag-uusapan din natin si Sir Pambansang Kolokoy.

Para sa mga nakakatutok lang, yung pinag-uusapan natin.

Now let me ask you po.

You know, my parents also chose to go different paths when I was younger.

And ano po yung ginawa ninyo when you came to that point

na you guys thought that it's time for us to say, inupunyo ba sila?

Or na parang this is what's gonna happen with mama and papa?

Like how did they understand that concept na kailangan nyo pong maghiwalay?

Yes, I did.

Ginawa po, sabi ko, you guys need to come here.

So sabi ko, your dad needs to tell you guys something.

In the beginning, ayaw niya.

Ayaw niyang sabihin sa mga kids.

But I had to because they need to know.

They need to know what's going on.

Hindi yung wala na siya.

It's like, nasan si dad?

So we have to explain it to them as a respect to my kids

and especially CJ, he's close to us.

So we had to tell them.

And how did they take it po?

Baka akala nila prank.

Baka akala nila joke.

No, totoo naman diba?

Kasi akala mo lang bigla, then all of a sudden na you're talking about a separation.

So for them, initially ba, were they thinking na it was a prank lang or part of a skit?

Hindi naman.

Parang nashock si CJ.

Yung dalawa, parang hindi nila maintindihan.

Kasi yung isa, it's like first grade level.

Yung isa, fourth grade level.

So parang, I think at that time, hindi sila nakikinig.

Or parang wala lang.

Hindi nila maintindihan.

Ako yung sasayay ko lang din.

Currently, naghiwalay ang magulang ko when I was maybe five or six years old.

Eto, totoo.

Pakisipan yung punchline to.

Naikwento sa akin ng mommy ko na sila ni daddy, binala ako.

Matawa kayo.

Seryoso yung kwento ko.

Na dinala ako sa sementeryo.

Totoo po ito.

Parang ako, hindi ako nagkakamali.

I could be wrong.

Parang sa libingan ng mga bayani.

Totoo ito.

Because they wanted to have a quiet time with me.

Wala na mas tatahimik pa sa sementeryo.

Okay.

So kapag, that's where they explained.

Na parang anak, mommy and I, we know we have to go our separate ways.

And for some reason, I fully understood.

And I believe, do you agree?

It's something that as a parent,

Tama po ba?

That's why you put in that effort.

They need to know.

They need to know so that they can understand what's going on.

So eto.

2023.

Diba?

Bagong taon para sa inyo, para sa pamilyo.

How has your 2023 been so far?

It's been good.

It's been good.

Better than last year.

As a family,

it's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

It's been good.

As a family,

we're still slowly healing.

And I'm more active now.

I'm in Wonder Z's vlogs and Choose One.

So I'm keeping myself busy.

Working, taking care of the family.

At the same time, I'm trying to be active in social media.

And I see that you're smiling.

And it's a process.

Hindi naman pwede mo sabihing na isang araw, okay ka lang.

Ano yung biggest learnings mo sa 2022 na medyo maraming nangyari, Ms. Grace?

Magbigay ka ng 84 learnings.

Magbigay kami ng papel.

Pakisulat na ng 84.

Babalik ako in 2 hours.

Okay po ba?

Pinatest po ng 2 hours.

Biggest learnings po of 2022?

I think that love isn't enough when you're in a relationship.

Okay, okay, okay.

Good.

Kasi you need trust.

You need to be transparent.

You need to communicate.

And you need to value your partner.

You need to understand.

That's the key to have a good relationship.

Healthy, open, honest communication.

Actually, ang ganda.

Actually, sinabi ni mami ko rin yan.

Na it's not simply about love.

It's also about respect.

Kasi pwede mo mahalin yung tao,

pero pwede mo hindi mo talaga nire-respeto yung pagkatao ng isang tao.

So yan maganda rin yung transparency, yung trust, and everything.

For example, pag-usapan na natin na what really happened,

if you don't mind,

kay Pangbansang Kolokoy o si Sir Joel, tawagin natin.

How did you get to that point na parang kailangan na natin maghiwalay?

No, it never got to that point.

It never got to that point where we talked about it.

Okay.

Nag-break up na kami because he didn't have time for me.

Parang napifeel ko na there's something going on,

pero I don't have the evidence.

Okay.

When you say, just to be sure,

when you say going on,

parang there might be someone else involved, ganoon mo ba?

Yeah.

Oo.

But I couldn't confirm it.

Parang wala na.

Wala na yung relationship namin.

Parang we're just friends with kids.

Oh, wow.

Parang ganoon.

Wala na yung feeling.

There's no more spark.

Yung sabi kasi na sa isang relasyon,

it will always evolve.

It will not always be romantic love.

Magiging parang companionship na lang yan.

Pero maganday nandiyan pa rin yung paligaw-ligaw.

Noong nandiyan yung feeling, sabi mo nga Ms. Grace,

na parang there was someone else in the scenario,

did you ever ask man lang?

All the time.

All the time.

Because I always get like emails,

like random emails.

Wow. Okay.

So I'm like, is this true?

Of course, he's gonna deny, di ba?

So, okay, I believe you.

I trust you.

Because you told me before na hindi mo gagawin yun.

So I trusted him.

So parang bali wala lang.

But every time, I always get that message.

If you know what I'm asking,

kung sakasakali man,

like your past relationships or experiences,

ganon ka rin ba?

Very trusting kang individual?

O nagkataon lang na kay Sir Joel?

Because I guess you have the family setup talaga.

Or you've always been a puwedeng martir?

Or a trusting individual?

Yes, I've always been trusting.

And plus, we've been together for 25 years.

I wouldn't think that he would do that

because ang tagal na namin.

We talked about growing old together.

When we see old couples, they're holding hands.

We say, we're gonna be like that, right?

Yun ang pinag-usapan namin.

So I never thought that he would do something like that.

And I guess everyone watching you guys,

kahit ako may mga ibang clips kayo

na I shared before on my social media pages,

parang you can see that it's an ideal family.

But we all know it's different

whatever's on social media

compared to how it is in real life.

So up to this day,

kung ano man yung hinala niyo po,

whatever your suspicions were,

it's still never confirmed.

Or finally, at one point,

you were able to get a sort of confirmation

about whatever your suspicion was.

Yes, it was confirmed.

How was that moment po?

Kasi sabi mo, before, you could brush it aside.

O, may nag-email sa akin,

nag-ganito-ganito.

Sabi namin, o, totoo ba to?

Hindi.

Done.

Ang daling kausap.

Eto, may pictures kayo.

Nagkahalikan kayo.

Ikaw ba to?

Hindi.

Ang daling kausap.

So finally,

kung bagay,

nung nagkaroon na ng konti nga confirmation,

how did you take it?

And what did you do about it?

I was shocked.

I was like, what?

Ba't kinawa mo yun?

I mean, confirmation.

If you don't mind me asking,

anong klaseng confirmation?

Was it a picture?

Tumawag yung babae sa akin.

Tumawag siya.

She called me.

Isa ba siya sa mga napaghinalaan mo na dati?

Or completely new?

New.

The night before,

someone kept calling me.

Unknown.

So I kept ignoring it.

The next day,

it's still an unknown caller.

So hindi ko sinagot.

Okay.

So then there's a text.

I need to talk to you about his name.

So I said, what is it?

Parang si Voldemort na reporter.

He who shall not be named.

Okay.

Okay naman.

Sinasabi ko yung name.

Okay lang naman.

So finally, when you replied?

So at the same time,

dumating si PK

and the girl called.

At the same time,

nandiyan si Joel sa tabi ko.

And yun, sinabi niya na

they've been together for a long time.

And this is March 2022.

Okay.

Sabi niya,

we've been together for a long time

and we're gonna have a baby in July 2022.

So I was like,

nagkinawa mo yun?

Ano ba?

And you know,

nag-sorry naman siya.

Like he was,

he regretted it, I think.

He was sorry for what he did.

Were you very confrontational

pagdating sa ganon?

Or you simply shut down,

umiiyak,

and you were just asking

how that happened?

Yeah.

Umiiyak kami.

We both cried.

Okay.

What happened?

I thought we were okay.

You know,

like I was really shocked.

Blindsided talaga?

Yeah talaga.

Because we broke up.

I thought that was just a breakup.

I never thought that

he would have another girlfriend.

So yun pala,

there was a, you know,

a few things going on.

Okay,

so the next few days

after that revelation po,

ano mga ginawa niyo?

We decided to get back together.

Okay.

Kasi I was willing to take him back.

That's how much I loved him.

Wait.

Teka lang ha?

Medyo matinding dating na yun ha?

Nagka-confrontation,

nagka-aminan,

but you decided to get back together pa rin?

Yeah,

I still accepted him.

Parang feeling ko

pagkatapos ni Mother Teresa,

kayo na po ang susunod.

Parang ang lupit.

Okay,

now I guess the,

I'm sure marami sa mga nanonood

ang tinatanong,

why?

Kumbaga,

yung katotohanan

was already in front of you,

lahat ng kailangan mo,

yung evidence na hindi mo niyo makuha,

nandiyan na,

nagkausap na kayo.

Why?

Because I loved him

and I wanted our family

to be together.

So kailan yung point talaga na,

okay,

it's about time na

we really have to go our separate ways?

Ano yung naging mitsa

for that decision?

Kasi ibang feeling e,

you know,

like you are,

it's like maybe later on

I realized,

may bata na,

you know,

you can't undo the baby.

Yeah.

And parang,

we tried,

we tried,

we know,

we went on dates,

we were together,

but iba na talaga.

But we kindled a romance.

Yeah,

iba na ang feeling.

Iba na.

And he can tell.

He can tell.

So parang,

I don't know,

sabi ko,

you either have to stay with us

with your family

or be with her.

Which one?

Sabi niya,

I wanna be with her

because she's carrying my baby.

Oh wow,

okay.

How did you take that po?

So I said,

okay.

Kasi nag-effort ka rin naman e.

Yeah.

After learning all that,

mag-dedate pa kayo.

Sorry,

I mean,

di ko lang ma-imagine.

Diba?

So habang nandedate kayo,

ay,

kamusta na pala yung baby mo?

Diba?

Di ko ma-imagine

yung wala kayong mapag-usapan,

diba,

habang nag-antay.

Can I get a glass of wine, please?

Oh,

kamusta,

nagpo-ultrasound na?

Diba?

I mean,

di ko ma-imagine.

So how?

Wow.

Maybe ano,

yung parang,

I was trying to accept,

but iba na talaga ang feeling.

You know,

I can't believe you did that.

It will always be

at the back of your mind.

Was it harder po

para sa inyo?

Because,

marami kayong followers.

Yung parang,

you had to

show this happy family.

Did they ever notice ba?

You know,

when things were getting

a bit rough.

Parang napapansin ba nila

na parang,

iba yung dating ngayon

ni Sir PK

tsaka ni Ms. Grace.

May ganun ba?

Wala naman?

No,

everything is okay.

Social media.

Everything is okay

on social media.

So,

ano po yun?

Like what I said,

is it harder for you

na parang you had to put up

this facade

sa social media

na kailangan natin tayo?

Since day one,

kami magkasama,

baka mawalan tayo

ng followers,

baka mawawasan tayo.

Did you ever think about that?

No.

No,

because I don't care

about social media.

I didn't care

if we have followers

or not.

I didn't care.

So ano yung naging

final conversation niya,

if you will,

na sabi mo,

okay,

did it work?

We tried.

Was it at home

or at a dinner?

Paano po yung napunta

doon sa scenario

noong last

na usapan niyo po?

Sa bahay.

Sa bahay.

If you chose her,

then okay,

ano pang ginagawa mo

dito niya?

He just left.

He just started packing.

Kamusta kayo ngayon?

We communicate

because we have kids,

but there's times when

parang off and on

friends and not friends.

Gano'n.

But recently,

before I came here,

nag-usap naman kami

on the phone

for the first time

for a long time.

And parang

we're just friends.

Just like before,

yung naglulukuhan kami,

gano'n.

Okay.

Next episode,

nagkabali ka na naman yan.

Nag-usap na naman tayo.

So,

you were able to

establish that relationship

again as

co-parents?

Oo, yeah.

I mean,

it kind of felt good na

even though

I'm trying to be like

maswing it to him

on the phone,

I can tell from his voice

na he's kind of having fun too

because,

you know,

linoloko niya rin ako.

You know,

he's making jokes of me.

I can tell.

I can tell that

he's laughing

or whatever.

Okay.

So, do the kids

appreciate that?

Yung effort niyong dalawa

to be, you know,

good co-parents?

Yeah.

I mean, especially CJ.

You know, he always says,

I wish you guys

were back together.

May wish pa?

May wish pa na

mag-aayos niyo pa?

Yeah,

yun ang gusto ni CJ.

Gusto ko lang i-share ah.

Ako, dun naghiwalay din

ang parents ko,

hindi ko alam.

Best of my knowledge,

best of my,

memory ko talaga,

never co-wish

na magkabalikan

si daddy

tsaka si mommy.

Hindi ko alam bakit.

Siguro,

at a young age,

I understood

na

kailangan nila maghiwalay

for whatever reason

sa kanila.

Pero siguro,

nung bata ako,

naiintindihan ko

na

hindi naman sila

maghihiwalay

as parents.

Di ba?

Maghihiwalay sila

as a couple,

pero hindi sila

maghihiwalay

as parents sa akin.

And never ako umabot

sa point na

nag-rebelde ako

or chose to do

crazy things

and blame it on

the separation

di ba,

of my parents.

Kasi there's always

something to blame

or someone to blame

for your actions.

At the end of the day,

kayo pa rin yun.

Especially naman,

ganyang scenario

na you're putting on

the effort naman talaga

to be good parents

pa rin

di ba?

Di ba ang ganda?

So eto,

kung kayo pa Ms. Grace,

handa na ba kayong

magmahal muli?

Of course naman.

I'm not gonna put my life

on hold for one person.

Ngayon ba,

may mga nagpaparamdam na ba?

May mga,

alam mo na,

nagte-text

mga,

Hi Grace.

What you doing later?

May mga ganon-ganon na ba?

Oo naman.

All day yan.

All day.

Yan ang malepet.

So okay, okay.

Is there anyone

na you're

specifically entertaining?

Meron.

Oy, oy.

Revelation yan.

Is it official

or getting to know?

Getting to know.

Getting to know.

Ano yung mga hinahanap mo ngayon

sa isang partner?

Sabi mo,

after, you know,

it's a learning experience

ang napagdaanan mo

kay Sir Pique.

Anong hinahanap mo ngayon

sa isang magiging partner?

Someone who's emotionally mature.

Someone who can

communicate more.

Who can be open

You know,

someone who can

express themselves

not just

keep everything bottled in.

You know,

just communicate with me

if there's something

that I'm not doing right

or whatever,

tell me.

And if he has goals in life.

You know,

mga ganyan.

And someone who can

take care of me

and I don't have to

take care of them.

Okay, okay.

Someone to take care of you.

So ikaw Miss Grace,

anong advice may bibigay mo

sa akin?

I've been married for,

you know,

a few years

and we have a little one.

Si Peanut po.

Kung magbigay po kayo

ng payo sa akin,

whether it be,

you know,

for my marriage

or for,

you know,

being a parent.

Ano po yun?

I keep saying this

over and over

but open and honest

communication.

Because a lot of men,

they don't want to

argue with the women.

Yes.

Yes.

Hi.

Hi.

Hello.

Yes.

So they always want,

they want to keep quiet

because they want to

avoid the conflict.

Diba?

But if there's something

maybe

Maybe ako yung kaaway nyo.

Parang ako yung kaaway nyo.

Parang, parang,

medyo.

Sorry, sorry.

Pakingin sa akin yun Miss Grace.

Medyo.

Kung may problema ka,

say it.

Kung may conflict,

say it.

Kinakabahan ako sa'yo.

So just be open.

Yeah, just be open.

You know,

just communicate.

Para alam natin

kung anong nagyayari.

I don't want to be like

guessing, you know?

As a parent po,

what's the best advice

you could give people,

Miss Grace?

Give time.

Be there for them.

Family is always first

because others can wait.

When it comes to

you know,

other friends or jobs,

you know,

they can wait.

But family can't.

I completely agree.

At ano yan eh,

bagong learning ko yan

pag nahawakan mo na

for the first time.

Diba?

Your child.

And sa lahat mga sumusuporta sa'yo,

Miss Grace,

any message for your fans

na you know,

since day one,

they've been with you

through all the ups and downs.

Eh, nandiyan pa rin sila para sa'yo.

What do you want to tell them?

Thank you for your support

and not forgetting about me

even though

you know,

I'm not with PK anymore.

And I'm more active

in social media.

I now have a Facebook

and Instagram.

So that's how I

engage with the followers

and subscribers.

So, thank you for your support.

Miss Grace,

thank you for being here

on Louise's Lessons.

And you know,

thank you for your learnings

and thank you for opening up.

It's not easy to talk about

these things.

Diba yung mga gatong bagay?

Siyempre, ang gusto ko,

makulit lang.

Gusto ko masaya.

Para sa akin,

through each experience

of an individual,

there's something that we can learn from.

Diba?

So, yun talaga.

So, thank you very much.

I wish you nothing but the best.

Thank you so much.

Doon sa nagpapakiling sa'yo.

I wish you the best,

you know, as a mother,

as a co-parent.

And thank you for being here

on Louise's Lessons.

Thank you for having me.

Kinakabahan talaga ako

yung mga tine talaga.

Okay, guys.

Maraming maraming salamat

sa paraan ng Louise's Lessons.

Maraming salamat sa lahat

ng mga nagpaabot

ng 2 million subscribers.

Yan naman.

Bye, guys.

Thank you, Ms. Grace.

Thank you.

Thank you very much

kay Ms. Grace

for guesting sa Louise's Lessons.

Na-enjoy ko yun.

At maraming maraming salamat.

Now, syempre,

para kay Sir Pambansang Kolokoy,

kay Sir PK,

syempre to hear both sides.

Sir PK,

willing na willing po kami

makipag-usap.

Sana po okay sa inyo

kahit through Zoom.

At basta mag-usap din tayo

para syempre,

we hear all sides,

diba, ng kwento.

Thank you very much once again,

Ms. Grace.

Sir PK,

sila po kayo anytime.