EDU LISTENS TO LUIS (It’s important to always be there to surround them lots of love) | Luis Manzano
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Isang matindihan.
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Happy, happy Father's Day.
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Ang gagawin natin unang-una, this is Luis Listens.
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Pero babalik na rin natin, halfway through the show,
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gagawin natin Edu Listens.
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Di ba? Ang lupit.
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Babalik na rin natin. Yes.
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Pero bagong lahat kay daddy, congratulations.
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Nagkamakailan si daddy.
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Nakakuha ng isang award,
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yung DLSAA, Lasallian Achievement Award
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for mga pagtulong mo sa kapwa.
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Hindi ba? Tama, daddy-o?
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Oo, pero doon sa mga programa ng Lasall,
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which is mostly centered on education.
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And of course, si daddy ay may cancer wing din.
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na named after my lolo.
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Kay Lolo Addy, tama.
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Sa Children's Hospital?
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Kung hindi ako nagkakamali.
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Yeah, Philippine Children's Medical Center.
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Ganyan-ganyan lang si daddy.
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Maraming natutulungan to.
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Don't let the looks deceive you, ha?
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Maraming natutulungan si daddy.
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Anong don't let the looks deceive you?
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No, let me ask you that.
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Ito, saan mo nakuha yun?
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Kabagay yung gusto mong tumulong sa mga tao?
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Malaming hindi nakakalam.
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Pero your lolo, actually, nung nag-aaral pa sa Amerika,
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sa University of San Francisco,
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paano yung trabaho?
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Sa isang malaboy town sa Sonoma County,
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nilalagay yung mga batang either orphans,
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in conflict with the law.
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And si daddy yung dating camp director.
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So silang nag-design ng mga pulisya at mga programa
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kung saan binibigyan ng bagong pagkakataon
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yung mga batang ito.
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I think nasa I was six, seven,
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kailangan na namin magtrabaho dun sa kampo.
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So you could see already, at that time,
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your lolo, gusto niya talang makatulong
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and he always believed,
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which ako rin eh, naniniwala,
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that education is very, very important
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for one's creating a better future.
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How old was I when Lolo Addy passed away?
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Or was I already there when Lolo Addy passed away?
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Naabutan naman ako ni Lolo Addy.
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Naabutan ka, nabuhat ka, nahalikan ka.
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I was two years old.
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How was Lolo Addy the first time na he held on to his apo?
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I mean nakita mo talaga yung buong pagmamahal.
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Pero nung nabitawang ka,
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I mean yung, of course, medyo nag-react ng iba.
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Ayaw ka lang niyang hawakan.
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Nung bumagsak ba ako, tumalmog ako o diretsyong luglang?
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Ay di. Sakwad ka eh.
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Wala naman yung pull.
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Hindi lang talaga.
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Hindi lang ordinaryong bagsak lang.
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Hindi nga laglag ka sa six feet ng pool na walang tubig.
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Sabi nga ni Daddy at a young age,
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he was able to observe kung paano tumulong si Lolo Addy.
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And that's always the best as a parent, the way I see it.
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Sa inyo rin, sa iyo, kay mommy and everyone else.
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He can give me all the lessons in life.
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Di ba? He could sit down with me,
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enumerate everything, how he would want me to be.
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But if I don't see you do it,
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parang hindi talaga papasok yun sa utak at puso ko.
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Yeah, because sabi nga nila, di ba,
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we all have to lead by example.
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The only way for you to truly be effective
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is to make your children realize how important it is to you.
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This is one time I can say that I'm very proud as a father
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because nakikita ko that all I wanted you to be,
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Thank you. Thank you very much, Daddy.
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So, eto, ginagusapan nga natin si Lolo Addy.
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So, how does it feel now to be a Lolo or a Grandpa?
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Well, kung pwede sa akin,
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pahiramin mo sa akin ng isang linggo si Isabella Rose.
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And then, tsaka mo ako tanungin uli.
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But I see how fragile she is.
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She's such a beautiful little child.
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Kasi ako, aminin ko po, I've always been reluctant.
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Kahit kapag kinuha pa akong ninong sa mga binyag,
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medyo may kaba ako na buhatin yung inaalak ko.
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You know, I just feel na, parang feeling ko minsan na baka mabitawang ko.
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Mahigpit yung hawak mo.
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Hindi maganda yung support ako sa leeg o sa ulo.
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So, may konting reluctancy ako.
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But I can't wait for her to become bigger and stronger.
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Nang sa ganun, hindi ako masyadong mababahana.
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Unang tingin mo ko lang sa bata, you can see na magandang kanyang nature.
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She's well, I guess, dahil nasa maayos at magandang pag-aalaga
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o pag-aaluganan yung dalawa ni Jessie.
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Unang tingin mo pa lang, mapapangiti ka eh.
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Kahit hindi pa siya humingiti, eh lalo pa kung humiti siya.
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Me as a grandfather, I can't wait to see how much of you will be in her.
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Because I realize part of her is me.
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So, at the same time, I'm thinking now that it would add on,
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it will add on for me to see that, yeah, I raised him well.
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Because she will always be a reflection of you,
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and you are a reflection of me.
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What's the best advice you could give me now as a father?
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Yun ang hindi ko gagawin, is give you advice.
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You have to find it out on your own.
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Ang bata, there's no two people alike.
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So, maybe what worked for me before, what worked for Lolo Addy before,
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will not exactly work for Isabela.
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So, I think you'll end up finding out as you go along,
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kung what would be best for her.
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I don't like to call it advice,
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but I just have learned that it's important to always be there
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and to surround them with a lot of love and affection and support.
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Ayaw ko gamitin yung word na hardest.
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What's the most challenging thing about being a father?
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I don't like to fail in anything I do,
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but much more when it's being a parent.
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Maaring magkamali ka sa lahat ng bagay,
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maaring ang negosyo mo,
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maaring hindi love life,
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maaring lahat syan.
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Career, call it what you want.
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Pero it's important to be a good parent.
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If you can be a good parent,
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then lahat syan, e, mabupunat, matatakpan.
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That's the most challenging.
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Ayaw ko baga, what's the best thing about being a parent?
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What's the best thing about being a parent?
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It's seeing your children stand on their own two feet,
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seeing your children successful,
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seeing that your children are positive contributing members of society.
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Is there a memory na ginawa natin dati,
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na you want to recreate with Peanut?
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Kasi dati, trip ni daddy dati,
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susunod din niya ako sa school,
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tapos nandun ako sa likod niya.
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Malapit lang yung bahay ha, sandali ha.
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Malapit lang yung bahay,
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at mabagal ang takbo.
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Tapos there was one time pa na may kotse ka yung,
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Tapos tinanggal mo yung top, diba?
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You drive around,
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then naka-top-down tayo.
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Tapos meron pa tayong ano,
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you even bought like a mini
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Yeah, four-wheel drive.
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Parang quad rank,
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na we would go around Dao.
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Kung hindi ako nagkamula.
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Is there one of those memories
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na gusto mong mali-create with Pinat?
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baka I never really told you,
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but one of my greatest moments
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was kapag hilahatin kita sa school.
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Before every day,
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ibaba-baba kami ng driver,
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hawak-hawak ko si Luis,
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and I would take you always to your class.
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Oh, anak, I'll see you later, ha?
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Lagi may kiss, e.
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Tapos kung wala akong trabaho,
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nagaabang, susundin.
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Tapos, pupuntaan kita.
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Holding hands na naman tayo.
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Bapalik kita sa kotse.
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For years, tuloy-tuloy yun.
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Every morning, love you.
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yung hinahawakan ko yung kamay,
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papasok kami sa school.
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I think you were grade four?
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Tapos naramdaman ko,
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parang nung papalapit-takbay sa klase mo,
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hinihila mo yung kamay mo, e.
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So, binitawang ko.
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nandiyan yung mga barkada ko, e.
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Huwag ko lang asahan
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na hahalikan mo ako ulit
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sa harap ng mga kaibigan mo.
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In school, hindi.
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But lo and behold,
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ilang taong ka na,
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hinahalikan mo pa rin ako.
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yun yung nakakaprowded.
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Siguro, it's a mini-phase
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na kailangan pagdaanan,
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lalong-lalang na ng mga boys.
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ganun po kaming mga manzano.
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We're very affectionate.
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The next day is never guaranteed.
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if it's a simple kiss,
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sa iyong magulang,
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Kung mahal mo naman talaga,
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Ano yung mga qualities ko, dad,
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na pwedeng makuha ni Peanut?
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Sana lumayo-layo na siya.
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Kaya importanteng tumagal ako.
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matitili akong buhay
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twenty years of her life.
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wala siya dapat manahin sa'yo.
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God-fearing individual
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and to treat everybody
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with dignity and respect.
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I see that in you.
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There are many things
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I would wish for her.
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Kung anuman yung kanyang mga passions in life,
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sana she had the opportunity
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to experience it.
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I would like her to
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be able to see other cultures
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and see the world.
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I would like her to be able to
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kung gano'n kahit mahalaga
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ang isang edukasyon
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sa buhay ng isang tao.
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Yun yung ginawa ang daddy sa akin.
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Talagang studies first.
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kung bakit hindi kita
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ang dami ng offers noon.
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lahat yung in-offer sa'kin
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if there was one time
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and did something good
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was when I made sure
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na makatapos ka muna
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before you enter the
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entertainment industry.
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Sa lahat ng mga nangyari
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the very first day
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na nakasama kita sa buhay
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na nag-uusap tayo,
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are you proud of me?
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A father can't be prouder.
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with all the sincerity
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And now I know that
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may sariling buhay ka na,
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may sariling pamilya ka na.
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I've allowed you to
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or encouraged you
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to make your own decisions
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and at the same time
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I never babied you.
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You allowed me to succeed,
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you allowed me to fail.
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each and every time.
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That's why I can say that
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if there's one proud father,
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that I get to call him
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Any message para kay Pinat?
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Whatever you hope to achieve in life,
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may it all be there.
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And I want you to know,
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na tawagin siyang Pinat.
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maybe marami hindi nakakalam
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Vilma is Rosa Vilma.
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Mommy ko is Rosario.
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na tawagin siyang Rose.
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It's laging Isabella Rose.
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I just want you to know
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that I will always be here
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she will grow up to be
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a fine young lady
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who will be like you,
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who will always be able
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with dignity and respect
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and make a positive contribution
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Yun ang Luis License.
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Babalik ta rin na natin ngayon
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Edu License na ngayon.
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when you first held
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Rosy in your hands?
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Nakakatakot siya.
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like what you said,
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You don't want to hold them
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You don't want to squeeze
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You make sure that
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the neck is supported
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but at the same time,
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Nakakatakot in the sense na
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there's always that aspect
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that will I be able to provide
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the life that I want?
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Will I be able to be
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the best father I can be
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At the same time,
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a different ballgame
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sa iyon ng asawa mo
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if there's a child involved already.
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So that's when reality
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now this is day one
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of the new Luis Manzano.
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So the anxiety is there,
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at the same time,
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parang the whole gamot
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na pwede yung mga maramdaman
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that parents-to-be
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should never take
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their children for granted.
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It's a very, very
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big responsibility.
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Before, actually,
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to be honest about it,
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I was always thinking about
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I thought just being able
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Only to realize that
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it takes a lot more
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than just being able
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I can understand you now
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when you're saying
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what is this task before me?
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Kakayanin ko ba ito?
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kailangan mo mag-adjust.
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What is it about the
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Luis Manzano with Rosie
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that is different from the
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old Luis Manzano?
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Anong ginagawa mo ngayon
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na hindi mong ginagawa noon?
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Jessie's watching.
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Mabait talaga ako.
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mabait talaga ako.
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di alam ng mga tao,
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pero every Sunday,
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sa Vatican ako nagsisimpa.
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Tayo, mga Manzano,
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there's a certain
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that we live life.
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minsan, eh, kaya yan.
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So, it's not exactly
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kung yung mga nagagawa ko before
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na hindi ko nagagawa now.
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every day even more.
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And you look forward pa
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Kasi for a while,
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when you're younger,
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when things were simpler,
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I'm just going to think of today.
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now you're thinking
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Have you already entertained
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hindi mo ma-reach
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or you will not be able
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and wishes you have
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Every single night.
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Every single night.
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na it's part of my prayers
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every single night
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my family expects of me.
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Or more importantly,
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what I expect from myself.
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Kung alam nyo lang
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ng pagiging isang ama.
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As a parent in general,
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kung ramdam nyo lang din
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yung pressure talaga
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ng pagiging parent,
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It's not something na
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It will be a constant fear,
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a constant source
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na kung kaya mo bang
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not just as a provider,
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ng being a parent.
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Magiging strict ka kaya?
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There's always two sides dun.
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na pag naging strict ka,
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mas magre-rebelde.
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If you're not that strict,
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eh, baka naman na
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maraming pwedeng mangyari.
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But this is something
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that I learned sa...
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I could be wrong.
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I think the movie was
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Father of the Bride,
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Kung hindi ako nagkakamali.
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Parang ganito yung sinabi
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Something to the effect na
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there will always be evil
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the good and the bad.
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whether it be you're a parent
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sa lalaki or babae,
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they will have to experience
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both good and bad.
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you will always fall back on
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is how you raised your child.
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Kahit yung anak mo ma-expose
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na meron sa mundo,
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if naka-ingrain ka
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dun at dun siya babalik.
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Yan ang sinasabi ko.
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And they will make mistakes.
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I've made mistakes.
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Dad knows I've made mistakes.
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It's a safe assumption
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that my dad made mistakes
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when he was younger.
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Much older and still making mistakes.
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I'm expecting Pina
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to make mistakes.
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But whatever mistakes
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And I will still do my best
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to raise you the best way
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And same kay Jesse.
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It's very, very hard
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when you think about it
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because ako, swerte ko,
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ang una kung naging anak,
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Ang hirap sa kalagay ng ama
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ang may anak na babae.
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And it's also going to be
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a big challenge for you
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to balance yourselves
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on how to take care
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of your beautiful little
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ang makakapag-desisyon,
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how old should she be
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bago siya makapag-entertain
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o going out on dates?
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Pag-agaw buhay na siya.
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Pag-agaw buhay na siya.
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ako naman yung talagang
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this day and age,
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nandyan yung pag-college.
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Pag nakagraduate.
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it could be wishful thinking.
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that would be her
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first relationship.
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Pero isipin mo yung pumiting
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kanyang dadaanan, diba?
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barkada ko pa lang,
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kay daddy pa lang,
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Walang makakalusot do'n.
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sinasabi ko sa inyo,
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makapasok ng bahay ko.
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Ganyan ang attitude mo.
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Pero ano yung difference
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sa parenting skills niyo
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ninyong mag-asawa?
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mas praning si Jesse
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touches a surface,
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mas ano pa ako eh.
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paki-wipes ha ng kamay,
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or ako mag-wipes.
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There's a bit of paranoia,
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So, I would like to think
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we're quite similar
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Did you ever have
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a difference of opinion
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or did you clash on,
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because of the kind of style?
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Kahit minsan lang?
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I think papasok yan,
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it's basically just,
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Peanut as a baby.
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things will be a bit different
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when she's a bit older
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there's really more to learn,
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more to experience.
19:39.5
Like, for example,
19:41.5
na there's gonna be
19:43.5
or maybe suitors,
19:47.5
na pwede pananamit.
19:49.5
baka there would be
19:53.5
Miss Regine Velasquez
19:55.5
When she guessed it,
20:00.5
we don't have right now
20:02.5
bad cop parenting style.
20:03.5
Sabi, that's good
20:04.5
because first and foremost,
20:08.5
It should be magkakampi
20:11.5
in raising Peanut.
20:12.5
So, but at least,
20:15.5
walang favoritism si Peanut.
20:16.5
Like, she wouldn't favor
20:17.5
a certain parent,
20:18.5
whatever issue it may be.
20:21.5
Magkakampi kaming dalawa.
20:23.5
Si Luis and si Jessie,
20:24.5
ang iyong mommy and daddy,
20:27.5
At the same time,
20:28.5
we will both correct you
20:29.5
kung ano man yun.
20:30.5
So, we wouldn't do that.
20:31.5
So, piling ko ganun din.
20:33.5
we want to continue
20:34.5
pagdating kay Peanut.
20:38.5
it cannot be avoided.
20:42.5
will ask to spend a day
20:44.5
with Isabella Rose.
20:47.5
Sinong ang mas bibigyan mo
20:51.5
Kung sino makakapag-abot sa akin
20:52.5
ng mas malaking halaga.
20:54.5
Yan lang naman talaga yun.
20:56.5
Hindi ako nagkabalik
20:57.5
sa pagpapalaki sa'yo.
20:58.5
Nakaganyan lang ako.
20:59.5
Kunwari, Sundays.
21:00.5
Nakaganyan lang ako.
21:06.5
Mas malaking kay daddy ngayon.
21:08.5
Look at your grandpa!
21:12.5
to enjoy, Peanut.
21:13.5
Nakatanay kasi si daddy
21:14.5
will be going on a trip soon.
21:15.5
I was asking daddy
21:16.5
before we started,
21:17.5
kung pwede ko dalihin si Peanut
21:19.5
kay daddy this coming weekend.
21:21.5
Pero si daddy nga has a trip.
21:23.5
So pagkabalik pa lang ni daddy.
21:25.5
it was a long time coming.
21:26.5
Na talaga you guys
21:28.5
have been waiting for Peanut.
21:30.5
In fact, last Sunday,
21:32.5
spent time with mommy.
21:38.5
Alam mo, funny ka, ha?
21:41.5
Hindi naman gano'n.
21:45.5
dapat nadaling ko kay daddy.
21:46.5
Pero the moment daddy comes back
21:48.5
eh daddaling ko na si Peanut
21:50.5
Kung saan si daddy
21:51.5
magpapaaral kay Peanut.
21:53.5
I want them to enjoy it.
21:55.5
I want them to enjoy
21:58.5
Kasi sabi nga nila,
21:59.5
whenever they see Peanut,
22:00.5
that's still, you know,
22:02.5
and partly my mom.
22:05.5
Ano yung mga naggawa natin
22:06.5
when I was younger,
22:07.5
you guys get to do.
22:08.5
And simply carry your apo.
22:10.5
I think that's one of the most
22:11.5
priceless moments in life.
22:13.5
Kasi ganito na yun.
22:14.5
Noong kinabi ko pa lang kay daddy
22:16.5
noong in-announce namin
22:18.5
na she was pregnant.
22:19.5
Maluhalo ha si daddy.
22:22.5
when we showed you the ultrasound.
22:24.5
So much more pa yung
22:25.5
bubuhatin mo talaga.
22:27.5
looking at her eye to eye.
22:31.5
So pinahiram nyo kay mommy
22:34.5
noong last Sunday.
22:37.5
One-five din yun.
22:39.5
Dumating yung kuriente.
22:43.5
na-delay yung tubig namin.
22:44.5
Pagka nakita ko yung tubig,
22:45.5
I'll send you a picture.
22:47.5
Pero kahit yung tubig.
22:48.5
Hindi naman pala,
22:49.5
palahon lang yan.
22:53.5
Maaring iisipin yung
22:54.5
napakababaw nung aking
22:55.5
susunod na tadong.
22:58.5
Let this be one of our god.
22:59.5
We'll take it to a different level
23:03.5
pahahawakan mo ng cellphone
23:04.5
ang iyong anak na babae?
23:07.5
she's five months.
23:10.5
ang rule namin is
23:13.5
whenever, let's say,
23:14.5
I'm watching TV sa sala,
23:15.5
Jessie brings her down,
23:18.5
Even in the room.
23:19.5
Ang rule namin is
23:20.5
pag nanonood ng TV,
23:23.5
or dala si Pinot Automatic,
23:25.5
No, I think because
23:26.5
napakalaking influensya ngayon
23:30.5
tung bagong henerasyon
23:32.5
sa mga darating na henerasyon.
23:34.5
You know, sabi nga nila
23:35.5
that everything is going AI
23:37.5
at the same time.
23:38.5
Ako nalulungkot ako
23:40.5
kapag nakikita ko kasi
23:41.5
yung ibang mga kabataan
23:43.5
at kasamuan kayo ng mga magulang,
23:45.5
minsan either sa restaurant
23:50.5
any venue for that matter.
23:52.5
Walang ginawa kasi
23:53.5
kung hindi nakatutok doon
23:56.5
as well as their children,
23:58.5
need to spend time
24:02.5
You lose precious moments, e.
24:07.5
I am grateful that
24:09.5
when you were growing up,
24:10.5
we did not have the luxury
24:13.5
So talagang kahit
24:14.5
ayaw mo ako kausapin,
24:15.5
kailangan mo ako kausapin.
24:18.5
yun ang gagawin namin
24:19.5
yung rule ni Jessie.
24:20.5
Napag-usapan na namin
24:21.5
when Peanut's a bit older
24:22.5
and she can actually join us
24:24.5
is no phones on the table.
24:26.5
Yung nagagawin natin.
24:28.5
the other side of the coin is
24:29.5
yung security aspect
24:34.5
Ito medyo seryoso ito.
24:35.5
Yung mga nakikita ko sa news
24:37.5
na when some sick person
24:39.5
does something to a kid,
24:41.5
et cetera, et cetera,
24:42.5
it's not simple anger.
24:44.5
It's the fury ng isang magulang
24:46.5
pag may hindi magandang
24:47.5
nangyari sa anak nila.
24:49.5
And a lot of that happens
24:50.5
because of social media.
24:52.5
naiintindihan ko na
24:54.5
na nangyayari yan.
24:56.5
you comprehend how people
24:57.5
get to that level of anger
25:00.5
sa kanilang anak.
25:03.5
yung sinasabi ko kanina
25:09.5
ng magandang dami,
25:12.5
or at the same time,
25:13.5
magiging liberal ka
25:14.5
at napapayagan mo
25:15.5
gawin yung kanilang gusto.
25:17.5
And it's not enough
25:18.5
that you put money,
25:19.5
food on the table.
25:20.5
Kailangan mo talagang
25:27.5
yun ang pinakimportante
25:30.5
to always provide.
25:37.5
had the highest value.
25:41.5
I think we've spent
25:48.5
Happy Father's Day.
25:49.5
Happy Father's Day.
25:50.5
Happy Father's Day.
25:53.5
Happy Father's Day sa'yo.
25:55.5
Happy Happy Father's Day
25:56.5
sa lahat ng mga Daddy d'yan,
25:57.5
sa lahat ng mga single moms,
25:59.5
or kahit yung mga
26:00.5
nagiging tatay-tatayan
26:01.5
sa hindi talaga nila anak,
26:03.5
Happy Father's Day
26:05.5
Thank you for watching
26:07.5
I love you Daddy O.
26:09.5
Happy Father's Day
26:10.5
to all the fathers.
