Why Civil Wedding? Where's Vika's Parent? Responding to Hate Comments and Questions on our Wedding
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video namin yung kasal namin
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eh andami dong tanong
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kung bakit sibil, bakit wala yung
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magbulang ni vika, family ni vika
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kung bakit wala nga yung vlog na to mga pre
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eh sasagutin namin lahat yan
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lahat kasi ng vlog namin binabasa namin lahat ng
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comments nyo don kaya
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eh nakita namin ang dami talagang tanong na
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paulit ulit yun yung tanong eh
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kaya sa vlog na to mga pre
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eh kukwentuhan namin kayo kung ano ba talaga
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yung mga naging decision namin, yung mga naging
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plano namin, paano kami nag
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came up sa ganong wedding
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because there was many people who is asking about that
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many people asking about
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why like that, what happened
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and where's my parents, that's why we will answer them
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some of them, some reasons
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and we also order food and then
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I am hungry, maybe you will get
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kasi nag order si vika, hindi ko alam
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gutom na gutom siya ngayon
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it's already 3pm, we still haven't eaten
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I already will finish all my pickles
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hawakan mo na to, punin ko na sa baba
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so iwan ko muna kayo mga pre kasi punin ko
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mga inorder niyang pagkain sa baba
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thank you very much
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hindi ko alam kung ano yung inorder niya sa baba
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sabi kasi ni vika
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wait, bago ko tapon to
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ganito kasi kami ni vika
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konwari hindi namin
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konwari atang halian o kaya dinner
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tapos tatanongin ako ni vika
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na anong gusto mong
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o kaya tinatanong ko si vika anong gusto mong
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ang laging sagot namin madalas
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ang madalas sagot namin is surprise me
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so yung surprise me
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syempre huwag ka na mag e expect kung ano yung ordering niya
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kung ano yung lutuin niya
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eh dapat ready ka
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so ngayon, ngayong time na to
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eh sabi ko kay vika
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surprise me, ay hindi pala, sabi mo sa akin
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I will surprise you
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so sige, tignan natin kung
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ito yung surprise
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I will just go back while waiting for eugene
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because it will be yummy, we will eat and I will
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you don't need to bel bel
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frankies is the best chicken
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this honey mustard or honey butter
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or honey something
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so siguro upunan lang muna
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sasama ko na kayo dito mga pre
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kasi balak namin kumain dito
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naikipagkwentuhan kami sa inyo
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at bukod syempre sa
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sasagutin namin yung mga tanong nyo
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eh magbabasa rin kami ng mga
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it's your privacy
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actually parang may mokbang
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yung dating natin
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hindi naman mokbang tong vlog natin
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here i ordered one
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i ordered some without bones
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ito yung tanong kasi maraming
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ito yung number one na tinatanong talaga nila
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bakit daw hindi kami sa church
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bakit daw civil wedding
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but hindi sa church
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yugin sa kasal simbahan
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mag effort naman daw ako
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tagasan huan kayo
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why not sa church wedding
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congrats to both of you
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dream na mga girls
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ang ingrandeng kasal
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pre bakit civil e ang daming simbahan
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sa Pilipinas pre kahit man lang
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at makikita sa mukha ni vika pre
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hindi sya masaya dyan
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pinasabi mo lang pre naghaling sya sa sakit
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civil kawawa naman si vika
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I don't want to be nega
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deserves better than that
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sagutin mo pre bakit civil
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e ang daming simbahan sa Pilipinas
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kahit man lang kapilya pre
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I'm not yet baptized
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baptize but I don't know yet when
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but I have a plan
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hindi sya katolik hindi sya kristian
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I know it's the same
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hindi katolik hindi kristian
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kalibika is ibang iba
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kung paano nila ginagawa
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yung wedding ng mga jewish
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yun yung number 1 ding dahilan
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kung bakit talaga hindi kami nag church wedding
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kasi respect ko na rin kay vika
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dahil hindi nga talaga sya kristian
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dahil iba naman yung
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pamamaraan nila, iba yung way nila
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maybe if priest ask bless
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maybe it's fine to me
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I don't really know about this kind of stuff
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and para sa akin kasi mga pre
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yung wedding day is hindi
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naman talaga para sa
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hindi naman talaga para sa lalaki
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kundi yung wedding day talaga is para dun
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sa babae, kaya nga sabi nila kapag daw
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nagsiset up kayo ng wedding, yung
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coordinator, ang tinatanong talaga nila
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hindi naman daw yung lalaki, kundi ang
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tinatanong nila, yung babae, ano yung
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motive, ano yung ganyan ganyan
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yung babae talaga
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sabi nila yung wedding daw talaga
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it's really more about sa babae daw talaga
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kaya lahat na nangyari, bakit
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civil, kung ano yung nangyari sa civil
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it was all my decision, it was my choice
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to make it civil na lang because
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kahit in our countries
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kahit in my, all my kaibigan
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from Lithuania, talaga all
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had civil, really all have
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they went to this register
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this civil, and then they went
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to eat somewhere, and in our
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country parang it's really talaga uso like that
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that's how we really do that, everyone is really
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doing like that, and me of course it's like
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used to my culture, and that's
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why I wanted something close to my heart
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and more comfortable, and that's
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why I decided civil
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it's more masaya for me, because it's like
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quiet, not much people
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this is what from the beginning when we talk
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about the wedding, that's what I really wanted
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but Eugene said, no let's try
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to do, maybe you want this
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you will walk walk like that
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siguro kanya kanya talaga, lahat
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mga babae siguro talaga, iba iba
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siguro kung pinush ko
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yung sarili kong kagustuhan
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baka hindi sya maging masaya
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kaya ang pinipili talaga namin
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yung kung both kami masaya
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lalo lalo na sya, pero you
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masaya diba? siyempre, ako naman kasi masaya
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ako kapag masaya ka, talagang naikita
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ako masaya ka, and then there were questions
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mga pre also parang why don't we do it
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bunga, maingay like that
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first of all I don't really like it, it's like
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no no no to me, it's so hard for me like that
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and second we are
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earning money for something in the future
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that we will gonna do, and I really don't like
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bunga, I just don't know, don't really feel
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but civil I feel like so much
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and that's the beginning, from the beginning this is
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what I really really want
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and it's not bad to make it bunga, it's not bad to make it church
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wala, it's all people have
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different taste, kanya kanya naman yan, kung kayo
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couples kayo, ganon yung plano nyo
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eh ganon, kami kasi yun yung napagusapan
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namin, at dun kami masaya
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tanong sa mga, ito mga nagtatanong
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kung bakit wala yung parents
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ni vika, gabe na ito
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pre bakit wala yung parents ni vika
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tanong lang, salamat, by the way
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congrats, peter taranco
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congrats, god bless you
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where are vika's family
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bakit wala parents ni eugene
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yung parents ko nasina
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yeah, eugene's parents are in the vlog
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yun yung parents ko, kita naman may picture namin
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kapatid also, oo pati yung kapatid ko
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nandun, ang wala lang talaga don
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yung parents ni vika
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because it's really actually
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it's hard for them to come here
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we have our family issues, that's why they cannot come here
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I will not go deep what is that, but
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there is reasons why they cannot come here
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but it never means that I will not go there
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and I will never see them in my life
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just for this wedding, they couldn't really come
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they also watched the video
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they also were so happy for us
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even my, also my father, my mom
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my auntie, on my kapatid
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they were so happy
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they were very very very
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waiting for that day also
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and they also really love eugene so much
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kasi yun nga, isa din sa mga ano
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isa din sa problema namin
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yung nanay kasi ni vika, hindi pwedeng
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wala ko rin kasi yun, sabi ko sana
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i-surprise ko sana si vika
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na yung nanay niya dalin dito
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kaya lang ang problema, yung nanay niya pala
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hindi kayang mag travel, may takot
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sa ano, sa pagsakay ng aeroplano
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kasi siya masakay sa aeroplano like
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dapat daw, kung mag travel yung nanay niya
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may kasama talaga
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ngayon ang tanong, wala siya makakasama
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kasi lahat ng kapatid niya may trabaho
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so yun yung naging problem namin
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kaya bakit hindi sila, kahit isa sa family
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ni vika, hindi nakarating dito
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kasi nga may mga ganon
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hintay ko lang yan, mga 2-3 years
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pag may anak na sila, at kung
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babaib, tumaba na yung babaib
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pag may anak na, sa tingin ko pa naman
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magiging dabiana yan pag may anak na
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it would become a whale
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so what? really ano?
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does it mean you're mas sama?
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every different people
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different bodies, different everything
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as long as you're healthy, there is no problem
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isang may comment dito
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yung unang nag move
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para i-kiss ang groom
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oo, ang dami nagsasabi talaga
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kasi hindi ko alam, alam mo ba yun
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nung sinabi ni mayor na
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hindi ko nga alam kung anong sinabi niya
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kasi nabibingi talaga ako
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nakapocus ako sa kanya
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nakapocus ako sa nararamdaman ko
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parang wala si mayor dyan
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hindi ko na alam kung anong gagawin
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nakita ko nalang bigla siyang kumiss
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you don't know that after ceremony
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at the end, there is always you may kiss the bride
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I know, pero hindi ko alam na yun na yun
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kasi nga parang nabibingi ako
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kinakabahan ka, parang gano'n na lahat
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don't worry, I'm there to support you
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that's why I kissed you first
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tama yung ginawa mo bro para di ma-deport si vika
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pakasalan mo kasi nag-overstay na siya
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oi, hindi siya nag-overstay dito
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hindi siya nag-overstay dito
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nag-extend siya ng visa, hindi overstay
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legal naman yung pag-i-stay ni vika dito
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real talk lang po
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Eugene and read it vika
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wala ka po Eugene
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kung wala si vika
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dumami lang ang viewers mo
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at subs dahil po yan kay vika
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kaya pasalamat ka kay vika
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and make her special all the time
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kasi swerte ka po kay vika
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promise, sorry kung bitter kung pakinggan
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we are both together
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me puzzle, he puzzle, we are like that
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connecting, without me, Eugene is Eugene
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without me, without him, I am just me
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hard to explain but
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pero kahit ako naman, totoo naman
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kahit ako dati, nakikita ko gano'n
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bakit may harsh words dito?
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dati, yun din na iisip ko
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kung totoo kasi sabi ko, hindi naman ako sikat
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kung wala si vika eh, kung baga
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si vika naman yung pinaka main star
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sa vlog na ito eh, hanggang sa may isang
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nagsabi sa amin ni vika na
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wag ko daw isipin yung gano'n bagay
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hindi daw si vika talaga
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yung nagpapakunar eh
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pinaka main star ng vlog namin
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kung hindi kami magkakaroon ng marami subscriber
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viewers, kundi daw dahil kay vika
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yung ano daw namin, kinumpara nga niya
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kay tom and jerry, si tom daw
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ordinaryong pusa lang, si jerry
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lang din, ordinaryong daga
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lang din, ngayon kung papanoorin mo
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si jerry, boring lang, kung papanoorin mo
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lang si tom, nung walang jerry, boring
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lang din daw, ngayon kaya daw maganda
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silang panoorin dahil yung chemistry
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nilang dalawa, that's what i'm saying
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ako daw, kung papanoorin daw ako
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wala daw, normal na pilipino lang
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din daw ako, kung papanoorin lang daw
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si vika, sya lang mag isa, normal na
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foreigner lang daw sya, pero because we are together
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it's more masaya, and there is a
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maybe chemistry or whatever, kaya sabi ko
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oo nga no, sabi ko yung chemistry
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pala talaga natin, biruin mo may chemistry
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chemistry tayo, syempre nakataw
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tama si vika, masaya
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ang kasal, tahimik
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at masaya, natatawa kay vika
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kilig na kilig sya, yeah i was so
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kilig, i was like oh my god
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inside it's like everything wants to
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lumabas, lumabas, so much feelings
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congrats sa bagong kasal
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eto dito ako natatawa
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nakita ko, congrats sa bagong kasal
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beauty and the beast, kaya naman
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ang gayo magamit mo, marlo look alike
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biktima rin ng foreigner
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tapos may nag comment, ano pre tumalong
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ka sa tulay, tutal wala ka naman
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wala naman kuwenta buhay mo, baka sakali
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next life magkaroon ka ng kuwenta
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daw ka natatawa ako sa mga nag aaway
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ng comment yun, hindi ko alam eh
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pero ang natutawa ko, may ano naman
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may dito may nagtatanggol
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sa atin sa mga ganyang comment
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pero kami kasi, hindi na namin talaga
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pinapatulan yung mga
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yung mga bash na comment
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tutusin kung magbabasa kayo ng comment
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marami talaga, bash na comment
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sa akin, loosely sa akin talaga
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pero ako, hindi ko na
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pinapansin yung comment
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yung ginagawa pa namin ni vika, sabi ko sa kanya
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pag may nabasa kang bash na comment, iheart mo na lang
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yung mga tao daw, kaya raw
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kung makapambash, kung ano na raw lumalabas
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sa bibig nila, kung ano ano
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kinocomment, kasi daw sabi nila
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parang kulang sila
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sa pagmamahal, sa pagibig, parang gano'n
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kasi kunwari, may bote ka ng
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tubig, pag natapon yung bote
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ng tubig, ano lalabas?
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may bote ka ng coke, pag natapon yung bote ng coke
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ano lalabas? coke? sabi nila
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sa tao, gano'n din daw, kung ano daw
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yung lumalabas sa'yo, yun din daw yung laman
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ng puso mo, ngayon kung bitter ka
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nasaktan ka, walang pagmamahal
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na pumapasok sa'yo, lahat ng
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ilalabas mo rin, hindi rin maganda
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masakit din na bagay
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pagmamahal yung nararamdaman mo
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walang galit na lalabas sa'yo
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puro pagmamahal din na lalabas sa'yo
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yung mga nangbabash sa'kin
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sabi ko, siguro, may hindi maganda
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nangyari sa buhay nila, kaya ang ginagawa
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ko talaga, ila heart ko talaga sila
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syempre, baka yun yung kulang nila
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kaya sabi ko, heart ko sila
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eto, galing kay Kurama, nakakainis
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yung ibang comment dito
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puro, sana magkaanak na kayo
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puchos, wag kayong
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pangunahan, wag nyo pangunahan
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yung dalawa, Diyos ko, hayaan nyo muna
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yun nilang pagkabata nila
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malaking responsibilidad ang mga anak
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bata pa naman sila
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wag nyo pressure-in ang dalawa
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sa kagustuhan nyo
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pero, kasi kung babasahin nyo yun
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talaga yung puro comment
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we received 2 nagkanak already
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hindi naman kami napapressure, normal naman yan
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everything is the right time
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kasi diba pag may kinakasal, yun naman lagi yun
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kailang kayong mag-aana
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kahit mama mo, diba nagtatanong din
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so what? planning already?
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pre, magkano lahat
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lahat ng nagastos nyo sa civil wedding
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matanong lang para may idea kami
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so ang dami nagtatanong nga yan
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okay, let's remove the
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around 30,000 without sing-sing
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so kayo, kung gusto nyo
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yung mas may damit
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na kayo, so pagbuwasan nyo
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pwede umabot lang talaga ng 10,000
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kaya nyo magpakasal o less than 10,000
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I also didn't have any
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wala rin kasi syang makeup
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so it's a bit more or less
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it's not that we are trying to tipid-tipid
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that is more convenient and more happy for both of us
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hindi talaga, hindi namin
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talaga iniisip na, ay kailangan
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tipid tayo, kailangan, ganito
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kahit sa damit namin
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ang gusto namin, yung simple lang
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basta yung magiging masaya kami
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pinag-usapan naman namin lahat yan
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so I think mga pre, that's all
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magsha-shoutout nalang nuna kami ni Vika
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but before finishing this
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I also want to say thank you so much for all the people
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that commented and support our wedding
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and said that how they felt
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parang someone said that they nakaiyak
17:10.0
like that, and just really
17:12.0
thank you for all these nice and sweet comments
17:14.0
we really appreciate it
17:16.0
and there is no bad in making it
17:18.0
bongga, not making it bongga, it's all
17:20.0
up to you, up to your decision, up to your heart
17:22.0
whatever you want to, yun lang
17:24.0
so shoutout muna tayo mga pre
17:46.0
so shoutout sa inyo lahat mga pre
17:48.0
bakit di lagi taking my smile
17:56.0
you eat this bread
18:02.0
we are one so you eat what i said
