Bugbog o Layas - Tama bang MANAKIT ng ANAK forda LIFE LESSONS? @MOMMYTONIFOWLER
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nagkagadrama na naman po galing ka languages mo
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ganda ng setup nila
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alam nyo, eto na yung mga points sa buhay ko
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na hindi ko na alam kung totoo o hindi
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yung pinanonood ko
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So, all throughout the video mga kamatis mga kaibigan
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malalaman nyo na itong video na to
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So, kung meron tayong Mami Oni na main character
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meron naman tayong
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siya yung subject nitong video na to
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Isasummarize ko na lang lahat
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para dun sa mga ayaw manood
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pero I encourage everyone
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na panoorin tong video na to
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kasi it's very entertaining
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sobrang entertaining talaga
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alam mo kung sa tingin ng iba walang value to
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well, you just have to watch it for yourself
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So, dito sa part na to
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lahat ng drama nitong episode na to
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it was really intense
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yun lang yung masasabi ko
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hindi ko pwedeng iplay kasi puro siya mura
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hindi ko alam kung paano pa sila kumikita rito
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kasi most likely demonetized to
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kasi mura siya ng mura
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pinalalagpas ng youtube yan
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pero knowing Mami Oni ha
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mas malamang may maraming kilala yan sa youtube
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mag react na lang tayo
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i-edit out ko na lang pag may mura
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may nagsasayong pag nagalit ka namin
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nasabihin namin yung mali mo
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there was an incident sa hotel
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na parang sinanggi daw yung
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ng isang foreigner
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kasi something happened
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parang ang dating is
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kaso hindi sinabi kay Mami Oni
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and 2 weeks na lang nalaman eto na nga
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so yan yung unang
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litanya ni Mami Oni
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okay so tuloy natin
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ang tawag yata doon
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biglang napunta doon
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pero i understand Mami Oni
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pinaproject na yung younger self
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hindi naman mali si Mami Oni
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magsabi siguro sabihin na lang
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ng malumanay pwede naman yun
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pero ano bang alam ko sa drama
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mas loud mas okay
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siguro it's part of
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alam mo yung meron kasi sa wrestling
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ang tawag dila doon
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of course sa wrestling
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most of the things na nangyayari doon
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I'm not saying that this is fake
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I'm just saying sa inyo
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that there was probably an issue
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na totoong nangyari sa kanila
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ikukunan nila tas gagawin nilang
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motivation para gumawa
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pagkakitaan mo na lang
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kaysa kim-kimin mo
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at least kumita pa sila
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and siguro that's a good way of
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staying relevant for this long
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kasi grabe si Mami Oni talaga
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sobrang galing niya
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when na nakin sayo sa labas
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tama naman si Mami Oni
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maganda naman yung kanyang
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motivation sa pagpapagalit doon sa bata
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ang hindi lang siguro maganda
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and of course nakakamera kasi
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pwede na yun, kukuwento ko nalang sa inyo
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ang hirap kasi i-monetize
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nitong ganitong klaseng content
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ngayon kasi syempre
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as youtubers you want to monetize
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as much as possible
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sensitive kasi yun
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it's about gender
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apparently merong isang
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kasama sila sa bahay na tibo
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yung babae na yun
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yung babae na si Pey
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the person identifies as
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nagtutulog daw sila sa isang
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kwarto apparently sabi ni
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at syaka ni Mami Oni
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yun yung pinapagalitan niya
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na parang of course
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ang lumalabas noon bata ka pa may katabi ka na
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agad na ibang gender
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pagkawok yung stunt ni
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Mami Oni which is
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fundamentally I don't think it's wrong na
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ganun niya kasi nga of course
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parang may katabing lalaki noon kasi nga
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identify as male yung katabi mo
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medyo complicated
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it's going to be very brutal
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pakinggan na natin yung mga susunod na sasabihin
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mag-usapan natin yung parenting
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styles kasi nga medyo brutal
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ni Mami Oni so let's just go to the
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science of parenting meron kasi yung
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mga permissive eto yung mga parang
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sakto lang hinahayaan na lang nila
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yung mga anak nila
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usually yung mga permissive parents
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has meron yung mga spoiled na
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si Mami Oni is the opposite
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of that sya yung authoritarian
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na parent and parent driven
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set strict rules one way communication
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with little consideration with
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social emotional behavioral needs
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so alam nyo dapat sya yung masusunod
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which is naintindihan ko naman
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kasi yung upbringing
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nung bata si Mami Oni was
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yung inaacting nya pero of course
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hindi nya pinoproject yung
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sa mga bata kasi kawawa
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naman diba so yun yung ano ko ha
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yun yung aking opinion
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doon siguro mas maganda kung
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authoritative si Mami Oni
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na pinapakinggan nya yung
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anak nya kasi nga tininconsider
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nya na yung kapatid ni Papi as
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her daughter so siguro
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mas maganda open the lines of
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communication and minus the
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corporal punishment kasi
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yung pananakit ng
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parents or yung paghahataw
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na yun ay tinatawag
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natin corporal punishment medyo
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panoorin lang natin ng konti
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so ano yan alas or bugbog
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kasi ikakat naman nila
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imagination mo nalang yung
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pero I don't think
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magsalita sa tingin ko lang talaga
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I think what happen is
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meron talaga silang issue tapos
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may camera lang talaga kaya mas intense
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I think that is the picture
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that I wanna tell you guys
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gusto kong ma-monetize
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so ang tawag sa gagawin ni mommy on
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is corporal punishment
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of course corporal punishment
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by some countries
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actually binaban nga yan
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sa ibang countries and it's considered
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child abuse pagka ikaw ay
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buhat ng kamay sa anak mo
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pero there are other ways kasi
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to punish your child without
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physically hurting them
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there is a saying
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spare the rod and spoil the child
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which means that if you don't punish your
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child pag nakamali sya they will
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never learn I think that is
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rearing your child
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I think ang pinaka best talaga
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is to go in between parang ito
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you should make the
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kasi sa education
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meron tinatawag na positive
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reinforcement at saka negative reinforcement
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positive reinforcement
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sa a child when he
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does something good okay
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pwede rin namang negative reinforcement
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you remove the reward when there is
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bad behavior or you introduce
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punishment dalawang
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idea yun eh so what is the
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punishment it doesn't have
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alam mo yan kasi it's so
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difficult kasi to be physical with
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meron kasing studies
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in certain educational
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may level of escalations kasi
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nasanay ng pinapalo yung bata
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okay pagka nakamali papaluin agad
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ng nanay isang palo or isang
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sinturon diba so eventually
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na yung pain tolerance ng bata
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kasi sanay na syang paluin
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papaluin mo sya ng papaluin
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parang wala na lang yung pagalit mo
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kapagka next time na nagkagawa sya ng mali
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alam niya expected nya na yung papaluin
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mo papaluin mo sya so anong
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mangyayari escalate mo
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pamamalo kung dati isang
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after nga magiging 4 na
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kasi na nasasanay syang bata when
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the punishment is
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hindi dynamic yun nga yung mas maganda
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psychologists would say na kailangan
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maging authoritative
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maging autoritative ka na parent
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so queso ma nakita
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biruin mo, kung nasanay syang
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isang sampal baka next time
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kahit sipain mo wala ng effect
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gagawin pa rin niya yung bad behavior na yan
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magtago because of that
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so open lines of communication
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kasi unfortunately
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paparinig ko na lang sa inyo yung ending
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kasi parang wala tayong
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natutunan dito sa video na to
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okay, yun lang naman
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take it away, paye
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Kung maldita ako, alam kong
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deserve ko yun, yung consequence na
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ginawa sa kanila Mami Ollie
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sa pagdisiplina, and tinatanggap ko naman
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yun dahil ayoko mawala ng car
