00:40.0
Hi there, this is Chinky Tan, your Pambansang World Coach.
00:43.0
I'm really so excited today because I'm gonna share with you my personal stories,
00:48.0
lessons, and insight from my own failure.
00:51.0
And I discovered how failure can really contribute to success.
00:55.0
Okay, kaya you're in for a treat pero bago natin pag-usapan yan,
00:58.0
I encourage you to hit the syempre subscribe button.
01:02.0
Okay, let's talk about failures.
01:03.0
Lahat naman po tayo naka-experience po tayo ng failures.
01:06.0
You failed in an exam, failed in business, failed your parents,
01:10.0
failed probably your spouse, failed your kids,
01:13.0
failed in a relationship.
01:15.0
Lahat po tayo naka-experience failure.
01:17.0
And once you and I experience failure, we will experience pain.
01:22.0
And the reason why we hate failure, it's not because we don't like failure,
01:26.0
it's because we don't like pain.
01:27.0
Masakit, masakit na bumagsak, masakit na mareject,
01:29.0
masakit na hindi mangyari ang plano mo.
01:32.0
Pinagpaguran mo siya, nakaka-frustrate.
01:35.0
And yours truly number one, failure.
01:37.0
Okay, pag-usapan natin.
01:38.0
I never finished a formal degree so technically,
01:40.0
when yung mga peers ko alam na talagang syempre may disadvantage ako.
01:45.0
Okay, let's talk about ergonomics.
01:47.0
I failed grade 6 four times.
01:49.0
I mastered it so baka nagtataka kayo.
01:52.0
For some people, no.
01:53.0
Hindi na kayo nagtataka pero for the first timer, yes.
01:56.0
I failed grade 6 four times.
01:58.0
I failed in business, yes.
02:00.0
I lost millions in an opportunity in a business.
02:04.0
But one thing that I've learned from failure is this.
02:09.0
Number one is you should learn from your failure.
02:12.0
I think first powerful lesson that I've learned.
02:14.0
Because if you did not learn from your failure, it's just a big mistake.
02:21.0
And once you commit a mistake, if you don't learn from it,
02:24.0
you are bound to make the same mistake again.
02:27.0
There was one time actually in our company,
02:29.0
in our organization,
02:31.0
there was one person who cost me P700,000.
02:36.0
When I say P700,000, he made a bad mistake.
02:39.0
And nawalan yung company namin na P700,000.
02:43.0
That's a lot of money.
02:44.0
So, nag-usap-usap kami and then somebody then suggested,
02:48.0
I think we should remove this person.
02:51.0
Tanggalin na natin because it cost us a lot of money.
02:54.0
And ako, thinking about it,
02:56.0
number one, sinadya ba niya? Hindi.
02:58.0
Intentional? Hindi.
03:00.0
Number three, pinakita niya? Hindi.
03:02.0
Okay, it's just probably the lack of experience or probably neglect.
03:07.0
So, sinabi ko, okay, this is what we're going to do.
03:09.0
We're going to talk to him.
03:10.0
And then number two, we are going to tell him how it cost us.
03:14.0
And then number three, we are not going to remove him.
03:17.0
Na-shock niyo mga kasama ko.
03:19.0
Bakit di natin tatanggalin?
03:20.0
Kasi nga, you know what?
03:21.0
I just paid P700,000 for him to learn a good lesson.
03:26.0
So, kung gagawin ko, tatanggalin ko siya.
03:28.0
Tapos lilipat siya sa kumpanya yung iba.
03:31.0
Ang mangyihari niyan, makikinabang yung kumpanya from my P700,000 loss.
03:36.0
So, embrace failure as an opportunity for you to grow and learn.
03:40.0
Ang gusto kong gawin mo ngayon, kahit nasaan ka,
03:42.0
nagkamali ka, I want you to get a piece of paper
03:47.0
I want you to write down all of the failures that you have committed.
03:51.0
So, lahat ng mga failures mo, sulat mo.
03:54.0
I failed grade 6, I failed in a business,
03:56.0
I failed in an investment,
03:58.0
I failed in sales,
03:59.0
I failed, yung ganyan.
04:00.0
Sulat mo lahat ng mga failures mo.
04:02.0
And then number two, lessons that you learned.
04:04.0
Sulat mo, lessons.
04:05.0
Ako kanyari, I lost money because nagpa-utang ako.
04:08.0
Huwag nang magtiwala sa mga taong hindi pwedeng pagkatiwalaan.
04:12.0
Or if not, huwag nang magpa-utang.
04:14.0
Uli, para hindi ka na mahirapan.
04:17.0
Once nasulat mo na yung mga lessons learned,
04:20.0
yan na yung guidelines mo.
04:22.0
Huwag mo nang uliting, okay?
04:24.0
Kasi, pag hindi ka natuto, inulit mo ulit,
04:28.0
ang tawag sayo ay B.O.B.O.
04:31.0
Sabi nga ni, yun na to,
04:34.0
hindi ka ba naggrade 2?
04:35.0
So, once we commit na may same mistake,
04:37.0
over and over again, we never learn.
04:38.0
Second lesson that I learned, powerful lesson,
04:40.0
failure helps you to become stronger.
04:43.0
And yun nga, when I was failing,
04:44.0
talagang tumibay ako e.
04:48.0
Parang ano yan e,
04:49.0
sa bike, pag nadapa ka,
04:52.0
Hindi na ulitin yung mga mali.
04:54.0
Pero habang nadadapa ka,
04:57.0
you cultivate what we call as resiliency.
05:00.0
Nagkakaroon ka na tinatawag na adaptability,
05:02.0
nagkakaroon ka na discipline,
05:03.0
nagkakaroon ka na determination.
05:07.0
Noong nagumpisa ako sa totoo lang sa sales,
05:09.0
ang hirap talaga magbenta.
05:10.0
Ang hirap, hirap magbenta.
05:12.0
nagbebit-bit ako ng mga toilet paper na mabibigat,
05:14.0
nagbebenta ako ng mga fire extinguisher during that time.
05:17.0
Ang hirap magbuhat.
05:18.0
Pero you know what?
05:19.0
Sa mga hirap na pinagdaanan ko,
05:21.0
sa mga pagsubok na dinaanan ko,
05:23.0
tumibay ang pagkatao ko.
05:24.0
Kaya nga, yung mga maliliit na rejection,
05:27.0
minsan may mga bashers tayo,
05:28.0
ay, kasama na yan.
05:29.0
Sometimes I eat rejection for breakfast,
05:32.0
bashers for lunch,
05:33.0
and failures for dinner.
05:35.0
Kaya sanayad lang yan.
05:37.0
kung medyo balat-sibuyas ka,
05:38.0
nagiging emotional ka,
05:39.0
tuwing ikaw ay nare-reject na kung maniwala ka,
05:42.0
kailangan tatandaan mo,
05:43.0
ito ay pampatibay.
05:45.0
May kasabihan nga,
05:46.0
what doesn't kill you, won't hurt you.
05:48.0
It will make you just stronger.
05:50.0
Third lesson that I've learned from failure is this,
05:52.0
failure forces you to be resourceful.
05:55.0
Diba, kung nawalan ka na ng pera,
05:57.0
naubos na yung pera mo,
05:59.0
diba, anong gagawin mo?
06:01.0
Just like when I lost everything,
06:03.0
Wala kang ka-pera-pera na,
06:05.0
So, ano nangyari ko?
06:06.0
Naging madiskate ako.
06:07.0
I can still remember,
06:08.0
noong year 2000 nga,
06:09.0
wala na akong ka-pera-pera,
06:10.0
because nagtansisyon ako ng business,
06:12.0
nagsara yung isang negosyo.
06:13.0
Ang ginawa ko po,
06:14.0
I had a good idea,
06:15.0
and I just borrowed some money
06:19.0
to be part of the company.
06:21.0
So, naging financial partner siya,
06:23.0
kami naman industrial partner.
06:24.0
Tukat dulong story short,
06:27.0
we sold P250 million.
06:31.0
Narecover niya yung investment niya
06:32.0
in three months or six months.
06:33.0
Grabe talaga, no?
06:35.0
I just want to encourage you,
06:36.0
pag ikaw may pinagdadaanan ka,
06:38.0
maintain a positive attitude,
06:40.0
despite of the setbacks.
06:41.0
Apply the lessons that you learned,
06:43.0
and try to improve,
06:47.0
hindi na ako mga friendship.
06:48.0
Use your failure as a stepping stone
06:50.0
to what you want to achieve in life.
06:52.0
So, that's what I did.
06:53.0
I used my experience to inspire
06:55.0
and guide other people right now
06:58.0
You know what I did?
06:59.0
I used my pain and my scars
07:01.0
and turned them into stars.
07:03.0
Turned my pain right now,
07:05.0
into other people's gain.
07:08.0
three powerful lessons
07:09.0
that I've learned from failure.
07:11.0
failure, learn from it.
07:13.0
it helps you to become stronger.
07:16.0
it helps you to become more resourceful.
07:20.0
pag ikaw nag-fail ka, kapatid.
07:21.0
It's not the dead end.
07:22.0
The more failure,
07:23.0
the more chances of winning.
07:24.0
So, see poster and print ad for details.
07:29.0
kailangan magbago na yung attitude mo.
07:31.0
Huwag kang mawawalan
07:32.0
at masisiraan ng loob.
07:35.0
hindi aksidente na pinapanood mo itong video na ito.
07:38.0
Magtiwala ka lang sa ginagawa mo.
07:40.0
Magtiwala ka lang sa proseso.
07:41.0
Magtiwala ka lang kay Lord.
07:43.0
Manalig ka lang kay Lord.
07:44.0
And darating araw,
07:45.0
babalikan mo itong video na ito
07:47.0
at magpapasalamat ka sa akin.
07:50.0
Ang dami palang leksyon
07:54.0
If you do like this video,
07:57.0
Please comment naman kayo
07:58.0
sa comment section.
07:59.0
What do you like?
08:00.0
What did you learn?
08:02.0
cut paste this video
08:03.0
and share with someone
08:04.0
who's going through
08:05.0
tough times and challenges.
08:09.0
tamang disiplina po
08:10.0
ang susi sa pagyaman.
