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So, isyoshare ko sa inyo personal journey ko and how you can also get out of it.
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Ang pinaka siguro, let me start with this premise.
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Ayaw na ayaw ko yung family reunion, class reunion. Bakit po?
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Parating natatanong na,
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Uy, ano na yung tinapos mo? Uy, may negosyo ka na ba? May isawa ka na ba? May pa ka na ba?
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Oo. Parang, parang...
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Lalo na kung single ka pa, diba?
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Ang hirap yan, lalo na pag wala ka na sa kalendaryo, sabihin sa'yo,
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Uy, wala ka na sa kalendaryo.
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Alam, pag sinabihan kang gano'n, wala ka na sa kalendaryo kasi thirty one ka na, wala ka pang jowa.
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Ay naku, sumagot ka ng buong tapang sabihin mo, bakit?
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Sa letrang O, diba? Sa bingo. Sa bingo card, diba? Sa letrang O, seventy five.
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Hindi, ito lang ha. Mga friendship.
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Ako rin, kasi yung parang family reunion, they will ask,
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Ano? Anong tinapos mo? Cricket?
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Crick, crick, crick, crick.
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Ay, kasi yung number one, undergraduate ako, number two.
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I failed grade six four times.
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So, parang, ang feeling ko talaga, loser talaga ako.
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And then, feeling ko talaga na, yun, they look down at me.
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Diba? Parang, pag wala ka na achieve sa buhay, parang feeling mo, nandududa ka sa sarili mo.
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Tapos, parang ka nang hinuhusgahan.
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Diba? May stigma, diba? At nakakahiya.
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At feeling mo, nag-iisa ka.
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And then, syempre, marami kang frustration sa buhay.
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Sino sa inyo ang nakaka-relate?
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Type relate in the comment section.
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Kaya tatanungin ko si Curious Pinoy Channel.
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Si Julius Centeno pala, at saka si Shani Barro.
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Nakaka-relate ba kayo?
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So, basically, what I've done nung narealize ko talaga na I'm an underachiever.
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So, ito yung unang ginawa ko.
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Number one, I acknowledge that I failed in the past.
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Nag-fail talaga ako.
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Wala, hindi ako nakapagtapos eh.
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Gumagsaka talaga ako eh.
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Huwag nating i-deny na naging parte na ng buhay natin yan.
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But one thing that I've realized is this.
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Stop living in the past.
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One thing that you and I should understand is you cannot change the past.
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Your past mistake, your past hurts, your past failures.
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If you always live in the past, you know what will happen, my friend?
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You've become a prisoner of your past.
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You will never be able to move forward and move on.
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Agree o disagree?
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Type in the comment section.
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Kaya nga ang dami po sa atin ngayon na nakikinig.
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Kung bakit ka hindi makamove on?
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Parati kasi sinisisi mo yung nakaraan mo eh.
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Sinisisi mo yung magulang mo.
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Sinisisi mo yung mga kamag-anak mo kung bakit ka naging biktima.
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Yes, you got the short end of the stick.
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But one thing I've learned again,
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if you live in the past, you become a prisoner of the past.
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You cannot change the past.
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That's number one.
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Second thing that I've realized is I cannot also live in the future.
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When you say future,
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kasi minsan nagiging futuristic tayo eh.
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Paano kong mag-umpisa akong negosyo?
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At paano kong malugi?
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Paano kung, let's say, mag-switch ako ng karir?
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Eh paano kung ayaw ko yung environment?
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Paano naman eh kung, let's say, umibig ako?
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Nagpahihwati ka, mag-bastard ako?
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So, once you always live also in the future,
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nagkikreate din ang tinatawag kong fear.
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The fear of the unknown.
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The fear of failure.
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The fear of rejection.
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The fear of failure.
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Of the uncertainty.
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Yun din ang nagiging problem.
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If you live in the past, you become a prisoner of the past.
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When you live in the future, you become fearful.
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Agree or disagree?
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Grabe naman tong session natin na ito.
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And one thing I've realized is this.
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This session will be short.
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How I would turn myself from an underachiever to an overachiever.
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You know what I realized?
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That I just need to live in the present moment.
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I cannot live in the past.
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I cannot live in the future.
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I need to live in the present.
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I need to ask myself these following questions.
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Sana ako magaling?
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May abilidad ako.
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Sana ako magaling?
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Magaling ako magbenta.
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Magaling ako makipag-communicate.
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Magaling ako ikang mag-explain.
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That's number two.
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Tapos number three.
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Anong meron ako ngayon?
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Wala akong pera during that time.
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Pero meron akong skills.
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Meron akong talent.
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And then, yun ang ginawa ko.
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I live one day at a time.
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One day at a time.
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Hindi ko na iniisip yung nakaraan ko.
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Hindi ko na mababago.
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Hindi ko na iisipin yung kinumbukasan ko.
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Dahil matatakot lang ako.
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Araw-araw ito lang ang ginagawa ko.
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So, I made conscious decision everyday.
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Anong ginagawa ko?
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Basta ang goal ko every single day
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Ang goal ko is progression.
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Kailangan mag-progress ako.
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Dati kumikita ako ng sampung piso ngayon.
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Naging isan daan.
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Dating isan daan,
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kumita na ako sang libo.
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Gagawin kong isan daan.
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Dating isan daan,
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kumita na ako sang libo.
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I have over 10 million followers
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over social media.
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two prominent shows
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yung Magbadyat Tayo
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and yung Ching Positive.
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That's my solo show for 12 years.
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This won already the Best Special Program
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yung Ching Positive
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and the 20th KBP Down to Cold End of Awards
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I won the Best Special Program
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host for Magbadyat Tayo.
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I received the Best Selling Product Award
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at TikTok Awards in 2023.
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And I also was celebrated
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as the Best Content Educator of the Year
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at TikTok Awards in 2023.
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I'm an author of 17 best-selling books.
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My podcast ranks on the top 15
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listened at Spotify.
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I engage also at least
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150 to 200 speaking engagements per year.
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And, aside from that,
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pinaka-accomplishment ko
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outweighs all of my accomplishments.
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I'm happily married for over 24 years
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to my wife, Novi,
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and I have three wonderful kids.
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yun po ay nangyari.
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So, probably you're asking right now,
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ikaw yan, pero paano naman ako?
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bibilisan ko lang to,
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how you can also overcome
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your underachievement.
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So, if you have a paper and a pen,
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Accept that, again,
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you cannot change the past.
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Do not stop living in the future.
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Start living in the present.
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That's step number one.
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set realistic goals.
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Wag na muna tayo yung bahay sa sakyan.
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Pag-usapan muna natin ngayon,
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meron kang present income,
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you want to earn additional income.
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Yung additional income mo,
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kahit kumita ka ng sampung piso,
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improvement na yan,
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From sampung piso,
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gawin mong sandaan,
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isandaan, gawin mong sandibo,
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isandibo, gawin mong dalawang dibo,
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Again, ang goal is progression,
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Reach out for coaches and mentors
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who can help you.
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Bakit mo kailangan pagtiisan
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na lahat ang pagkakamali
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kung pwede ka matuto
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sa mga taong nagkamali?
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develop a growth mindset.
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that can really help you.
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Continuously to learn.
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And then, last but not the least,
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Never ever give up.
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Kahit na anong mangyari sa buhay mo,
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ulit-uliting mo lang ito ha.
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Uliting kung sinabi ko ha.
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Accept mo kung nasaan ka.
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Live in the present.
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Set realistic goals.
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Kahit bariya lang,
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maghanap ka ng mga guidance
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ng coaches and mentors
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that continues to learn,
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develop a growth mindset,
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at wag kang aayaw.
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Ano bang pagginawa mo yan?
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From an underachiever,
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you can be an overachiever.
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And I'm really excited
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for your journey.
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That's the reason why
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if you want to be part
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of the transformational journey
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and if you want me to help you
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to be part of the transformational journey,
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Na ako na mag-coach sa'yo,
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ako na mag-guide sa'yo.
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at our Team Iponaryo.
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Team Iponaryo Community
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sa Facebook group po.
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Private group po ito.
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You can join for free.
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and we will meet there
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and we will connect each other there
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at para makapag-usa po tayo.
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Para sa mga taong
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na sumusubaybay sa channel na ito,
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maraming salamat.
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Pakitype lang kung ano yung
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nagustuhan nyo sa episode natin na ito.
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It would mean a lot to me.
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kung nagustuhan nyo rin tong episode,
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share this episode to your friends.
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Lalo na yung mga taong underachiever.
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Yung mga row four.
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Tamang karunungan.
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Tamang disiplina.
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Ang susi sa pagyaman.
