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Videos that will make you wealthy and debt-free.
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Hi there! This is Chinkee Tan,
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your Pambansang World Coach.
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Ayun, ako super excited.
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Ako, sa episode natin na ito,
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join me through a journey of my life.
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Parang, grabe talaga.
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Kung paano nakatulong po talaga ang mentorship po sa akin.
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From a person who's lost,
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to right now, I'm found.
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Naalala niyo ba ba itong Karate Kid?
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I'm sure kasi two versions yan eh.
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Kay Miyagi at saka kay Jackie Chan.
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Inabutan ko kay Jackie Chan.
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Hindi, Miyagi, Miyagi.
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So, si Miyagi, during that time,
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diba may tinuturo siya.
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Diba sabi ni Daniel-san,
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Daniel-san, I want to learn Karate.
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Walks in, walks out.
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Paint up, paint back.
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I want to learn Karate.
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Ay, araw-araw yun ang ginawa niya.
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Tapos, until such time, diba,
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nainis na talaga si Daniel-san.
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Ayoko na, ayoko na.
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Ayoko na mag-walks in, walks out.
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Ginagamit mo lang ako.
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Tapos, bigla na lang,
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sinuntok siya ni Miyagi.
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Sinuntok siya ni Miyagi.
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O, pagsuntok niya.
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Gumaganong gano'n siya.
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Tapos, ginagamit.
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Oo, nagamit niya.
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So, ang ibig sabihin po niya,
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yung mga basic po,
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na tinuturo natin sa buhay,
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ang ikang impact po,
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And when you talk about mentorship,
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it's very different from coaching.
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Ang mentorship is transferring
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of one's knowledge,
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and expertise to another person.
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tinuturo niya kay Daniel San.
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alam mo, ito lang po.
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Pag wala po tayong mentor sa buhay,
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alam mo, mangyari niyan?
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Una, feeling lost.
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Parang bumiyahin na wala kang direction,
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di mo alam, di ba?
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Wala kang purpose.
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And then, pag wala ka rin mentor,
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ay mas marami pong mga pagkakamali
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na pwede mong gawin.
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Imbis na maiwasan mong pagkakamali.
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ay napakalungkot niyan.
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Kasi minsan, I don't know kung experience mo niyan.
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Hindi mo na alam anong gagawin mo.
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Di ba? Pagkatapos niyan,
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diskate ka ng diskate,
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pero nasasayang lang yung oras mo.
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Na-experience mo niyan.
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And then, you miss a lot of good chances.
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Important opportunities.
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Minsan, nabigyan ka ng opportunity,
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pero walang nagko-coach,
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Kaya nga, alam mo,
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nagpapasalamat talaga po ako na,
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yun nga, na-realize ko na talagang,
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I cannot do it alone.
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I need to find a mentor.
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And during the time,
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mga first few mentors ko,
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are books, authors.
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Siyempre, wala pa.
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Hindi ko pa alam.
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Nagbabasa talaga ng books.
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And when I started to read books,
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parang kung paano sila mag-isip,
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ganoon na rin ako mag-isip.
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And one of my favorite author talaga,
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when it comes to leadership,
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okay, leadership,
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si John Maxwell talaga.
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One of the most impactful na sinasabi
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niya sa about leadership,
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it's not about title,
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it's never about position.
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Because even if you have a title,
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you have a position,
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if people do not follow you,
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you're not a leader.
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Because leadership is all about the word
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called influence.
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Pag may influensya ka sa buhay
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kahit wala kang title and position.
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I moved on from books.
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Nakinig na ako ng mga cassette tapes.
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Cassette tapes, oh.
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Cassette tapes pa during that time.
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Wala pang mga download, download.
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So, bumibili ako sa America.
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Grabe, the power of goal setting.
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Memorize ko talaga siya,
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as a matter of fact.
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Hindi ako magaling mag-English,
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nakakapakinig na mga cassette tapes na iyan,
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gumaling ang English ko.
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That's the reason why,
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if you realize that my grammar
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is perfect in tenses,
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it means that I memorized it.
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Yan ang boses ni Zig Ziglar.
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Cassette tapes were my mentors also.
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kasi iba-iba tayong learner.
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May mga iba reader,
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may mga iba auditory.
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I'm more of a listener.
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And until such time,
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I found a physical mentor
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na talagang hindi na siya international,
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pero local na siya.
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And nagpapasalaman ako
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that this person came into my life,
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and that is no other than Mr. Francis Kong.
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He's a renowned speaker,
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expertise in leadership,
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personal development,
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Grabe talaga yung wisdom niya.
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To cut the long story short,
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how Francis Kong has guided and mentored me,
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ang ginawa ko po,
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ito yung ginawa ko,
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kung gusto mo talaga makahanap ng mentor,
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kailangan makulit ka.
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When you say makulit,
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kinulit ko talaga siya.
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can I work for you for free?
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I will shadow you.
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To cut the long story short,
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nag-carry ako ng bag niya.
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Ako naggawa ng PowerPoint.
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Ako nag-assist sa kanya.
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through those mentorship,
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nung nakikita ko siya,
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I learned the art,
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of tama niyang mindset,
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tama niyang habits.
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Nakikita ko siya,
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pag nag-out of town kami,
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Pagkatapos nagbabasa ng Bible.
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Yun, may routine na siya.
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Mag-exercise na siya.
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It really inspired me.
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galing talaga ng taong ito.
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He walks the talk.
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Hindi lang talaga siya show.
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And not only that,
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on how to write books.
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He taught me how to do
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everything that I know right now.
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That's the reason why, guys,
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I owe this career
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kung di ka pa yung nagpa-follow,
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please do follow him
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at his social media website.
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The question that I would like
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to answer today is this.
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the right mentor for you?
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bago natin sigutin yan,
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kamustayin muna natin
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paano ka makakahanap
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i-identify mo muna
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kung anong goals mo
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at saka na name mo.
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If you want to have a,
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like for example,
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spiritual mentor,
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someone who's spiritual.
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If you want to have
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a relationship mentor,
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find someone who's good
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in relationships.
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If you want to find
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a person who's financial,
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you find a financial mentor.
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That's number one.
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seek someone who is
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really an expert.
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Who's not only good
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but good at walking.
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They walk the talk.
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Ibig sabihin po niya,
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may years of experience
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na meron ng proof.
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medyo nakakasyak na nga.
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ano kaya tuturo nila?
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expertise and experience,
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baka kulang pa sila
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just like what I did,
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kailangan makulit ka.
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Build genuine connection.
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when you reach out
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Mentor mo naman ko.
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May utang na loob.
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you need to learn
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meron ba akong pwedeng itulong sa'yo?
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How can I serve you?
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And in the process of you serving him,
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you get something in return.
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di ba may kakilala kayong,
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Uy, pa-utang naman.
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pag gusto mong maghanap ng mentor,
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always remember this.
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Hindi ko makalimutan to.
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A mentor will appear
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when the student is ready.
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How will you know that if you're ready?
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If you're hungry?
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If you're receptive?
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So, if you're open for,
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Pag hindi ka pa open,
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at feeling mong magaling ka pa,
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it's not yet your time.
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ito yung narealize ko,
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sa power of mentorship.
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I always tell people,
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there's no shortcut to success.
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Type agree in the comments section
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kung nag-agree ka.
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Walang shortcut sa success.
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But you can cut short
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your learning curve
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if you learn from great mentors.
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And I'm really so thankful and grateful.
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Writing my first book,
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I have a TV show.
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I owe everything to God,
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and to my mentor.
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Kaya nga para sa mga tao,
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naghanap ka ba ng mentor?
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Kung naghanap ka ng mentor,
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why don't you join us
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That's number one.
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kung gusto mo talaga,
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to be mentored by me,
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join us in our community channel
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So, if you want to be part of
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the Team Iponaryo Facebook group,
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but everything to gain.
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Maraming maraming salamat,
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and I hope that you are enlightened
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the importance of mentorship.
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meron na rin ang mentor mo
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sa different fields.
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in your personal,
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tamang karunungan,
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ang susi sa pagyaman.
