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00:00.6
Maawa?
00:02.0
Ako, maaawa?
00:03.9
Bakit? Naawa ba yung anak niyo sa akin
00:05.4
nung paulit-ulit niya akong naloloko?
00:07.9
Kung meron dapat isuse,
00:09.8
ipadlock at itali ng barbed wire.
00:11.8
Yan ay yung panty mo!
00:15.2
Ang anak ni Janice de Belen
00:17.2
at ni John Estrada.
00:21.3
Siyempre, pride nila yan.
00:23.0
Si Kyla.
00:23.7
Hindi, siguro ganon.
00:24.9
Nagulat siya kasi hindi niya alam
00:26.1
kung bakit ako nag-trending.
00:27.6
Sabi niya, para saan ba to?
00:30.0
Pero ayaw mo muna silang makatrabaho ngayon?
00:34.1
All I can say is that
00:35.2
I chose to do this on my own.
00:40.0
Yung iba sinasabi,
00:41.8
kaya mabilis ka nakapasok
00:43.1
kasi parehong parents mo artista.
00:45.5
Well, hindi ko naman din
00:47.7
dini-deny that.
00:51.4
Grabe naman po yung tanong ko.
00:53.7
Grabe naman po yun.
00:57.9
Nako, ang dami nag-aabang dito.
01:00.0
Siyempre, lalo na yung mga nakatutok
01:02.1
sa linlang at sila'y awang-awa
01:04.2
dito sa babaeng ito
01:05.7
na naturingan pa ang mga lawyer
01:07.6
pero inuuna ang puso
01:09.6
kesa sa utak.
01:11.4
Ang aking tinutukoy, ang anak
01:13.6
ni Janice de Belen at ni John Estrada.
01:16.2
Kyla Estrada.
01:17.4
Hello! Hello po. Hi, Tio Oji.
01:19.7
Thank you. Thank you for having me po.
01:22.7
Kinakabahan ka ba?
01:23.8
Medyo.
01:25.7
Pakit? Kasi napapanood ko po
01:27.8
yung mga vlogs niyo at alam ko po ang mahilig
01:30.0
po kayo magpaiyak.
01:32.5
Kaya medyo kinakabahan ako.
01:34.6
Pero siguro naman po
01:35.8
hindi tayo iiyak today.
01:37.2
Ay, hindi naman.
01:39.1
Pero anong reaction mo doon sa
01:41.5
ang daming curious sa'yo?
01:43.4
Noong pinapanood nila yung linlang,
01:45.4
siyempre tuloy-tuloy nakatutok ang mga tao doon.
01:48.0
Awang-awa sila kay Sylvia.
01:49.6
Ang bilis ni Kyle lang gumano. Nakilala ka agad.
01:52.1
Honestly po, noong unang night
01:53.9
na lumabas po yung
01:55.5
episode 9 and 10, parang yung
01:57.6
Twitter ko biglang ang daming
01:59.1
sunod-sunod. Sumabog ang Twitter mo.
02:01.6
Opo. Tapos nagulat ako.
02:03.3
So pinanood ko siya. Tapos sabi ko, ah, ito na pala
02:05.7
yung episode na yun nga.
02:08.1
And then, noong una ko siya nakita,
02:10.1
honestly, maiiyak ako.
02:11.4
Kasi sabi ko, oh my God,
02:13.6
sobrang grateful lang din po ako na
02:15.5
binigyan ako ng opportunity na
02:17.5
to be a part of yung show na gano'n.
02:20.4
Na gano'n yung role ko.
02:22.4
Yung character ko na bigyan
02:23.9
ng chance na mag-shine.
02:25.6
So, sobra po akong grateful talaga.
02:28.0
And medyo na-overwhelm ako.
02:29.8
Kaya ako naging emotional. Pero,
02:31.7
sobrang grateful po ako talaga.
02:33.4
Since ang iyong mga magulang ay
02:35.8
mga artista din, syempre,
02:37.5
pride nila yan, si Kyla. So, ano naman
02:39.7
naging reaction ng mga parents mo sa'yo?
02:42.2
Actually, kasi si Mama,
02:43.9
alam ko, nanonood siya talaga.
02:45.7
Kasi gusto niya yung kwento. So,
02:47.7
alam kong tutok siya. Pero, usually,
02:49.7
kasi pag sinasabi yung napanood niya,
02:51.7
wala siyang comments masyado.
02:54.0
Doon siya sa kwento, nagkocomment.
02:55.7
Nag-focus.
02:58.0
Pero, para rin hindi ako ma-pressure.
03:00.7
Kasi pag humihingi ako ng advice
03:02.6
sa kanya, she'll give me advice.
03:04.6
Pero, if hindi ko siya hinihingan
03:06.7
ng advice, wala siyang sasabihin.
03:08.9
Kasi nga gusto niya parang,
03:10.3
I chose to do this on my own. So, gusto niya
03:12.5
figure out ko mag-isa.
03:14.6
So, natouch ako na nakita ko
03:16.5
yung story niya. Hindi nga lang ako
03:18.5
maganda sa picture na yun. Pero,
03:20.4
nag-story siya na sabi niya,
03:22.6
ah, galing mo naman. So, doon
03:24.4
kiniligaw ko. Kasi, coming from
03:26.4
mama na hindi ko siya
03:28.2
sobrang dalas naririnig sa kanya.
03:31.0
So, parang sarap sa pakiramdam.
03:33.2
And then, si dad naman,
03:34.6
nagulat siya kasi hindi niya alam kung bakit ako
03:36.4
nag-trending. Natapat pa siya.
03:39.1
Kinabahan pa siya.
03:40.3
Bakit ka trending ganyan? Sabi niya,
03:42.3
para saan ba to? So, sabi ko,
03:45.0
siguro sa linlang yan.
03:46.7
Hindi pa niya napapanood. So,
03:48.5
super happy naman siya.
03:50.0
Ah, so, hindi pa napapanood niya yung linlang?
03:52.7
Anong reaction ng dad mo?
03:54.6
Sabi niya, ah, talaga.
03:56.4
Sabi niya, ah, okay, sige. Mamaya
03:58.3
papanoodan ka. Hindi ko lang alam kung
04:00.2
napanood na po niya. Pero, yun lang yung
04:02.5
sinabi niya sa akin. Pero, bago mo
04:04.5
ginawa yung linlang, ano ba? Kumingi ka ba
04:06.4
ng tips sa parents mo? Before po
04:08.5
ako nag-start mag-taping for linlang,
04:10.9
kinuwento ko muna sa kanila na, yun nga,
04:12.7
medyo mas mature yung character ko dito.
04:15.0
Pero, maganda yung story,
04:16.5
maganda yung role. And then,
04:18.7
hindi na ako masyado humingi ng advice
04:20.6
kasi, I guess, gusto ko rin siyang
04:23.0
i-figure out mag-isa muna.
04:25.0
And then, pag talagang,
04:26.1
nahirapan ako. Minsan, pag nasa set ako,
04:28.6
tatawagan ko si mama, ganyan.
04:30.7
Kung meron akong questions.
04:32.6
Pero, pag ganun, they just let me
04:34.2
do it. Happy rin ako kasi pinagkakatiwalaan
04:36.7
nila ako to make my own
04:38.4
decisions pagdating sa ganyan.
04:40.9
Kaya, mas natcherish ko rin
04:42.7
yung hard work ko kasi
04:44.6
parang feeling ko na nagawa
04:46.5
ko siya mag-isa. Bihira sa
04:48.3
mga artisan ng parents na ang mga
04:50.3
anak ay mag-artista.
04:52.2
Bihira yun. So, ikaw ba?
04:54.5
Bata ka pang maliit?
04:56.1
Wala po na mag-artista? Actually, hindi po.
04:58.5
Iba-iba po kasi yung gusto ko eh.
05:00.2
Hindi siya yung parang, ever since
05:02.2
I was a kid, ito na yung gusto ko maging
05:04.1
paglaki ko. So,
05:05.9
nag-college ako, nag-work ako part-time
05:08.1
as a model. Kasi, noong time na yun,
05:10.2
yun talaga yung gusto ko. So, sabi ni
05:12.3
mama at saka ni dad din na,
05:14.1
okay, if gusto mo mag-model, basta
05:16.0
hindi mag-suffer yung studies mo.
05:18.2
Yun, pinayagan nila ako. Gusto sana nila
05:20.3
after college na. Yung usapan
05:22.1
namin was, you can do whatever you want
05:24.5
or you can be whatever you want. Basta,
05:26.1
magtapos kayo. Yun lang yung deal nila
05:28.0
sa amin, magkakapatid. And then, eventually,
05:30.7
parang nag-bloom yung social media
05:32.5
and then, nag-content creator din ako.
05:35.0
Tapos, sinabay ko siya sa
05:36.2
modeling ko. And then,
05:38.6
one day, parang nirealize ko, parang
05:40.4
hindi ko alam kung ano pa yung
05:42.4
gusto ko. Yung talagang
05:44.2
nagka-time na sobrang confused ako.
05:46.7
Parang, hindi ko na
05:48.3
alam kung ano yung pangarap ko.
05:51.2
And then, sabi ko
05:52.6
sa sarili ko, I'll give it a shot.
05:54.8
I just want to
05:56.1
explore and see if it's for me.
05:58.8
And if not, then
06:00.2
I'll go back to school and find
06:02.4
something na talagang gusto kong
06:04.4
gawin. Pero sinabi ko sa kanila na
06:06.6
gagawin ko siya by myself.
06:08.4
So, nag-casting po ako sa Star Magic
06:10.8
noong 2020.
06:12.5
Solo ka? Walang push ng parents?
06:14.9
Wala po. Actually,
06:16.4
hindi ko agad sinabi sa kanila.
06:18.4
Kasi kinabahan ako. Natakot ako sa
06:20.3
kung anong magiging reaction nila
06:22.2
if sinabi ko na gusto ko i-try.
06:24.8
Kasi nga, never nila,
06:26.1
narinig sa akin na gusto kong mag-aritista.
06:28.7
Parang sabi ko, okay, gagawin ko muna
06:30.4
and then siya ako nasasabihin.
06:32.2
So, nagpatulong ako sa Mercator,
06:34.2
yung modeling agency ko, if pwede nila
06:36.4
ako isama sa mga talents nilang
06:38.6
mag-audition sa Star Magic
06:40.1
or magka-casting sa kanila, if pwede na nila
06:42.2
ako isama. Tapos, din nila ako
06:44.4
kung sure ba kung ayoko nilang
06:46.1
badumaan sa ano. Tapos sabi ko rin, if it's
06:48.2
meant for me, then magagawa ko siya
06:50.3
on my own. So, yun.
06:52.1
Nagkaroon ako ng schedule to
06:54.1
do a casting with Star Magic.
06:56.1
And then, siguro days before lang,
06:58.3
two days before ko lang sinabi
07:00.2
sa mom ko, tsaka sa dad ko
07:02.5
na itatry ko. Kasi may
07:04.1
schedule eh. So, ayun.
07:06.3
And then, tinuloy ko. Tapos,
07:08.5
yun na po. Nag-workshops
07:10.3
na ako. Then, nag-audition
07:12.1
na ako. Kung baga, tinanggap
07:14.2
ka na ng Star Magic. Yes po.
07:16.0
Bilang talent nila. Kaya tuloy-tuloy na yung
07:18.1
workshops mo. Opo.
07:20.0
So, nung inilok sa'yo yung linlang,
07:22.1
ano initial reaction mo? Sobrang
07:24.0
kinilig ako kung na kinunset yung
07:26.1
love. Because it's such a big project.
07:28.2
I mean, Kim Chu, Paolo
07:29.8
Villino, Jim D. Guzman,
07:31.9
V. Maricel Soriano. Sabi ko,
07:34.5
Oh my God! Kaya ko ba to?
07:35.8
Kasi kinabahan ako. Sabi ko,
07:38.7
Gosh! Kaya ko ba to?
07:40.9
Sabi ko, Lord!
07:42.0
Kasi yun talagang kinakabahan ako.
07:44.0
Alam nyo po yung kabang-kabah ako. Pero
07:45.9
alam kong gusto ko siyang gawin. Talaga.
07:48.0
So, yung acting mo doon,
07:50.2
parang nakuha mo yung mata-mata
07:51.7
acting ni Janice DeBelen.
07:54.4
Oh my God!
07:56.1
Nagigil ka kay Kim Chu.
07:59.3
Nalilisig.
08:00.0
Oo. Oo nga. Yung pinangag ko nga.
08:02.4
Pasta, lakon ang buto ko dito.
08:04.6
Oo.
08:05.7
Thank you po. Compliment yun. Kasi
08:07.8
si Mama naman talaga. Isa sa
08:09.9
pinakamahusay. Siguro po,
08:12.3
sobrang yung hunger
08:14.1
ko to really want to do
08:15.9
the best. Yung gusto ko lang talaga
08:17.8
ibigay lahat. Yung makakaya ko
08:19.9
doon. Yun po yung motivation
08:22.0
ko for Linlang. And
08:23.8
also kasi nga-inlove ako sa
08:26.1
story. Ang ganda ng kwento.
08:28.5
Sobrang galing nung writers
08:29.8
namin kasi ang ganda nung dialogue.
08:32.1
Grabe. Ano yung dialogue mo doon?
08:34.0
Yung sa panty. Ah, si Direk FM
08:36.0
Riz po yung nag-add nung line na yun.
08:38.0
Kung merong dapat isusi,
08:40.1
ipadlock at itali ng barbed wire,
08:42.1
yan ay yung panty mo.
08:45.1
Yan yung dialogue.
08:46.7
Dinagdag lang yan ni Direk FM
08:48.4
nung habang nag-rehearse kami.
08:50.4
Eh, sobrang kabang-kaba ako doon sa
08:51.9
eksena na yun. Sabi ko, oh my gosh,
08:53.8
may dagdag pa. Wait lang po.
08:56.1
Ganon po yung feeling. Pero
08:58.0
sobrang happy ako kasi naging maganda
09:00.2
po yung eksena. And nagustuhan
09:02.2
din po ng mga nanonood ng Linlang.
09:04.6
So pag nakikita ka ng mga tao
09:06.0
sa malls, kung saan man,
09:08.0
paano kanila binabati? Nare-recognize
09:10.2
ka ba nila agad? O ito yung salin lang?
09:12.4
Yung iba po, hindi naman po lahat
09:14.2
pero yung iba po, pag ganon po
09:16.1
kinikilig ako talaga. Kasi
09:18.1
ngayon ko lang yung experience eh.
09:20.6
Yung instead of fit me,
09:22.2
yung anak ni Janice
09:24.3
kanyan. Anak ni John, di ba?
09:26.1
Parang nakikilala na nila ako
09:28.1
for my own characters.
09:30.1
Kaya yun, natutuwa ako.
09:32.1
Don't get me ungrateful pa rin naman ako
09:34.0
sa paging anak ni Janice.
09:36.0
Huwag lang ako tawag yung tiyanak.
09:39.1
Pero
09:39.6
okay naman po sa akin yun.
09:41.7
Wala pong problema.
09:43.9
Huwag na tiyanak. O instead kasi
09:45.9
Janice, tiyanak.
09:47.5
Ano?
09:49.7
Teka muna.
09:52.2
Hindi ka napipikon? Hindi po.
09:53.9
Kasi ako po kasi alam ko kung bakit.
09:56.1
Pero yung mga kaibigan ko
09:58.1
ganyan. Siyempre, nung lumabas po yung
10:00.0
movie na yun, sobrang bata pa po namin
10:02.2
or baka yun. Baka nga hindi pa po ako
10:03.9
pinapanganak. So parang
10:05.7
bakit? Bakit ka tiyanak?
10:08.5
Di ba? Bakit ganon?
10:10.6
Kaya ako po mag-explain.
10:12.4
Di ba? Ganon.
10:14.9
Sa Linlang, eh
10:16.1
sobra kang pinupuri ng mga tao.
10:18.2
Siyempre meron din doon. Natutuwa
10:20.0
rin naman ako sa'yo kasi dinidefend mo
10:22.2
si Angie Salvacion sa
10:24.0
mga bashers. Nakausap mo na ba
10:26.0
si Angie about it? At paano
10:28.0
mo pinalakas loob niya?
10:29.5
Actually, hindi ko pa po siya talaga
10:32.0
nakikita or nakakausap
10:34.2
in person. But
10:35.9
natutuwa rin ako sa kanya because when
10:37.9
she saw yung mga articles na lumabas,
10:40.8
nag-thank you naman siya sa'kin.
10:42.4
That was sweet of her. Hindi naman niya kailangan
10:44.1
gawin yun. But she went
10:46.1
out of her way to say thank you. So I appreciate
10:48.2
it kasi mabait po talaga yun.
10:50.1
Mabait po talaga si Angie.
10:51.6
Kung papayuhan mo si Angie, paano
10:53.9
niya dapat na ititake yung
10:56.0
criticisms? Ako
10:58.2
when it comes to criticism,
11:00.7
kailangan ma-recognize mo if
11:02.2
it's constructive or if it's
11:04.4
just noisy. Diba?
11:06.2
Even with me, marami naman akong kailangan
11:08.1
pang matutunan and marami rin
11:10.0
akong mistakes na ginawa
11:12.1
ako in some scenes na I wish
11:14.1
I could have done better na napapansin din
11:15.9
ng ibang tao. Diba? So
11:17.5
criticism can be helpful. So
11:19.9
just know when to, what to
11:22.2
siguro listen to and learn
11:24.0
from and what to shut out. Para rin
11:26.0
hindi ka ma-overwhelm so you don't
11:28.1
lose that fire and you don't
11:30.2
give up on your passions.
11:32.2
Learning doesn't stop anyway.
11:34.2
Diba? We always want to improve. We always
11:36.1
want to grow. And that's the only way
11:38.2
you can learn naman.
11:39.9
Always work hard, keep
11:41.9
striving, and keep improving
11:44.0
as well. Keep improving in your craft.
11:46.2
So ano lang ang bilhin sa'yo ng parents mo
11:48.4
ngayong nakapasok ka na rito?
11:50.3
Ang lagi lang po nila sinasabi
11:52.1
sa akin is, you know, be professional.
11:54.7
Always be on
11:55.9
time. Makisama ka sa mga
11:58.0
katrabaho mo. Puro general lang
11:60.0
naman din yung mga sinasabi nila
12:01.8
sa akin. Like always, you know, stay
12:03.8
grounded. Always prepare.
12:06.0
Read your script. Make sure pagdating
12:08.1
mo sa set, alam mo yung mga linya mo.
12:09.9
Meron na bang instance na nagtalo kayo
12:12.2
ni Janice or ni Jan, pero
12:14.1
pinush mo yung iyo? So far
12:16.0
wala pa naman pong gano'n.
12:17.7
Grateful ako kasi talagang
12:20.3
pinagkakatiwalaan nila ako.
12:22.1
So gusto kong mangyari ngayon.
12:24.1
They also trust Star Magic.
12:25.9
And Mercatoris at pag-manage sa akin.
12:28.3
So, so far wala pa naman pong
12:29.8
nangyayari. So wala bang
12:31.8
nakakasagabal na love life dito
12:33.9
sa iyong career? Wala po. Dahil wala
12:35.9
kang love life? Wala po.
12:37.7
Talagang wala po siya sa priorities
12:39.8
ko ngayon. Talagang focused ako
12:42.0
sa career ko.
12:43.9
Kasi kilala ko rin po sa lili ko eh. Mabilis
12:45.9
ako ma-distract.
12:47.7
And ayoko rin sayangin
12:50.1
yung moment na to
12:51.4
na tuloy-tuloy yung career ko.
12:54.1
So ito talaga yung priority
12:55.8
ko ngayon. If it comes, then
12:57.4
okay. Pero if hindi, then
12:59.2
okay lang. Curious lang ako kakain, no?
13:01.5
Kasi alam naman natin lahat, no?
13:03.3
Si daddy mo may sarili ng pamilya.
13:05.7
Mami mo nakabukod na din,
13:07.6
ano? Paano ang dynamics ninyong
13:09.5
magkakapatid pagdating sa
13:11.3
oras nyo, panahon ninyo sa parents?
13:13.9
Well, with mama kasi it's easy
13:15.6
because we live with her. I mean, ako
13:17.3
si Moy and si Yu and we still live
13:19.5
with her. So we still see her
13:21.5
a lot on days na wala rin akong
13:23.6
trabaho. Pag uwi ni Moy sa
13:25.5
office, we still see her. So we still see her a lot on days na wala rin akong
13:25.8
office. Magkasama kami sa kwarto eh.
13:27.8
Si mama naman, pag wala rin siyang
13:29.7
work, kita kami, nagsijikahan kami.
13:31.8
Sometimes in the morning before going to
13:33.7
work. Sometimes sa gabi or
13:35.6
sometimes pag talagang wala kami gagawin
13:37.6
for a day, kumakain-tuan kami. Sometimes
13:39.7
we'll eat out or manonood kami ng movie.
13:42.1
And then si dad naman, syempre
13:43.8
mahirap din kasi busy rin siya
13:45.9
with work. Kami rin, so
13:47.5
bihira kaming makompleto talaga.
13:49.8
So we see each other siguro maybe
13:51.5
once a month, ganyan, to catch up.
13:54.1
Ah, so ganun lang?
13:55.2
Oo. Siyempre, tatay pa din yan.
13:57.6
Di ba siya yung tipong, uy,
13:59.1
dilawin niyo naman ako. Hindi siguro
14:01.2
ganun, pero may mga times na
14:03.6
tumatawag siya na parang
14:05.3
oh, magkita naman tayo, ganyan.
14:07.3
Tagal na natin, hindi nakikita.
14:09.5
Tapos sana pag nagkita tayo,
14:11.4
kompleto. Parang pinapablock
14:13.6
off na niya yung araw na yun.
14:15.5
Pero at least pag nagkita kami,
14:17.4
complete kami. At nangyayari ba yun?
14:19.4
Bihira lang po siyang nangyayari.
14:21.6
Pero kasi, siyempre may
14:23.0
sarili-sarili na rin po kami
14:24.5
inaga.
14:25.2
Like, lahat kami working na rin.
14:27.1
So, may mga times na talagang hindi nagtutugma
14:29.2
yung schedules namin. So,
14:30.9
kung sino lang po yung pwede, and then
14:32.9
bawi na lang the next.
14:34.5
Nung panahon ba na kayo yung mga bata pa,
14:37.1
hindi sa inyo trauma
14:39.2
yung nangyaring separation
14:40.9
ng parents?
14:42.4
Yeah, I feel like, I can only speak for myself.
14:44.9
Kasi siyempre, iba naman ako sa mga kapatid ko.
14:47.5
Iba rin yung sila. So, I can't
14:49.2
say kung ano yung nafe-feel nila.
14:51.3
Pero ako siguro, mas
14:52.9
nung bata ko.
14:54.2
So, ngayon kasi okay na ako eh.
14:56.1
I mean, masaya si mama, masaya
14:58.1
si dad, diba? So, our relationships
15:00.1
are good naman. All is well.
15:02.0
Everything's happening. Siguro before,
15:04.3
kasi nung nag-separate sila,
15:06.6
I was, if I'm not mistaken,
15:08.3
I think five years old na po.
15:10.3
And then siguro, yung mga panahon na
15:12.3
ano lang, sa school,
15:14.1
yung mga family date,
15:15.9
magpa-perform kami sa school.
15:18.1
Yan yan, parang sanay kaming
15:19.7
si mama lang yung pupunta.
15:21.3
Yung mga ganon. Kasi, I mean,
15:23.1
it's part of the reality of yung
15:25.4
situation namin. So, syempre,
15:27.4
when I was younger, parang I wanted
15:29.2
us to have that experience
15:31.6
na mabuo kami. But then,
15:33.3
you know, growing up, mas nagkaroon ako ng
15:35.3
understanding sa mga bagay-bagay.
15:37.8
And naprocess ko na.
15:39.7
Madali ko na rin siyang natanggap.
15:41.5
And ako, feeling ko rin,
15:43.5
everything worked out for the best
15:45.2
naman. At syaka, okay namin
15:46.9
kaming lahat. So, yun lang ang
15:48.7
pinapasalamat ko rin kasi okay kaming lahat.
15:51.1
At syaka, nakatulong yun, ano, para
15:53.1
mas mabukas pa yung isip ninyo
15:54.9
sa katotohanan ng buhay na, eto talaga,
15:57.3
nangyayari to. Hindi lang naman sa amin to
15:59.2
nangyari. Sobrang nabuksan
16:01.3
yung isip ko na, if I choose
16:03.4
to have a family, kasi life
16:05.5
happens, di ba? Hindi mo naman din
16:07.5
magpapredict ko ano yung
16:09.0
mangyayari. Even if you want na
16:11.4
maging buo kayo, if hindi
16:13.2
yun ang plano sa'yo, God,
16:15.6
di ba? So, parang, siguro
16:17.3
because of that, dahil sa nangyayari
16:19.3
sa amin, hinanda ko na yung sarili ko
16:21.4
na may possibility na,
16:23.1
hindi maging gano'n. And ready naman
16:25.1
ako for that. Parang na-prepare ko na yung
16:26.9
sarili ko. I'll accept whatever
16:28.7
happens. At least, I know
16:31.2
how to handle myself
16:32.9
and eventually,
16:34.9
then, I'll know how to handle
16:37.2
if ever I have kids, my kids
16:39.2
because of how well my mom
16:41.0
handled everything.
16:42.8
Ako nakukutan sa setup nyo. Like,
16:45.1
kay Janice, meron kayong kuya,
16:47.0
si Luigi. Dito naman kayo, Jan,
16:49.0
meron kayong kapatid din. Paano ang dynamics
16:51.0
yung magkakapatid? Kay ko yung Luigi,
16:52.8
lagi namin sila binibisita
16:55.1
sa bahay nila. Or sometimes,
16:57.0
pinupuntahan namin yung restaurant
16:58.8
niya. Tapos, nagbabond din kami doon.
17:01.2
Pero pinupuntahan namin namin sila
17:02.7
sa bahay kasi with the kids din.
17:04.6
Para ma-visit din namin yung mga pamangkin namin.
17:07.1
Then, yun, nagbabond kami,
17:08.6
magkukwentuhan. Tapos,
17:10.7
iinom ng konti. And then, with
17:12.7
Anetshka naman, we see her
17:15.2
pag nagde-dinner kami
17:16.8
with dad. Nagkukwento rin siya about
17:18.6
school, yun yan. So, I feel
17:20.8
like those little moments kasi,
17:22.6
they are very valuable. Kasi,
17:24.9
yung time is something
17:26.5
that you can never get back.
17:28.6
So, pag family time, as much as
17:30.6
possible, kahit busy kami, we'll make
17:32.6
time to see each other. Pero ikaw ba,
17:35.0
kahit lang, ngayong artista
17:36.6
ka na, at unti-unti, eh,
17:38.4
nawawala na yung shadow ng mga
17:40.5
parents mo sa'yo dahil nakakabuo ka na
17:42.6
ng pangalan. Ikaw ba, someday, gusto mo
17:44.7
rin silang makatrabaho? O
17:46.5
jahe sa'yo? May ganong factor.
17:48.9
Parang nahihiya ako. Parang
17:50.6
sa ngayon, hindi ko siya ma-imagine.
17:52.6
Kasi, nahihiya ako magkamali
17:54.7
sa harap nila. I think that's part of it.
17:57.1
Siyempre, it's a different environment,
17:59.1
di ba? Magiging work environment
18:00.9
yun. So, hindi ako
18:02.7
sanay na kasama sila
18:04.7
sa ganong environment. Pero someday,
18:07.1
sana makawork ko sila.
18:08.7
At huwag muna ngayon.
18:10.8
Parang gusto ko, gusto ko
18:12.8
muna mag-gain ng
18:14.0
experience, ba? Confidence.
18:17.0
Bago mangyari yung moment
18:18.7
na yun na magkawork kami. But, someday,
18:21.0
hiling ko magiging masaya.
18:22.6
How do you deal with yung
18:24.7
iba sinasabi? Kaya mabilis
18:26.7
ka nakapasok? Kasi parehong parents mo
18:28.9
artista. Well, hindi ko
18:30.8
naman din dinideny
18:32.7
that there is privilege there.
18:35.2
Di ba? All I can say is that
18:36.9
I chose to do this on my own.
18:39.0
For whatever reason, I
18:40.8
got accepted. Whether it
18:42.8
was because of them or because of
18:44.7
me, by myself, it's not really something
18:46.7
I have control over. But,
18:48.9
I hope that people give me
18:50.8
the space to
18:52.6
show them din na I have
18:54.6
something to bring to the table
18:56.3
and that nagsusumikap
18:58.8
din naman po ako. I also work hard.
19:01.2
I recognize the privilege
19:02.9
but I didn't really
19:04.7
want to make use of it. And, I wanted
19:06.8
to achieve things on my own.
19:08.5
May pose yung mama mo dati na
19:10.3
tandaan ko na parang ang payo
19:12.6
niya sa mga parents, i-enjoy niya yung mga bata,
19:15.1
mga anak ninyo habang maliit pa.
19:17.1
Kasi, paglaking yan,
19:18.7
isa-isa na silang magpupulasan
19:20.6
para magkakaroon ng sariling buhay.
19:22.6
So, mayroon na bang ganong moment
19:24.7
sa inyo na magsasarili na ako?
19:27.3
So, ang tanong,
19:28.6
iiwan niyo ba yung mama niyo?
19:31.4
Grabe naman po yung tanong ko.
19:33.8
Grabe naman po yun.
19:35.2
Hindi naman po ganon. Pero,
19:36.6
syempre, I feel like we all
19:38.6
have dreams of going
19:40.4
on our own. Personally,
19:42.6
kinuusap ko niya si mama before,
19:44.5
even before the pandemic na,
19:46.4
ma, nag-iipon ako to move out
19:48.6
because I want to experience living by myself.
19:50.6
And, naiintindihan naman niya yung
19:52.6
yun. I mean, she's really supportive.
19:55.0
Syempre, inaamin naman niya magiging
19:56.7
malungkot siya. Pero, sabi niya,
19:58.7
kailangan rin namin yung matutunan
20:00.7
to live on our own.
20:02.9
Na, hindi naman din pwedeng
20:04.6
forever na nakadepend kami
20:06.9
sa kanya. And then, now the time,
20:09.0
yung work is continuous na.
20:11.2
Mas nakakapag-ipon na ako.
20:12.8
And then, sinabi ko rin sa kanya na
20:14.7
eventually, makahanap na rin ako
20:16.9
ng kondo, ganyan.
20:18.1
And, syempre,
20:20.3
she's sad. And she admits it naman.
20:22.6
Na, malungkot siya. Pero,
20:25.0
alam din naman niya na it was
20:26.5
going to happen eventually.
20:28.5
And, it's not like we're not gonna
20:30.6
see her naman. We're still
20:32.6
all gonna visit her. She's supportive.
20:35.4
And, alam naman niya na
20:36.8
yun talaga yung gusto namin. That we wanna
20:38.7
learn how to defend for ourselves.
20:40.8
And, para maging independent. Fully
20:42.6
independent din kami. May experience namin
20:44.4
even before getting married.
20:46.4
May experience namin to live alone. Kasi, laging
20:48.3
niya yung sinasabi sa amin na, yun yung
20:50.3
hindi niya experience. Yung to live alone.
20:52.6
Live by herself before getting married.
20:55.1
Kahit siya, parang in-encourage
20:56.7
na commit to, na before you get married,
20:58.9
try living on your own first.
21:00.5
Meron siyang ganun. So, kami naman,
21:02.7
we really took it to heart. And, we're
21:04.5
planning on doing that na rin. Ngayong
21:06.5
naka-immerse ka na sa industry, ano na-realize mo?
21:09.2
Na-realize ko that
21:10.4
it's not as easy as everyone thinks
21:12.4
it is. Syempre, may mga panahon
21:14.6
kasi na pag-busy si mama,
21:16.9
di nakakapunta sa ganito,
21:18.5
nakakapunta sa ganyan, kasi
21:20.0
late siya natapos, or pagod siya.
21:22.6
Syempre, nung medyo mas bata pa ako,
21:24.6
parang, ay, sayang na nandito punta si mama.
21:27.1
Ganyan, may konting tampo.
21:29.0
Diba? And then, now na nandito
21:30.6
ako, na-realize ko talaga that
21:32.5
it can be tough.
21:34.4
And, sobrang saludo ako kay mama.
21:36.6
Kasi, pinagsabay niya yung
21:38.3
pagka-busy niya na yun, yung work na yun.
21:41.1
At the same time, she took
21:42.6
care of us. And, ang dami namin.
21:44.7
Saludo ako sa kanya.
21:46.2
Kasi, I'm pretty sure it wasn't easy.
21:48.6
Anong maipapayo mo sa mga
21:50.5
gustong mag-artista? Lalo na ngayon,
21:52.6
sa social media na
21:54.5
lahat judgmental, lahat
21:56.5
merong gusto kong sabihin.
21:58.4
As much as I don't tolerate bashing,
22:00.7
parang, kasama po kasi siya sa
22:02.5
industry natin. Diba, when
22:04.6
you put yourself out there,
22:06.9
people will have access to you
22:08.9
and they'll say all of these
22:10.6
things. Pero siguro, like what I said with
22:12.6
Angie is, no one to
22:14.5
recognize if it's constructive
22:16.3
criticism versus if it's just noise.
22:18.8
Kasi, baka yun pa yung
22:20.3
maging dahilan kung bakit mag-give up
22:22.2
kay
22:22.6
sa dream mo and
22:24.8
maging masipag ka and
22:26.9
you don't give up on yourself
22:28.4
and tibayan mo yung loob mo,
22:31.0
you'll be able to achieve it.
22:32.6
Whatever it is, kahit hindi sa pag-artista.
22:35.2
Paano mo ipapaintindi
22:37.1
sa mga gen C?
22:38.8
Mga katulad mo. Dahil
22:40.4
madalas nangyayari yung relasyon
22:42.5
ng gen C sa old school na nanay at tatay
22:44.8
nila. Nagsasalpukan sila ng
22:46.6
mga konsepto, mga idealism.
22:49.3
Paano mo ipaiintindi
22:50.8
sa mga parents?
22:52.1
Bilang ikaw ay gen C?
22:54.3
Siguro for parents
22:56.1
is to be open
22:57.9
to unlearning yung mga
23:00.1
bagay na kahit na
23:02.1
kinasanayan mo, pwedeng
23:03.9
hindi na siya acceptable ngayon or
23:06.2
hindi natin alam noon
23:07.8
na hindi pala siya nakakabuti.
23:10.2
Just the openness to unlearn
23:11.9
those things and to make
23:14.0
those changes. Kasi it'll
23:16.0
be better din for your relationship
23:17.9
diba? With your children, ganyan.
23:20.0
And I guess for yung mga
23:22.1
kaedad ko rin and yung mga
23:24.0
gen Z, na kasi nga yung mga
23:25.9
parents natin nga, iba yung kinasanayan
23:28.3
nilang mundo eh. So
23:29.9
you just have to be patient, understanding
23:32.0
and also communicate. Kailangan magkaroon
23:34.3
ng discussion para maayos
23:36.3
yung mga ganong disagreements.
23:38.6
Oo.
23:39.3
Huwag din natin kakalimutan yung humingi ng
23:41.7
permission sa parents natin, lalo na pag may
23:44.1
gagawin tayo ng mga malalaking
23:45.8
decisions sa buhay. Kasi
23:47.6
we have our best intentions in mind
23:50.0
din naman. And respect
23:52.1
natin yun sa kanila. So I hope
23:54.0
that we can still
23:55.9
have them involved in our lives. And that's
23:57.9
also something that I want to do
24:00.0
better din. Is mas i-involve
24:02.5
yung parents ko sa
24:04.1
ginagawa ko. Not to make
24:06.0
decisions for me, but yung
24:07.7
para lang alam nila. Kasi respect ko
24:10.0
na rin yun sa kanila. And also
24:12.1
because I seek for their
24:13.9
guidance as well.
24:22.1
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