RAMON ANG VS JOSH MOJICA 2 - DEBUNKING the HARMFUL Andrew Tate PHILOSOPHY with BASIC GMRC
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Yun ang kasiyan ng buhay.
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E yung yaman, numbers lang yun eh.
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E meron kang isandaan piso, o meron kang isandaan libong piso.
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Pare-pareho na yan eh.
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Explain mo bakit yung ibang tao sinasabi na money doesn't buy happiness.
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Wala silang pera.
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Kaya sinasabi nila na hindi nabibili ng pera ang kasiyan.
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Wala silang pera.
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They don't have any.
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Lahat na nagsasabi ng money doesn't buy happiness, they don't have any.
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Kasi, unang-una, hindi mo mapapasaya ang buhay mo.
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Hindi ka masasaya kapag yung pamilya mo mag-inhawa ang buhay.
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Pagpunta tayong lahat sa langit, ang real flex, anong nagawa ko sa lupa?
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Baka magkakasama tayo doon.
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Atol, kami kasi, bahay-bahay ng aming pamilya.
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Parang, hihilata lang kasi kami magkakasama.
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Tapon eh, magdamon, bang gano'n lang kami, ilaw-inom lang.
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Parang, yung mga kasama mo sa langit na magsasabi na kami yung pamilya ko,
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nadala ko sila sa taas sa Dubai, sa Emirates, ganyan.
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Nakapag-gyate kami or nakapag-private jet yung mga anak ko,
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kumakain sila ng donut doon.
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Ganon ko siya tingnan.
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So, yung happiness, mabibili mo siya.
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Mabibili mo siya.
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So, maraming nagde-debunk sa akin, or at least nagkikritisize sa akin,
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na bawal ko daw i-compare.
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Kasi nga, magkaiba sila ng stages in life.
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Yung isa, bilyonaryo.
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Yung isa, milyonaryo pa lang.
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Yung isa, may empire na.
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Yung isa, yung iso naman ay bumubuo pa lang ng empire niya.
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Well, let me just show you this video, mga kamatis, mga kaibigan.
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Okay, etong video na to ay si Josh Mojica,
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na tagta-try mag-explain ng kanyang philosophy in life,
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or at least man lang yung alpha male bullshit.
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Na yan, na parati kong nakikita.
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This is such an un-rotate thing na ginagawa ng mga influencers ngayon.
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Basically, meron siyang lifestyle or meron siyang mindset na pinupush.
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Hindi naman to exclusive lang, kaya kangkong cheap.
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Si Boss Jonah nga rin, muha 1%, di ba?
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So, many people are trying to sell the un-rotate lifestyle,
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yung alpha male lifestyle bullshit na yan.
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So, isa yan, pero si Tatang Ramon, meron din.
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Siyang pinupush na philosophy.
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It's more traditional.
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It's more, siguro has been a ubiquitous part ng ating society.
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Yung GMRC lang yan, basically.
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Maging mabuting tao ka sa kapwa mo.
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Hindi mo dadalin yung pera sa pagnamatay ka.
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I mean, even I, a non-believer, would agree with that.
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Kasi you would not take that wherever you go when you die.
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So, there is a point of comparison.
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Not with their material wealth.
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Not with their CEO style.
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No, this is not what we're talking about.
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Hindi yan yung kinocompare natin.
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Ang kinocompare natin is how they see life.
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It's how they attain their wisdom.
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So, ngayon, merong isang magandang comment dito.
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Nagsabi na, in relation to psychological development.
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So, let's talk about that.
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So, merong nagbibigay.
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So, bring up nito.
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Actually, nakikita ko ito sa comment section.
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Yung hierarchy of needs ni Maslow,
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si Tatang Ramon, at saka si Kuya Josh.
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Most likely, sila po ay okay na dito sa bottom part.
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Yung psychological needs nila,
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physiological needs, at saka safety and security needs,
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Kasi they have money beyond a normal person needs.
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So, ang pinag-uusapan natin,
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yung higher order of magnitude,
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nitong Maslow's hierarchy.
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Saan kaya silang dalawa?
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Who do you think is more self-actualized than between the two?
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Kasi yun yung philosophy na kanilang ini-empart sa inyo.
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Hindi na kasi yung produkto nila.
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This has nothing to do yung sa pagiging CEO nila
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or yung current achievements nila.
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Both of them are sharing new philosophies.
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Ang problema lang, yung isa kasi hilaw.
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Yung isa, matured na.
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Parang yung mga binibenta niyang produkto sa San Miguel.
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Although yung Kangkong Chips din naman, ready to eat na.
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Siguro, I think itong si Josh has not yet self-actualized.
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Kasi hinahanap pa niya yung identity niya eh.
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Kinukopia niya si Andrew Tate
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para magkaroon siya ng persona niya.
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Hindi siya yun eh.
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Kasi nung nagsimula naman yan,
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humble beginnings.
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Napaka wide-eyed kid niyan.
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Kasi ngayon, all of a sudden,
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nagkaroon ng angas na corny.
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Pero si Tatang, basic naman yung tinuturo niya.
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Naririnig mo yan sa school eh.
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Kung pumapasok ka.
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Wala akong masyadong beliefs sa sistema ng pag-aaral dito sa Pilipinas.
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So mga kamatis, mga kaibigan,
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someone also brought up itong Eric Erickson's psychosocial stages.
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Now, this is a topic on itself.
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Pero bibigyan ko kayo ng brief overview.
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Sabi ni Eric Erickson na gano'n,
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yung stages daw ng buhay ng tao,
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meron tayong conflict na nire-resolve.
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Kunyari, kapag ka ikaw ay nasa school age,
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industry versus inferiority,
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tapos ang virtue na malalern mo
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kapag na-overcome mo yung inferiority
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is yung confidence.
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This is how a person develops
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according to this theory, mga kamatis, mga kaibigan.
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So given this theory, mga kamatis, mga kaibigan,
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meron tayong, magkakaroon tayo ng fundamental understanding
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kung nasaan si Josh.
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Andito siya sa early adulthood
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tapos si Manong Ramon naman ay nandito sa old age, okay?
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So ngayon, ang nile-learn kasi kapag habang ikaw ay tumatanda,
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Dito palang alam nyo na kung sino yung mas wise sa kanilang dalawa.
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Ngayon, si Josh kasi kulang pa talaga sa experience.
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So he cannot share his wisdom.
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Kasi nga, kulang pa yun, hilaw pa yun.
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Kaso nga lang talaga, ang nakaka-disappoint ngayon kasi
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instead of us understanding psychosocial stages,
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and trying to figure out kung nasaan yung taong nagsasalita.
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What happens here, mga kamatis,
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is that we use this to justify yung position ni Josh.
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Kasi all this theory is saying, mga kamatis, mga kaibigan,
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is that they are on different paths in life.
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One is supposed to be wiser than the other.
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Kasi knowledge and wisdom are two different things.
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Knowledge is something that you learn from your skills
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and from your inherent intelligence.
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Knowledge is something that you learn from your inherent intelligence.
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Wisdom is something that you learn from your inherent intelligence.
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Wisdom is something that you gain from experience.
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Obviously, yung isa hilaw pa, yung maman lang nagbenta lang ng kangkong.
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At saka nakita si Andrew Tate.
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Yung isa naman, nakita niya na lahat.
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He has seen everything.
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And you know, bumabalik yung si Tatang Ramon sa GMRC, yun at yun pa din.
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Diba that's a beautiful thing na napakasimple lang pala kung paano mabuha.
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You don't need a lot of money to be happy.
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You just need enough.
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Ngayon, meron akong papakita.
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Saka sa inyo na TED Talk.
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This is called the hedonic treadmill.
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Or the hedonic treadmill.
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It describes our tendency to adapt to new situations.
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Of course, the novelty of better food, superior vacations, and more beautiful homes
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can at first make you feel like you're walking on air.
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But as you get used to those things,
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you revert to your default emotional state.
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That might sound pretty gloomy,
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but hedonic adaptation makes us less emotionally sensitive
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to any kind of change.
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Parang yung mga kasama mo sa langit na magsasabi na kami yung pamilya ko,
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nadala ko sila sa taas sa Dubai, sa Emirates, ganyan.
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Nakapag-yate kami or nakapag-private jet yung mga anak ko
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kung kakain sila ng donut doon.
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Parang ganun ko siya tingnan.
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So yung happiness, mabibili mo siya.
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Mabibili mo siya.
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So panoorin nyo tong TED Talk na to.
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Four minutes lang to.
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Pero sobrang malaman ito eh.
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Kasi eto yung empirical impact.
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Ito yung empirical evidence na you cannot buy happiness.
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Ang galing nga eh.
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Kasi they already have a study on what makes people happy.
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Kaya nakikita nyo yung mga mayayaman, mga kamatis, mga kaibigan.
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They tend to buy,
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kunyan eh, nakabili na sila ng etong sasakyan neto.
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They're going to buy another car.
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Kasi parang luma na yung isa.
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Or ilagay nyo na lang sa inyo.
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Eto, kahit siguro hindi ka mayaman,
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makaka-relate ka rito eh.
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Naaalala nyo po ba yung lalaki
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na parating bumibili ng iPhone?
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Every year or every may labas na bagong iPhone,
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si kuya ang unang-unang bibili dito sa Pilipinas.
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Kasi we can account for that phenomenon na
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every time na may labas na iPhone,
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miski yung iPhone niya hindi naman sira,
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ay bibili siya ng bagong iPhone
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just because gusto niya lang bumili ng bagong iPhone.
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Parang makasabay for some reason na meron siya.
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We can account for that phenomenon
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To the hedonic treadmill.
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Kasi what's the reason why you're going to buy a new iPhone?
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Merong konting modification,
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may konting improvement.
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Hindi yun masyadong malaki sa generational change ng mga iPhone.
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An iPhone 7 would be totally different from an iPhone 14.
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Pero an iPhone 14 would be more or less the same with iPhone 15.
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So that's the idea here mga kamatis, mga kaibigan.
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When you are running on the hedonic treadmill,
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you will never be satisfied on what you have right now.
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So this study mga kamatis, mga kaibigan,
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is telling you that you cannot objectively buy happiness.
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Parang ganito, ilagay natin sa retorika ni Andrew Tate.
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What is the color of your Bugatti?
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Yun yung unang tanong.
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Now, ang susunod na tanong,
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how many Bugattis do you have?
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Pagkatapos nun, when is your Bugatti made?
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it's an ever-increasing,
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arms race of what makes a person happy
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if you have so much money.
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So mga kamatis, mga kaibigan,
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what does a person need to be happy?
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the answer is always in moderation.
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Hindi naman tayo lahat magiging CEO
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ng San Miguel or ng Kangkong Chips.
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At hindi rin tayo lahat mananalo ng lottery.
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So ibig sabihin nun,
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ang pinaka-practical na advice
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na maibibigay ko sa lahat ng tao
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yeah, tama si Manong Ramon.
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Live within your means
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or kung pwede mo nga,
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below your means.
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Para in case of rainy day,
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meron kang huguhugutin.
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That's all you need.
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kailangan may maganda kang kotse,
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kailangan may Ferrari ka na bumubomba.
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I hate that sa mga kabataan ngayon.
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It's a distorted view in life.
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let's end this discussion.
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This would be the last time
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Content ako rito ha.
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Kasi sobrang mainit talaga to.
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And I just wanna give you guys
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yung psychological perspectives nito.
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Yung TED Talk na yun kasi
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kung paano ka magiging masaya.
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And we would end there.
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So take it away, TED Talk.
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And there's another way
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to turn your money into happiness.
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Spend it on other people.
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Yung pera, measurement yun.
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hindi yun ang measurement
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ng success in life.
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Ang success in life measurement is
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oh, ang saya mo kasi.
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Ako, natulungan ko yung mga kaibigan niya
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nagkatrabaho na mabuti.
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Oh, yung mga batang iyan,
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napag-aaral natin.
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Yun ang kasiyan ng buhay.
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numbers lang yun eh.
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Eh meron kang isan daan piso.
