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00:00.0
May pagkakataon na nainggit ka ba sa iba?
00:03.9
Gusto mo bang malaman kung ano ang masasabi ni Michael V. sa mga tao na inggit?
00:16.3
Minsan yung inggit, yun yung nagiging daylan kung bakit hindi masaya ang tao.
00:20.7
Binibilang mo kasi, yung blessings ng iba,
00:24.0
imbis na yung blessings mo, ano yan eh, parang insulto sa sarili.
00:28.2
Kansinin mo, yung mga taong totoong masaya, yung mga taong walang inggit sa katawan.
00:33.1
Hindi kasi pwedeng magkasabay yung inggit at saka yung saya.
00:37.1
Kaya ikaw, mamili ka na lang.
00:39.2
Gusto mo bang mainggit o gusto mong maging masaya?
00:44.0
Siyempre naman gusto kong maging masaya, masaya.
00:47.0
Talaga ito lang mga friendship oh.
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Napaka talino talaga ni Betoy.
00:50.3
Ang inggit ka kasi isang emosyon na kadalasan naguugnay sa pangarap,
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pagpapahalaga, pagkukumpara ng sarili sa iba.
00:56.8
Nakakaramdam to tayo.
00:57.9
Pag mayroon tayong mga hindi nakakamit sa buhay na nakakamit ng iba.
01:05.3
Number one kasi, yun nga, the reason why we have inggit.
01:08.6
Kasi we compare ourselves with others.
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Alam mo, ito yung narealize ko ah.
01:12.0
If you always compare yourself with others,
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there are only two negative things that will happen.
01:16.6
It's either you will become proud dahil mas magaling ka,
01:19.5
or number two, malulungkot ka.
01:21.1
They're both negative.
01:22.7
And then, bakit rin din mga ibang tao na inggit?
01:25.6
Kultura rin natin eh.
01:26.6
Yung parang sa totoo lang.
01:27.7
Ever since we were young,
01:28.8
I don't know if you'll agree with this statement.
01:30.8
Nakahambing ka sa kapatid mo.
01:32.2
Ay, mas magaling kapatid mo.
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Mas matalino kapatid mo.
01:35.1
Mas masipag kapatid mo.
01:37.8
Ang daming sense of comparison, that's the reason why.
01:40.6
Yung parang na-ingrain sa mindset natin,
01:43.4
that in order for us to become better,
01:45.3
we have to beat someone else.
01:46.9
It's a cultural thing.
01:48.6
Kayo ba ay nakukumpara kayo nung bata kayo?
01:51.1
Type yes kung nakukumpara kayo.
01:52.9
And the third reason also kung bakit naiinggit tayo,
01:55.6
because it's the lack of confidence.
01:57.7
Kulang sa kumpiyansa.
01:58.9
Diba yung parang,
02:00.1
yung pag-aakalan natin sa ating sarili na
02:02.1
sila kaya nila, pero tayo hindi nating kaya.
02:04.5
Maabot nila ang pangarap nila,
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pero ang pangarap natin ay hindi na kayang maabot.
02:09.1
And yun nga, no offense men.
02:11.0
Ako rin, I was guilty of this.
02:13.5
The reason why nainggit ako,
02:15.1
because I feel, I feel that I am a loser.
02:18.4
Diba? Parang feeling ko na wala pa ako naabot sa buhay,
02:21.3
sila may naabot na.
02:22.3
Kaya itong feeling na ito,
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kung ang inggit ay dapat natin tanggalin eh.
02:28.9
Kasi pag pinabayaan po natin
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ang inggit na mabuhay sa ating katawan,
02:34.0
alam nyo ano yung mga negative effects niya?
02:35.9
Number one, stress and anxiety.
02:38.1
Diba? Yung pagkukumpara sa ibang tao po,
02:40.7
yung feeling mo talaga,
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yung emotional weakness mo,
02:45.0
at the same time,
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yung mental mo, emotional mo,
02:47.8
yung be affected.
02:48.9
And then, aside from that,
02:50.4
yung self-esteem will be really, really low.
02:53.1
And not only that,
02:54.3
it will also affect relationship.
02:55.9
Diba? Yung parang relationship,
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sa mga kasamahan mo sa trabaho.
03:02.1
Kasi parating kang galit.
03:03.7
May alam ba kayong taong napapansin na parating galit?
03:07.1
one thing that I've, ano,
03:08.6
I read a quote na sinabi
03:10.7
because envy is the thief of joy.
03:14.2
Ang inggit ay nagnanakaw ng ating kasiyahan sa buhay.
03:17.9
And last but not the least,
03:19.5
pag nag-inggit po kayo,
03:20.8
you'll stay stuck in the situation.
03:23.1
You feel that you are a loser.
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You feel that you are a nobody.
03:27.6
if you are going through the process of this right now,
03:29.8
let me encourage you.
03:31.5
Why don't we turn our envy into inspiration?
03:35.7
Palitan natin yung inggit natin sa ibang tao.
03:38.3
I-challenge natin sa sarili natin.
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hindi, hindi ako ma-inggit.
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So, paano natin gagawin ito?
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if you are going through the process of being envious,
03:49.7
I want you to do this.
03:50.7
Get a piece of paper and write this down.
03:52.3
I want to coach you and guide you.
03:53.6
How I was able to also realize
03:56.1
that I'm also in this process.
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Number one, acknowledge.
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Acknowledge that you are envious of others.
04:05.0
At least alam mo may problema.
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alamin mo kung saan nagsisimula ang inggit.
04:08.9
Nagsisimula ba yung inggit
04:09.8
pag may nakikita ka sa iba na wala ka?
04:12.2
Nagsisimula ba yung inggit
04:13.2
pag may naririnig kang bago
04:14.6
na meron sila na wala ka?
04:16.4
Nagsisimula ba yung inggit
04:17.4
pag nakikita mong may naa-award?
04:19.4
Hindi ka nagre-recognize?
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So, ngayon, alam mo na
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kung ano yung punot dulo ng inggit.
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Kailangan mo nang aminin
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na kailangan mo ayusin to.
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How can you change this?
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by turning this negative situation
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in the positive situation.
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Pag sasabihin mo,
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o sige, sila meron.
04:38.1
pagbubutihan ko rin ito
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para pag nating ng panahon,
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magkakaroon din ako.
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Sila na gawa nila.
04:44.7
O, anong gagawin ko?
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Pagbubutihan ko rin
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ang aking sarili.
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Kailangan maging positibo ako.
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Kailangan matuto ako,
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para makamit ko rin
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kung anong gusto ko.
04:57.0
Diba, nagigets nyo?
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It's very important
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you use that as an inspiration,
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not as a demotivation.
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And then, number three,
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para mawala ang inggit,
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ito yung gagawin mo.
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Na-acknowledge mo na.
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Ang kailangan mo gawin is
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stop comparing yourself with others
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and compare yourself with yourself.
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Because it's unfair
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to compare orange with apples.
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You got to compare orange with oranges.
05:22.2
And orange with oranges
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is referring to you.
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Iko-compare mo yung sarili mo
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from last year to this year.
05:30.2
Last year, tambay ka.
05:31.6
This year, may trabaho ka.
05:35.1
Last year, bumaksak ka.
05:37.0
Ngayong pasangawa ka.
05:39.6
Pero huwag mo iko-compare
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sa mga mas matatalino
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dahil hindi ka ganun katalino
05:48.1
The mere frack from 65
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You did a good job.
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o ngayon, kinikita mo ito.
05:56.8
Ngayon, kumikita ka na mas malaki.
05:59.0
Last year, nag-empleado ka ngayon.
06:00.7
Meron ka ng sideline.
06:02.5
Last year, nalugi ka.
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Ngayon, kumikita ka na.
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You are already progressing.
06:08.9
And last but not the least,
06:10.5
in order for you to feel better,
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I want you to feel better
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Alam mo kung gusto mo talaga
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with less fortunate people
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Ikumpara mo ang iyong sarili
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sa mga taong kapuspalad
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Araw-araw ito na kinakain mo.
06:27.3
compare ang sarili mo
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sa mga taong walang makain?
06:30.4
ng maliitang suweldo mo.
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Ikumpara mo sa mga taong
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wala kang trabaho.
06:34.0
Kinukumpara mo na
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ng negosyo mo ngayon.
06:37.0
Compare mo sa mga taong
06:38.0
nalulugi yung negosyo.
06:40.2
Naingit ka sa mga taong
06:41.5
na nakakapag-travel sila
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ang gaganda ng bahay nila.
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nasa balig na karamdaman
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Bilang na yung araw nila
06:50.7
sa mundong ibabaw nila.
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So if you start counting
06:53.4
the blessings that you
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we'll become thankful
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So I just want to
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encourage you right now
07:02.0
if you're going through
07:05.8
Naawa ka sa sarili mo.
07:07.0
Hanapin mo yung supporta mo
07:08.2
mula sa kaibigan mo,
07:10.9
professional na tagapagbayo
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kung kinakailangan.
07:15.5
find God in your life.
07:16.9
Strengthen your spiritual life.
07:18.3
And know that God
07:19.2
has a plan and a purpose for you.
07:21.0
His plan and purpose
07:21.9
is not to harm you
07:22.8
to give you hope in the future.
07:24.8
His plan is to make you
07:25.7
the head, not the tail.
07:27.0
He wants to make you
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the lender, not the borrower.
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He wants to put you at the top,
07:30.7
never be at the bottom.
07:32.6
yourself with others.
07:36.4
And compare yourself
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with less fortunate people
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And you will start
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If this video really helped you,
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nakatulong po sa inyo,
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may narealize po kayo,
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kung tayo naingit,
07:46.7
Kung tayo naingit,
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ma-inspire po tayo,
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sa comment section.
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I'm so blessed and thankful.
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Don't forget to like,
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subscribe on this channel.
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tamang kanunungan,
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ang susi sa pagyam.
