Vince Rapisura 2747: ₱299 Engagement Ring: Ano nga ba ang Tunay na Halaga ng Pag-ibig?
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So pag-uusapan natin talaga ngayon, ang mainit na mainit na topic dito sa social media
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ay ang 299 pesos na engagement ring.
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Direkt pakiliitan naman yung aking kulo kasi medyo naiilang ako,
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ang laki ng kulo ko masyado.
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Anyway, at para pag-usapan ito,
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syempre para hindi ako mag-isa dito na dadaktak sa inyo,
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kasama ko si Alex Guanzon at siya ay nakabase sa Florence, Italy.
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Hello Alex! Kamusta ba?
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Hello Vince! Happy Happy New Year! Mabuti naman. Thank you.
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It's always a pleasure to be your guest here and super exciting nitong opening topic natin.
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So itong 299 na engagement ring,
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bigyan lang natin ang mga viewers natin ng,
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meron daw hindi happy sa engagement ring si isang ate girl.
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Sa Reddit ito lumabas eh.
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my boyfriend of 8 years just proposed to me.
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But nagigilty ako kasi I am upset due to the fact na
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the engagement ring only cost 299.
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Nagigilty siya at na-upset.
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So ganito lang ba yung halaga ko?
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Ay, taray ni ate.
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Dadrama siya sa kanya na hindi niya man lang,
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pinag-ipunan pambili ng ring?
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Or di ko ba dapat i-big deal?
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Am I too immature to feel this way?
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Hindi niya alam na nakita ko yung ring binili niya sa Shopee.
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nangingi alam ng cellphone ng iba.
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Privacy issues yan eh.
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Ignore ko na lang ba itong napipil ko?
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Or should I confront him?
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Kasi ayoko din naman masira yung moment.
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pag-usapan natin yan ngayon.
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anong reaction mo kay ate Ger?
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parang ang daming layers na kailangan i-unpack.
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yung feeling niya,
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okay, it's good na nasabi niya,
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okay, I feel upset.
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And nagigilty ako.
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Kasi yung reading niya,
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alam niya naman kung bakit eh.
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Kasi parang sa kanya,
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yun lang ba ang halaga ko?
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mabuti na nalalaman niya na okay,
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upset ako kasi ito yung ibig sabihin sa akin yan eh.
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So yun yung una, no?
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I think definitely,
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kung humihingi man siya ng advice or ano,
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parang sa akin, big signal to, no?
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Na kung gantong bagay,
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medyo nahihirapan ka na pag-usapan
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or i-bring up dun sa future husband mo.
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it says a lot about your relationship.
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Kasi nasa simulang-simula pa lang kayo,
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yung mga ganyang issues.
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Full disclosure lang tayo.
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So ikaw ba ay in a relationship, Alex?
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Uy, matagal na rin yun ha?
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Matagal na rin yun.
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And kung ang sunod na tanong mo ay engagement ring,
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actually, yes, meron din.
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Pero, alam mo, my husband did that
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more kasi naisip niya na tradition sa Pilipinas yan,
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na sa totoo lang, napaka-American eh.
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Ng ano, hindi na sa dito.
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So yung isa pang bagay na gusto ko sabihin,
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yung feeling ni Ate Girl na bakit ganun lang,
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Kasi meron tayong preconceived idea na yung engagement ring,
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diba sa state sinasabi nila 3 months worth of tala eh?
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Hindi, hindi ako payag dyan talaga.
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Bakit kailangan ganun?
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Kay Ate Girl, ano, sa akin,
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para kay Ate Girl,
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it's okay to have mixed feelings.
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At actually, opportunity ito eh,
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na pwedeng mamili ka, Ate Girl,
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i-strengthen mo ba yung relationship ninyo
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Or i-end mo yung relationship?
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For the better, no?
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Kasi kung tingin mo, hindi yan yung value mo,
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marami kang issues,
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eh maganda, maaga pa lang mapag-decisionan niya.
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Kaya, naglagay ako ng mga unsolicited advice for Ate Girl.
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So kayo, unang-una-una ay mag-reflect siya sa kanyang nararamdaman.
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Sabi mo kakanina, tama, no?
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Na nirecognize niya na siya ay upset.
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Pero titignan niya,
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is it about the monetary value
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or does it symbolize something deeper to her?
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Bakit siya na-upset, diba?
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Ayun nga, may iba nga,
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sabi nga kanina dun sa comment, diba?
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Diretso wedding na, walang engagement engagement na yan, diba?
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Exactly. Oo, totoo, totoo.
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Like I said, usually, andaming pressure
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kasi nga, parang nakikibagay kasi tayo eh.
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So parang isip tuloy natin, kailangan ganun.
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Pero sa totoo lang, ano lang yan, outside pressure.
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Tapos, dapat din, tapos maganda nga yan, no?
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Makikita na natin dyan, matetest kung paano silang magkocommunicate
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in something that is very awkward, very, ano, parang
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feeling mo mag-aaway kayo or magiging emosyonal.
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So kailangan niya i-consider yung perspektibo ng kanyang boyfriend.
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Kasi baka may mga dahilan.
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Baka naman, kaya 299 yan ay yung wedding ring
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ang kanyang pinaghahandaan.
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O kaya, ang future niya lang.
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Exactly, baka naman yung bahay, diba?
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Baka naman yung bahay yung pinag-iipunan.
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In which case, okay lang yan.
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Parang symbolic na lang talaga siya.
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And I, you know, dapat kung kaong tatanungin,
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matuwa ka na ganun yung financial priorities
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nung boyfriend mo, diba?
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So mag-level off sila ng kanyang mga expectations.
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At saka titignan niya, is it the symbolism
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or yung monetary value yung pinofocus niya?
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Tapos mag-communicate sila.
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Kasi, naku, actually, mababaw tong issue na to, ate girl.
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Pag nasa relationship ka na,
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eh, talong natin si ano, diba?
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Tama lang tama si Alex, diba?
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Parang, naku, napakasimple ng bagay na ito, no?
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Is it about the monetary value
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or does it symbolize something deeper?
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Pag kailangan talaga nilang pag-usapan yan.
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Tapos mag-focus sa relationship
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at hindi doon sa singsing.
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Kasi ang essence naman talaga ng problem,
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proposal, ito yung commitment, diba?
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Na tayo ay magmamahalan.
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At yung singsing is just a symbol, diba?
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It's just a symbol.
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It's not a guarantee, okay?
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Not even yung wedding ring.
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Kagaya nga nung nakita natin yung ibang,
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sa mga viewers natin today.
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You know, it's, again,
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we like traditions, we like rituals.
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Gusto natin yung mga ganyan.
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ano ba yung talagang mahala?
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Talaga, hindi yung mga material na bagay,
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kundi yung araw-araw talaga na
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napangako nyo sa isa't isa.
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Yun naman talaga yung, diba?
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So, yun, ibabalance nyo lang yung mga expectations
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subukan ninyong intindihan ng isa't isa
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at iwasan na magturuan or mag...
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So, ang ano natin dyan,
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i-consider na lang nila siguro na
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mag-counseling sila, no?
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kung hindi talaga nila ma-solve on their own.
