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00:00.0
Dito sa ating topic na prenuptial agreement, hindi po pwedeng ako lang yung source natin dito kasi hindi naman ako lawyer.
00:12.7
Kaya inanyayahan ko ang aking kaibigang matalik na matalik, napakaganda at sana'y manalong congresswoman sa Siargao next year.
00:28.2
Manifest ko na yan. I-welcome natin si Atty. Lucille Serring. Hello!
00:39.1
Salamat sa maganda. Hintayin ko mga ilang buwan. Gaganda na rin ulit ako. Mas maganda pa sa'yo.
00:47.3
Sanay na sanay na ang mga followers ko sa kagandahan ko. Kaya ikaw naman yan.
00:54.0
Last time na nag-livestream tayo yung patokot.
00:58.2
Napatok ko yun kasi tungkol sa pamana at mga lupain. Kaya ulitin natin ulit yun para public service.
01:05.5
Oo nga kasi dami dito sa Siargao. Nandito pala ako sa Siargao. Nakiki-internet sa kapit-bakay para lang makasama kita ngayong araw dahil namimiss na kita.
01:15.6
Sa lahat ng mga nanunood, magpasensyahan nyo na ang aking kagandahan ngayong araw na to.
01:21.3
At sana marami tayong matututong magagandang araw ngayong araw.
01:27.0
Sa kaling meron matain mo.
01:28.2
Kung gusto mag-asawa.
01:29.9
My God, huwag na.
01:31.6
Kasi ano ngayon eh, usap-usapan ngayon, Atty.
01:35.4
Itong kay, ayan nga, kay Bea at saka kay Dominic.
01:39.8
Di ba?
01:40.6
Na ang chika daw na bakit sila naghiwalay ay prenup.
01:44.0
Siyempre, hindi naman natin alam kung totoo talaga yun.
01:46.9
Di ba? Sila lang naman yata nakakaan.
01:48.5
O baka meron kang inside information. Alam ko, mashowbiz ka rin eh.
01:52.7
Actually, kilala ko sila.
01:54.1
Na-meet ko silang dalawa at had dinner.
01:58.2
Even prior to na naging sila, they were still dating.
02:02.9
So, tingnan nito that time si Bea.
02:05.3
Because we had, we were working on some foundation work for the, she wanted to form one.
02:12.7
Na-meet ko yung guy.
02:14.0
I know the guy from, not personally, I met him.
02:19.5
Ang gwapo naman talaga. I mean, I couldn't blame Bea.
02:24.9
He is younger.
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At yun.
02:28.2
At yun lang ang unang ichichismes ko tungkol doon.
02:31.5
Oo. Anyway, so, yun ano, napag-uusapan nga.
02:34.5
At ang tanong ko nga dyan ay, bakit siya biglang napaka-interesado ng mga tao tungkol dito sa prenup na ito?
02:45.3
Unang-una, ang dami naghihiwalayan.
02:49.8
Nandun na yung kapnyel.
02:51.5
Nadito nga si Daniel ng mga isang linggo, pinagguguluhan siya.
02:56.9
Mga bumarama.
02:58.2
Ang kuya, ngayon naman, nag-announce naman si Sarah Labati, tsaka si Richard Gomez.
03:05.3
Ay, Richard Gugel.
03:06.3
Richard Gomez.
03:09.6
Sorry naman. Sina pa rin ni Lucy Torres.
03:14.5
Sino pa? Si Kim Chu, tsaka si, di ba, updated ako. Wala akong magawa sa siya.
03:19.5
Diba, Jericho Rosales at tsaka yung jowa din niya. Ganyan.
03:23.4
That's confirmed. And they separated long before.
03:28.2
So, kumbaga, at syempre, tinaon mo talaga na valentines na.
03:35.4
Ay, Kong Ye Fatsoy pala!
03:37.6
Ah, ano yun ba?
03:39.7
Bukas.
03:40.3
Bukas.
03:42.3
So, yun. Siguro dahil sa strong interest, and of course, Bea Alonso being popular,
03:49.1
different naman yung kapnyel kasi bata sila. They stayed together for so long.
03:54.1
Naghiwalay. Pero kahit yun, ha? Pag-usapan din natin.
03:58.2
So, it was difficult for them to separate because of the businesses that they entered into.
04:05.3
And I understand that was one of the reasons why it took a while before there were decisions to declare.
04:12.0
Actually, side kwento lang ha. Itong si attorney ay ano yan? Lawyer to the stars yan dati.
04:17.9
Siya yung mga, ano, mga annulment, mga artista.
04:20.8
Kaya hindi na ako nag-asawa. Alam ko na mangyayari. Maghihiwalay din ako. Kaya huwag na.
04:27.0
Kaya huwag na lang.
04:28.2
So, I have friends and, of course, one of my famous client is Vina. I also handled Anal Bintavong Navarro before.
04:37.4
Of course, at Icomilent.
04:38.4
Icomilent, ha?
04:39.7
Yeah. Oo. Kaya huwag ka nang mag-
04:42.3
Pag-anahon kasi natin yun.
04:45.9
So, okay. So, prenup. Hindi natin alam. Purely speculative. Pero isa yun sa mga lumabas.
04:54.5
Normally, mag-pre-nup ka lang kung may ito.
04:58.1
Sa couple ang mas mayaman.
05:03.1
Actually, ang case na nakalap ko dyan, kasi na-interview ako, tapos tinatanong ako, may alam ko.
05:08.3
Tapos, ang nakalap ko sa mga ibang chika nila ay, si Bea daw kasi ay nasa 1 billion na.
05:13.4
Tapos, itong si Dominic daw ay nasa 30 million. So, medyo malayo.
05:18.5
Pero sabi ko, 30 million, di na naman yun maliit, ha? Okay na rin yun.
05:23.8
I doubt it is 30 million.
05:25.6
Ah.
05:28.1
Kasi, the version that came out, chismis to ha, is that.
05:33.7
Parang naging showbiz chismis to ha.
05:36.1
It wasn't what it was. Kumbaga. So, despite that, parang people around Bea felt na.
05:47.1
And in fairness to the guy, he offered daw the prenup.
05:51.9
Ah.
05:53.8
Uy, that's so nice.
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Kasi, ang sinasabi ko nga.
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Dapat kasi kung ikaw yung mas mababa yung income level, mas maganda kung ikaw yung mag-offer ng prenup.
06:05.1
Para malinis, di ba? At saka hindi awkward. Di ba? Hindi ka na pag-iisipan.
06:12.1
Oo. So, anyhow. So, I don't know really the real story how it came about.
06:18.0
Or even if I know, I will not tell.
06:21.0
So, well, let's focus dun sa prenup.
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Kasi,
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okay.
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This is very common.
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It's very common in other countries.
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But in the Philippines, it's only common among those who have more than the other.
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Especially if the parents feel na you married into someone na might take advantage.
06:44.6
So, anyhow.
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Ang prenup kasi, bago ka mag-asawa, before 1987, yung family code.
06:54.6
Ang naririnig natin,
06:57.2
yung Conjugal Partnership of Gains.
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So, pag nag-pre-prenup ka,
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there are only three regimes na inaalaw ng batas.
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One, yung Conjugal Partnership of Gains.
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Second, yung Absolute Community of Property.
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And then, yung isa, yung Complete Separation of Property.
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Mag-focus lang tayo muna dun sa para klaruhin natin na hindi tayo maano.
07:23.8
So, patlong regime.
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Prior to 1987, ang regime nun, Conjugal Partnership of Gains.
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So, pinasa yung family code, regime, absolute community na ang default.
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Prior to 1987, ang Conjugal Partnership of Gains, you have to have an accounting.
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So, kung hindi maganda yung accounting mo,
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mahirap kang, parang,
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kagdating ng kahiwalayan or what have you,
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ang mas magulo.
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So, they decided, at the time, in 1987,
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na ang default na lang, absolute community of property,
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kung anong dala mo sa kasal,
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pondo nyo yun.
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Kasi sa Conjugal, kung ano lang yung income ng couple,
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yun lang yung habang buhay yung married.
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Yun lang yung kahatian nyo.
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Ano kung ano ka, housewife ka lang.
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At wala ka namang property.
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Kumbaga, kaya ang dami noon ay kahit nanluloko na si tatay, si daddy,
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wala kang capacity, you stay in the married.
08:47.5
Di ba?
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So, naging productive siya.
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So, under regime of absolute community,
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whether the wife has a work or not,
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hati, 50-50.
09:00.1
Yes.
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Ako, mayroon akong certain level of agreement dyan.
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Kasi, yun nga, mayroon namang sense of union.
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Pero, maganda rin talaga itong prenup nga,
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na mayroong option na tinatanong kung kayo ba ay okay ba,
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ay kung gusto nyo ba na-join or separate.
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Tama ba yung intindi ko?
09:20.3
Tama.
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Kasi, yung third is yung tinatawag na complete separation.
09:26.2
Talagang walang pakili.
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Gastos mo, gastos mo, gastos ko, gastos ko.
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So, pwede yun, technically.
09:32.0
Pwede yun.
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Oo.
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So, we don't know which one they agreed upon.
09:37.3
So, if it triggered some form of mistrust, di ba?
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Kasi, it's very sensitive in our culture to,
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I thought you love me.
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Why come you have to have a prenup?
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Di ba?
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Naging,
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I love you.
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But, you know,
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my parents don't.
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So, give me the prenup.
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So, it's really more of a goodwill.
10:01.9
So, there are a lot of things right now.
10:05.0
Like, very common now that women are empowered.
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Sometimes, women are richer.
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Women work more.
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So, we don't have an alimony.
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We don't have a divorce.
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So, every time na meron akong nahandle,
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ang unang talagang nagpapatagal is yung issue on property.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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So, karamihan ngayon ang mga taipans na hiwalay sa asawa,
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remain married to their wives,
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even if they have other girlfriends or ano nga,
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because of the consideration of property.
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Actually, nung tinanong nga namin yan,
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Atty. Lucila,
10:48.6
ano ba yung madalas na source na di pinagkakaunawaan ng mag-jowa,
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magkahiwalay man sila,
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o hindi, ano?
10:55.3
At ito yung lumabas, no?
10:58.0
So, 60% ay tungkol sa pera.
11:01.7
Tapos, 20% lang yung pangangaliwa.
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7% yung pangingalam ng dyanan.
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Oras sa trabaho versus family time ay 6%.
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At saka mga gawaing bahay, 5%.
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So, napakalaking bahagi talaga, no?
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Na pera ang pinaguhugatan ng mga away-away na yan.
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So, ako inisip ko nga rin,
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parang blessing,
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these guys din, ano?
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Kung hindi pumayag na magpirmahan ng prenup,
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eh di mas maagang nalaman na nila ngayon
11:30.8
na hindi pala sila MFEO or meant for each other.
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Kesa nagtutuloy, di ba?
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But I also have an opinion with that survey.
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It's actually connected to the second one.
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Kasi every time may nangangaliwa,
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hindi ka na nakakagigay ng tamang sustento sa jowa o sa asawa.
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So, ito ang negative sila.
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So,
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pag meron ka sa,
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nung una,
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ayos yung bigay mo,
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meron ka na ibang girlfriend,
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you start spending other things other than your family,
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then it becomes an issue.
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Then it triggers.
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Kasi yung iba,
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okay lang kahit na ibang babae ka,
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basta ako sustentado,
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daming ganon.
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Oo, sabihin na.
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Very famous athlete na ngayon,
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politiko, di ba?
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Ilang beses na chismis ko sino-sinong artista.
12:20.4
But the white stain.
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Kasi,
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hindi na pobibigyan niya, di ba?
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So, I think they're connected.
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Nangangaliwa and pera are the same.
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Oo.
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So, ito talaga, no?
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So, ang efekto,
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so yung 1987 family code natin,
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ang sinabi niya ay kapag tayo ay ikakasal,
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kung wala kayong prenup,
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yung property na meron ka noong single ka
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at yung mga property na makikreate ninyo
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na during kayo mag-asawa,
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magiging joint yan.
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Ganon ba yun?
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Correct.
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Yes.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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Oo.
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So, meron din palang benefit
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ang pagiging becky, ano?
12:58.1
Kasi,
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hindi.
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Naman.
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Hindi kami ginakasal.
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Pero gusto ko call you.
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Pero hindi.
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Kami naman ni Edwin ay sabi ko,
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kasi pareho,
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ito rin yung benefit na yung jowa mo,
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ka-level mo, no?
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At saka nagsimula kayo together
13:14.1
and then you grew in the relationship.
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So, ang mas, ano dito,
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ay parang hindi naging problema
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yung prenup,
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prenup na mga ganyan, no?
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Ay, bakit may gano'n?
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So, gano'n dapat.
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Fair net.
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So, yung mga,
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may mga pasabog.
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Okay.
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Sige.
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Parang may mali doon sa...
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So, yun.
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So, yun siya.
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There is...
13:41.2
Balikan natin si Bea
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at saka si Bom.
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That was also even an issue
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with Sarah Geronimo.
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Aha.
13:52.0
Diba?
13:52.3
The pet,
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the...
13:53.9
Parents, apparently,
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ah,
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she's Miss of Sarah said,
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my daughter is more,
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is richer than
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Mateo.
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So,
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pera talaga.
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But, at the end of the day,
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walang basagan ng trip, diba?
14:08.8
So, in this case,
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it's also very speculative
14:13.1
to even blame Bea
14:15.0
on her ability to handle a relationship.
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Kumbaga,
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women are in power now.
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She has the right
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to take care of her finances.
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At the end of the day.
14:26.0
Diba?
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Yeah.
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Of course.
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Diba?
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At the end of the day.
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So,
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I'm happy for her
14:33.3
if that's her reason.
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It means that
14:35.9
makikita yung good faith
14:37.8
ng malaki.
14:38.7
But, we cannot also take it out
14:40.0
from Dom.
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Medyo maluhu din yung bata.
14:47.8
Hilig sa mga...
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And he is friends with
14:50.2
really...
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Really...
14:52.4
Ah...
14:52.9
Ang mga friends,
14:54.3
circle friends yung mayayaman din.
14:56.2
But, very...
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Giving up with the lifestyle.
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Maybe,
15:00.2
all of this have a reason.
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So...
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But, they're trying to work things out.
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Whatever happens,
15:05.1
that's important.
15:06.4
If they really decide to separate,
15:08.4
una, outside naman tayo,
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dun na naman ang kinalaman natin.
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At, pakalawa,
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i-wish na lang natin sila
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ng very, very well.
15:14.3
Diba?
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Ayun.
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Tapos, ano ba yung mga ano?
15:16.9
Ano ba yung pros
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ng pagkakaroon ng
15:20.1
prenuptial agreement?
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Ano ba yung pros ng pagkakaroon ng
15:22.1
prenuptial agreement?
15:22.9
Ah...
15:23.3
Ah...
15:25.8
Eh...
15:27.0
Actually,
15:27.9
yung
15:28.2
pros sa akin,
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I don't know, ha?
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Hindi naman ako kasal.
15:33.2
So...
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Kumbaga,
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I would say,
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I really don't care.
15:36.4
The pros is this.
15:38.1
If really talaga
15:39.0
substantial yung
15:40.4
ano,
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yung property
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ng isa,
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na talagang
15:44.4
90 to 10 percent,
15:46.4
ah...
15:47.4
Just enter into
15:48.5
something,
15:49.3
para lang klaro.
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I'm sure,
15:51.3
pag magkakasama naman kayo,
15:52.7
kasi,
15:52.9
yung mas mayaman,
15:53.5
yung hindi naman mag-aambar
15:54.4
nung mas malaki,
15:55.0
di ba?
15:55.4
Ah...
15:56.4
Ah...
15:57.4
The advantage is to clear,
15:59.1
ah...
15:60.0
Kaya lang kasi,
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every time you say,
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oh, I wanna enter into a prenup,
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it's like anticipating that
16:04.9
at some point,
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we might separate.
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Yes!
16:08.4
Oo!
16:09.1
Yun nga yung mga isang ano,
16:10.3
di ba?
16:10.9
Eh, bakit pa tayo magpapakasal
16:12.5
kung meron ka palang ganun na,
16:14.4
ano,
16:14.9
tinitiru?
16:15.5
It's, it's really...
16:16.3
It's where the
16:16.9
stigma lies also.
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So,
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the advantages is on
16:21.0
the business side,
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is huge.
16:24.1
But the advantages of,
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in terms of the trust
16:26.8
that will have to be created
16:28.3
while you're, you know,
16:29.0
get, you're married,
16:30.5
is a different story.
16:31.4
So,
16:32.7
that's why you don't,
16:34.6
you don't do business
16:35.5
with your heart,
16:36.1
you do business
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with your mind.
16:37.7
So, that's the,
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the, the,
16:39.9
the challenge there.
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Taray naman nun!
16:43.1
You do business
16:43.9
with the mind,
16:45.1
not with the heart.
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Ang taray!
16:47.9
Oh, my heart!
16:49.9
No, I mean,
16:50.9
you give,
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I know,
16:52.2
I know you kasi,
16:53.2
I know you've been friends
16:54.2
for so long.
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You also give heart.
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Kasi,
17:00.2
doing well,
17:01.2
doing good.
17:02.2
I'm sorry,
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I'm gonna correct myself.
17:04.2
I'm looking at the perspective of
17:07.2
the likes of the Gokong Wehis
17:09.2
where you also have brothers and sisters.
17:11.2
Kasi makikialam,
17:13.2
makikialam at makikialam sila eh.
17:15.2
Sa'yo kasi,
17:17.2
ano ka eh,
17:18.2
self-made.
17:20.2
Aha.
17:21.2
No.
17:22.2
But at the same time,
17:23.2
Bea is also self-made.
17:25.2
Pero, ah,
17:26.2
we really don't know.
17:27.2
It really depends.
17:28.2
It's a case-to-case basis.
17:29.2
But,
17:30.2
the advantages of having a prenup,
17:32.2
I can't say.
17:34.2
Yeah.
17:35.2
So, pero ang sabi nga din sa prenup,
17:37.2
di ba,
17:38.2
napapalinaw yung financial expectations,
17:40.2
tapos napoprotect yung personal na assets.
17:43.2
Gaya ng sabi mo kanina na,
17:45.2
kunwari,
17:46.2
I came from a previous marriage,
17:48.2
o para maprotektahan naman yung mga anak ko dun,
17:50.2
di pwede yun.
17:51.2
And then, efficiency ng legal process mo,
17:53.2
sakaling may mangyari,
17:54.2
meron nang set agreement na i-execute na lang.
17:57.2
Correct.
17:58.2
Ah, in fact,
17:59.2
the law,
18:00.2
if you marry again,
18:02.2
and you did not annul the previous one,
18:05.2
and did not distribute,
18:06.2
tapos nagpakasal ka rin,
18:07.2
the second marriage is void.
18:09.2
Ah.
18:10.2
Wow.
18:11.2
Pag nangayos yung distribution,
18:14.2
bago ka nagpakasal ulit,
18:16.2
invalid yung second.
18:18.2
Ah.
18:19.2
Ang tara yan.
18:20.2
Kasi alam yan.
18:21.2
Kasi I have already one case na ginawa ko about it.
18:24.2
Ganyan. Oo.
18:25.2
Anyway, ano naman yung mga cons nito?
18:27.2
So aside from sa nakita natin,
18:28.2
yun nga,
18:29.2
nagkakaroon ng lack of trust,
18:31.2
ganyan,
18:32.2
tapos nauuwi sa hiwalayan,
18:34.2
sa tension.
18:36.2
Ano naman pa yung mga cons ng...
18:40.2
Let's focus dun sa cons ng absolute community.
18:43.2
Ha, Sen?
18:44.2
Hindi ka pwedeng magbenta ng walang consent ng spouse.
18:48.2
Isa.
18:49.2
Oo.
18:50.2
Kung kailangan mo na talaga.
18:52.2
Diba?
18:53.2
Ang dami kaya ngayong mga husband na wants to dispose ng utang.
18:58.2
Will forge the signature of the wife.
19:01.2
Oo. Oo. Oo.
19:03.2
So wrong yun.
19:05.2
Wrong yung mga yun. Ano?
19:06.2
Okay.
19:07.2
So tinanong natin yung ano, no?
19:08.2
Atty.
19:09.2
Tinanong natin yung opinion ng mga viewers natin.
19:13.2
Ayan.
19:14.2
Sang-ayon ba kayo sa prenuptial agreement?
19:16.2
Oye, guys.
19:17.2
Kung sang-ayon kayo or hindi sang-ayon ba?
19:19.2
Hindi sang-ayon.
19:20.2
Mag-comment naman kayo diyan.
19:22.2
Sang-ayon ba kayo sa prenuptial agreement?
19:24.2
At ang lumabas ay ito.
19:27.2
Okay?
19:28.2
1,174 respondents.
19:31.2
Ang yes ay 65%.
19:34.2
Ang no ay 19%.
19:37.2
At yung 16%, wala akong jowa.
19:40.2
O, diba?
19:42.2
Wow.
19:43.2
Alata na talaga na may natutunan na yung mga viewers mo.
19:46.2
Kasi umayaman na sila.
19:48.2
Ang nagpapatuloy na ng prenup, ang mayaman nyo.
19:53.2
Ito na lang siya yung tanong ko.
19:55.2
Ano yung certain level amount ng wealth na meron ka na worth it na magkaroon ng prenup?
20:02.2
Kung may 1 million pesos na bako, magpiprenup na ba ako?
20:04.2
O antayin ko pa katulad ng kabeya na 1 billion?
20:12.2
Alam mo kasi minsan,
20:13.2
pag may pagdududa ka na talaga sa jowa mo,
20:15.2
kahit 500,000 na papaprenup.
20:18.2
True din naman.
20:20.2
True din naman. Diba?
20:22.2
Kung parang disirado ka na, gusto mo na mag-asawa,
20:25.2
eh kaya lang, oh, prenup na nga.
20:27.2
Oo. Oo. Oo.
20:29.2
I can't answer that categorically.
20:32.2
Kasi I also know someone who's filthy rich
20:35.2
who was pressured by the family to get the prenup
20:39.2
and he didn't.
20:40.2
And he was proven right.
20:42.2
He's still married to that lady.
20:44.2
Oo. Diba?
20:45.2
It really is a case-to-case basis.
20:47.2
We don't know eh kung ano.
20:50.2
So, ito ang mga na-research ko, Atty. ha,
20:53.2
kung sino-sino ba yung mga iko-consider na,
20:56.2
mga couple na dapat mag-consider ng prenup.
20:58.2
So sabi mo kanina, yung may significant assets or debts, no?
21:02.2
Napag-usapan din natin yung previous relationships,
21:05.2
yung mga anak na iyon.
21:06.2
Yung one partner is much wealthier.
21:08.2
Yung business ownership at saka anticipation of inheritance,
21:13.2
pa paano naman yan magiging relevant sa ano,
21:16.2
ano na magkakaroon niya?
21:18.2
If absolute community,
21:21.2
if let's say one of the spouse inherits,
21:27.2
hindi yun part ng absolute community.
21:31.2
Okay.
21:33.2
So, yun yun sa issue ng inheritance.
21:36.2
Dun sa, what was the other one?
21:38.2
The other one is business interests.
21:42.2
So, the business interests, for example,
21:46.2
in anything that one of the spouse enters into,
21:50.2
must have consent with the wife.
21:53.2
Ah.
21:55.2
Kasi the family,
21:57.2
oo.
21:58.2
Kasi pag kunwari there's a dissolution,
22:01.2
if it turns out to be assault proprietorship,
22:04.2
hindi lang yung husband ang sisigaling pati asawa.
22:07.2
Oo.
22:08.2
So, husband and wife, it goes both ways naman yun, no?
22:11.2
Correct.
22:12.2
Hindi naman ito na lang.
22:13.2
Okay.
22:14.2
Sige.
22:15.2
And sino ba dapat ang mag-i-initiate?
22:17.2
In your, ano no,
22:18.2
kung ikaw ang tatanungin as a lawyer,
22:20.2
sino dapat ang mag-i-initiate ng prenuptial agreement?
22:24.2
Yung isang dapat na makaramdam ka na wala kang masyadong pera.
22:30.2
Oo.
22:32.2
Basta ka na lang na pag kayo naambunan ka.
22:34.2
Yun lang yun.
22:36.2
Oo. Okay.
22:37.2
So, better yun, ano, para,
22:39.2
I think ito rin para ano eh,
22:41.2
para hindi ka pag-isipan ng iba na,
22:44.2
o nag-goal trigger ka or something, di ba?
22:47.2
Correct.
22:48.2
Correct, yun.
22:49.2
Oo.
22:50.2
So, ayun.
22:51.2
Tapos ito lang nakita ko no,
22:52.2
how to initiate daw the discussion on a prenup.
22:56.2
So, sabi, choose the right time with your partner,
22:59.2
then i-express mo yung intention for protection and clarity.
23:02.2
It's not about distrust and anticipating a marriage to end.
23:06.2
Be open and then seek professional advice together.
23:10.2
So, meron ka bang itadagdag dyan na turning?
23:13.2
Alam mo, kung sensitive ka sa partner mo,
23:16.2
mararamdaman mo kung, let's say,
23:18.2
lalo na kung umaasa yung buong pamilya sa gumawa.
23:22.2
Mm-hmm.
23:23.2
Di ba?
23:24.2
You will always find an enemy on one of them kasi,
23:28.2
ah,
23:31.2
the marriage now, the family will come first over the parents or the brother, right?
23:36.2
Oo.
23:37.2
So, kung i-press the case at makaramdam ka na,
23:40.2
oh, let's say ako si Don, si Bea,
23:41.2
obviously, she's the breadwinner.
23:45.2
She really made things big.
23:48.2
She bought a farm for the mom, bought this for the brother.
23:53.2
Ako na magsasabi,
23:55.2
let's do a prenup.
23:57.2
Just to ease the concern.
23:59.2
Oo.
24:00.2
At saka, parang ano din ano, hindi lang at peace with your partner.
24:04.2
Kasi when you're getting into marriage, parang,
24:07.2
nai-intertwine ka na rin dun sa mga family.
24:10.2
Nai-intertwine ka na rin dun sa mga family dynamics eh.
24:13.2
Correct.
24:14.2
At saka, para maging smooth lang lahat,
24:17.2
mas okay na talaga na mag-prenup.
24:19.2
Okay.
24:20.2
So, tapos yun.
24:21.2
Okay talaga yung prenup under a context,
24:24.2
lalo na in our culture where,
24:28.2
unlike in the States, when you get married,
24:30.2
the parents are, you know, everyone's cut off.
24:32.2
Here, we don't cut off, no?
24:34.2
There's still a lot of expectation from your own family to, you know, share.
24:39.2
Oo. Oo. Oo.
24:41.2
Sorry, I cut you.
24:43.2
Hindi. Kasi kagabi, ang ano naman ni si Gretchen Ho, in-interview ko kagabi,
24:49.2
tapos ang chika niya, sa research daw nila,
24:52.2
mas nag-succeed yung mga relationships na
24:56.2
halos magkapareho yung economic status.
25:00.2
I believe that. Kasi...
25:04.2
I would look at that.
25:07.2
Sorry, not to say na hindi magiging successful yung may disparity,
25:12.2
pero mas nagiging successful daw yung equal-equal.
25:16.2
There's really no, for me, I'm not married,
25:20.2
but I feel there's really no formula.
25:23.2
Maybe by statistics.
25:26.2
But at the same time,
25:29.2
in the Philippines, for example,
25:32.2
a man and a woman,
25:34.2
the men are expected to earn more,
25:36.2
and the woman,
25:38.2
once she gets all ano,
25:40.2
there's a tendency to be insecure, right?
25:43.2
So, in that way,
25:45.2
if you want to win the same thing,
25:47.2
you have to be competitive.
25:49.2
Even within the marriage, it's tiring.
25:52.2
Right?
25:53.2
So, if that's the case,
25:56.2
but Amia,
25:59.2
admittedly,
26:01.2
in ang barkada namin may mga lawyers.
26:03.2
Lahat yung successful sa marriage.
26:05.2
You know the key?
26:07.2
Ano yung key?
26:09.2
Of course, isa ang husband, architect.
26:12.2
Isa, lawyer din.
26:14.2
So, yeah.
26:15.2
Yung isa na hindi na work out ngayon naman,
26:18.2
yung husband was earning less.
26:21.2
So, that could be true also.
26:23.2
But,
26:24.2
we also made it the point that
26:26.2
us, women lawyers,
26:28.2
hang out and go away from that relationship.
26:31.2
Meaning,
26:32.2
we fly away from that relationship.
26:34.2
We travel together.
26:36.2
Kami-kami lang.
26:37.2
There's a light on both sides of it.
26:39.2
Yes.
26:40.2
So,
26:41.2
we have to handle.
26:42.2
Because once it gets so,
26:44.2
you know, clingy,
26:45.2
parang...
26:47.2
Actually, yung may sinasabi ko,
26:48.2
for a successful relationship to work,
26:52.2
dapat mayroon pa rin ikaw, ako,
26:56.2
tapos may tayo.
26:57.2
Yun talaga yung magandang kuwala.
27:00.2
Ayan.
27:01.2
Okay. Sige.
27:03.2
So, wala akong maraming maraming salamat.
27:04.2
Maraming tayong mga na-chismis ngayon, ha.
27:06.2
May mga dada-detalye.
27:07.2
So, next na pag-uusin...
27:09.2
Ano?
27:10.2
Call me when you're not busy.
27:12.2
Of course.
27:13.2
Oo nga.
27:14.2
Alam ko.
27:15.2
Uy.
27:16.2
So, nasa Siargao ka ngayon.
27:18.2
Ano ba yung mga plans mo dyan?
27:19.2
O magkampanya na tayo ngayong balag?
27:22.2
So, here,
27:24.2
we're still focusing dun sa health
27:27.2
na inaano namin the last time.
27:30.2
And then, we just recently...
27:32.2
Naka-
27:34.2
Oo.
27:35.2
Naka-
27:36.2
Ongoing.
27:37.2
Ongoing.
27:38.2
And just a few days ago,
27:41.2
we gave out wood stoves
27:43.2
for a carbon credit program.
27:45.2
So, maybe we should talk about that
27:47.2
one of these days.
27:48.2
Sige. Sige.
27:49.2
Next time, ano yung mga pinagkakaabalahan mo
27:52.2
sa Siargao?
27:54.2
Ay, siguro mas maganda kong on-site.
27:56.2
Nandyan din ako, diba?
27:57.2
Why not?
27:58.2
Why not?
27:59.2
Mauna lang.
28:00.2
Swerte lang tayo today.
28:01.2
Na it's really sunny,
28:03.2
but it's been raining for the past days.
28:05.2
Oo. Oo. Oo.
28:06.2
Okay. Thank you. Thank you, Lucille.
28:08.2
Love you.
28:09.2
Love you. Love you too.
28:11.2
Thank you, everyone.
28:15.2
Okay. So, yan po si Atty. Lucille.
28:17.2
At ako naman ang inyong financial guru,
28:20.2
si Sir Vince.
28:21.2
Nagsasabing ang pagyaman na pag-aaralan
28:23.2
at na pagtutulungan.


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