00:49.4
Please do share this podcast if you find this content worthy.
00:53.4
Alam niyo ito, kung tayo gusto natin maging successful sa ating financials to achieve our goals,
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minsan masyado nating ina-underestimate po ang ating sarili.
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Yun po ang nagiging problema.
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Minamaliit mo yung sarili.
01:08.4
Ha, Chinky? Hindi ko naman minamaliit ang sarili ko.
01:10.6
Paano malaman na minamaliit mo yung sarili mo?
01:13.8
Ito lang, nasabi mo na ba ito sa sarili mo?
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Ay hindi naman ako magaling eh.
01:17.1
Hindi ko naman kaya yan eh.
01:18.3
Ay wala naman akong pera eh.
01:19.6
Hindi naman ako nakapagtapos eh.
01:22.0
Ang tawag po niyan ay negative self-talk.
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You are already, that's already one sign of underestimating yourself.
01:28.3
Some people say, ano yan eh, humility actually.
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No, it's not humility, it's pride.
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And I would say it's false pride.
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And I used to think like that.
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I hope you understand.
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Hindi naman ako ano eh.
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Ganun, parang akala ko, ayoko namang pakita na mayabang ako, na self-confident ako.
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Masyado natin minamaliit natin ang ating sarili.
01:48.7
Number two sign na minamaliit mo yung sarili mo,
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ang hilig mo ikumpara ang sarili mo sa ibang tao.
01:53.4
Kung ikaw ay guilty, type guilty sa comment section.
01:56.6
ayaw mo ng challenges.
01:58.3
O ayaw mo ma-stress.
01:59.6
Ayaw mo ng pagbabago.
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Kasi nga, hindi ka naniniwala na kaya mo.
02:02.9
Yun yung isang pang problema.
02:04.7
masyado kang perfectionist.
02:07.5
ina-analyze mo lahat bago kang gumalaw.
02:10.0
Na talagang, wala naman masama na maging cautious.
02:12.2
Pero yun nga, sa sobrang cautious mo,
02:13.9
ayaw mo mag-fail at wala kang ginagawa.
02:16.0
Did I just describe your current mindset, situation, and feeling?
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Kung ikaw yun, give me a nod right now.
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Okay, so in other words,
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these are the signs that you are already underestimating yourself.
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So, if you are underestimating yourself,
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how can you achieve your dreams?
02:35.4
How can you achieve your goals?
02:37.0
Kasi you're too cautious.
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At the same time, wala kang ginagawa.
02:40.3
Para sa mga taong nanunood o nakikinig ng podcast na ito,
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this is my challenge to you.
02:45.6
I want to help you right now
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to increase your income, to double your income.
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But in order for us to do that,
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kailangan matanggal muna natin
02:54.4
yung self-limiting.
02:55.4
I want to help you right now to increase your income, to double your income.
02:55.5
Kailangan magkaroon tayo ng self-belief.
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Yung belief dapat tayo sa sarili.
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Naniniwala po dapat tayo sa ating sarili.
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At bakit ka maniniwala sa ating sarili?
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Hindi dahil BS ka.
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belief sa sarili.
03:10.2
Ang ibig ko sabihin ng BS
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because I do believe it is God
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who has given us the ability to produce wealth.
03:16.3
Ang Diyos na nagbigay sa atin
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ng angking talino at karunungan
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para tayo lumikha ng kayamanan.
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If God is for us,
03:23.0
who can be against us?
03:24.2
If God has given us
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na talaga the most powerful
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and the most, ano talaga, parang
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the one who's in control of our life,
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siya na ka nagbigay
03:33.8
tapos ina-underestimate mo pa yung sarili mo.
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Pag minamaliit mo yung sarili mo,
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minamaliit mo rin ang Diyos.
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So right now, kung handa ka na
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to unlock your self-belief,
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ito yung unang natin gagawin.
03:44.1
Kumuha ka ng papel at ball pen
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and I want you to evaluate yourself.
03:48.1
Magme-meditate po tayo.
03:49.9
Che-check natin ang sarili natin.
03:52.0
I want to challenge you
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to set ambitious goals.
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ito yung tawag nyo ng BHAG.
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Big, Hairy, Audacious Goals.
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Kaya nga, when it comes to
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earning money and achieving success,
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Dapat may ambisyon ka naman
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sa buhay, kapatid.
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Kung wala kang ambisyon sa buhay,
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walang mangyayari.
04:11.8
Hindi po natin pwedeng ambisyon
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na kumain lang ng tatlong beses sa araw,
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na tumira lang sa maliit na bahay.
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Again, okay lang na makontento.
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Pero hindi yan ambisyon.
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Huwag naman nga harap na malaki.
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Hindi naman maabot ang pangarap mo.
04:26.9
Paano ka magkakaroon ng power at pag-asa
04:29.2
kung wala kang ambisyon?
04:31.0
Pag ikaw, naniniwala ka
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sa mga pangarap mo.
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Kung malalaki ang pangarap mo,
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malalaki rin ang galawan mo.
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The reality is this.
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Real talk po tayo.
04:40.2
I might offend you by saying this.
04:42.3
And I hope that you don't.
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Don't take this personally.
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Take this professionally.
04:46.3
Because we set our goals too low
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Yun ang problema.
04:50.6
Masyado maliit tayong mag-set ng goals.
04:55.4
Malaki ng pangarap mo.
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At maraming taong maasa sa'yo.
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Kaya nga ang challenge ko po sa inyo ngayon.
04:59.7
Ikaw, handa ka na ba to set ambitious goals?
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Pag-laban mo ang pangarap mo.
05:04.6
Minsan, hinakaw na kasi ang pangarap natin
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kaya ayaw na natin lumaban.
05:08.3
Para sa mga taong ayaw na lumaban,
05:10.0
I think you should stop listening to this podcast already.
05:13.9
Kasi lahat ng sabihin ko,
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it doesn't really add value to you.
05:17.1
Pero para sa mga taong gusto ng lumaban
05:19.1
at nagigising na at napupukaw ng isipan at damdamin,
05:21.9
please, next challenge.
05:23.3
Number one, sulat ka ulit.
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Ano yung gusto mo?
05:25.9
Magkano gusto mong kitain?
05:27.4
Ano yung gusto mong bahay?
05:28.5
Anong gusto mong sasakyan?
05:31.3
ito naman ang next, the reality.
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The bigger the goals,
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the bigger the challenges.
05:38.5
Ayan ang reality.
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Reality yung buhay yan, eh.
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Kung ang goal mo lang, again,
05:42.5
kumain ng tatlong beses ang araw,
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kahit makitira ka lang,
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Pero kung ang goal mo
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is magpakain ng ibang tao,
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nako, laking challenge yun.
05:51.9
Kung ang goal mo,
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magkaroon ng malaking bahay,
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Malaking challenge yun.
05:56.1
Kung ang goal mo,
05:57.9
at makasama mo buong pamilya mo
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malaking challenge yun.
06:02.6
prepare yourself to challenges.
06:05.1
Overcoming challenges.
06:07.0
Kaya nga, yung paniniwala mo
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yung ambition mo,
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yan ang lalaban, eh.
06:13.9
Pag ikaw ay nadatapa,
06:15.6
ikaw ay nasasaktan,
06:17.4
ikaw ay parang feeling mo
06:18.9
na gusto mong sumuko,
06:20.4
babalik ka sa dahilan
06:21.9
kung bakit mo ito inumpisahan.
06:25.0
pangarap sa buhay,
06:26.0
may hugot ka sa buhay,
06:27.2
it helps you to persevere,
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and keep you moving forward.
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I can still remember
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when I was age 12,
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maging milyonaryo.
06:37.7
Of course, I was 12.
06:38.9
So, anong ginawa ko?
06:40.9
Since gusto kong kumita
06:44.0
Maraming bang mga challenges?
06:46.0
ang daming ika nga,
06:48.1
As a matter of fact,
06:50.7
akala mong susuporta sa'yo,
06:52.7
sila pang hindi sumusuporta.
06:55.2
kung hindi mo sukat-akalain
06:57.0
sila pang sumusuporta.
06:58.2
Agree or disagree?
06:60.0
So, I want you to find ways.
07:01.8
Every time when you want to stop,
07:04.8
because nasaktan ka,
07:06.9
walang nangyayari hanggang ngayon.
07:08.8
Kung nag-social media ka,
07:10.1
walang nagla-like,
07:13.8
ituloy mo lang yan.
07:15.4
Ako parati ko sinasabi,
07:16.5
makakachamba ka rin one day.
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Dahil sa kakulitan mo.
07:22.0
after you have done that,
07:23.3
I hope that you are still here with me.
07:25.7
If you are still here with me,
07:27.0
type here with me
07:28.0
in the comment section
07:29.7
if you are listening to this podcast.
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Itong third naman to,
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as you face your challenges,
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I want you to also embrace opportunities.
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When you say opportunities,
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na kailangan parati ka
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naghahanap ng oportunidad,
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never ever say no immediately.
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Kung may nag-offer na opportunity,
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hindi naman say yes immediately,
07:50.8
pag-aralan mo na.
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Because opportunity
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is often present themselves
07:55.4
in least expected places
07:57.8
and from least expected people.
08:00.2
If I help you to look back,
08:02.0
napapansin nyo ba
08:04.3
na ikang nagpaginhawa sa buhay mo
08:07.3
at naging turning point ng buhay mo
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ay mga bagay na hindi mo inaasahan.
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like for example,
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one opportunity that I never knew it existed,
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Hindi ko alam yung TikTok shop.
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I opened myself to opportunities.
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I started to learn.
08:27.1
I started to create content sa TikTok.
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I started to create a shop.
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Ayun ako, the rest is history.
08:32.4
Ang daming tao ang na-touch because of TikTok.
08:35.8
Ang daming tao ang nakakuha, di ba?
08:38.7
Ng mga books, ipon box because of TikTok
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na hindi ko nagagawa sa ibang platform.
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Kaya nga, believing in your abilities
08:45.3
opens new opportunities for you.
08:48.0
Kaya nga, importante po yan na
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embrace opportunities.
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And then, ito yung kagandahan.
08:54.7
Ito yung kagandahan.
08:55.4
Gusto nyo malaman ang kagandahan?
08:58.0
once you start already creating success,
09:02.2
Creating success.
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Parang ano yan eh.
09:07.2
Honestly, yung ito lang.
09:08.6
Makakwento ko lang ah.
09:11.1
may nagsabi sa akin si James Afante,
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isang TikToker also,
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Chinky, magano ka na TikTok shop?
09:17.2
Live ka, mag-live.
09:18.3
Sabi ko, ano gagawin ko?
09:19.8
Hindi, magpirma-pirma ka lang ng books.
09:23.3
O, sige, pipirma ko ng books.
09:24.7
Sabi ko, paano yan?
09:25.9
Pag-pirma ng books, may bibili ba?
09:29.2
So, ito katulong story,
09:31.1
And then, after I went on live
09:33.2
for less than two hours,
09:34.7
we sold 250,000 pesos
09:37.1
in less than two hours.
09:38.5
Nashock talaga ako.
09:39.8
Nalaglag ang pangako.
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hindi ko nagagawa ito.
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Pero ngayon, nagagawa ko
09:44.2
because of TikTok.
09:45.2
So, ano nangyari?
09:46.4
Tumaas ang confidence level ko.
09:49.3
Kasi naging open ako sa opportunity.
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So, what does it mean?
09:53.3
Confidence attracts success.
09:55.9
Confidence is magnetic.
09:57.4
Alam mo, pagka-confident ka na sa isang bagay,
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parang napakadali na kumita.
10:02.2
Parang opportunities, partnership,
10:04.4
alam nyo mangyari?
10:05.3
You will also start to get noticed by the people
10:09.1
na talagang pareho ang like-mindedness.
10:13.1
Dito ko nga na-meet nga eh,
10:14.7
yung mga ka-TikTokers.
10:16.6
Ay, ang dami ko na na-meet talaga.
10:18.9
Kasi nga, pareho kami mag-isip eh.
10:20.8
Are you learning so far?
10:23.3
ano, I'm just sharing with you.
10:25.0
Again, para sa mga tao na
10:26.8
you are looking down,
10:28.4
you're underestimating yourself,
10:31.0
that you have what it takes
10:32.3
for you to become successful.
10:34.0
And then probably,
10:34.9
some of you are asking,
10:35.8
Chinky, what if I fail?
10:38.0
Okay lang when you fail
10:39.9
you can never become successful
10:41.2
without experiencing failure.
10:43.3
Failure is part of success.
10:46.8
ito ha, sulit nyo ito,
10:48.0
learn from your mistakes.
10:50.4
Because everyone makes mistakes.
10:53.3
Ang dami ko kapalpakan,
10:54.9
pero ang importante,
10:56.4
Self-belief means
10:57.9
you won't make mistakes.
10:59.8
It means that you will bounce back
11:01.7
stronger, better,
11:03.2
because you learn from your past.
11:05.8
Kaya nga, it's the ability
11:06.7
to learn from your failures.
11:08.2
Yan ang gagamitin po natin.
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The more failures,
11:11.6
the more chances of winning.
11:12.9
And then, ito yung pinakamaganda.
11:14.2
Once you have already achieved success,
11:16.4
di ba, you learn from your mistake,
11:17.7
you become wiser,
11:18.5
you become more confident already.
11:20.4
Ito yung pinakamaganda.
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Aside from makakamit mo na
11:24.6
yung mga financial goals mo,
11:26.2
from nothing to something,
11:27.8
from dati, I cannot afford
11:29.0
to even buy a sampalok candy right now,
11:31.7
I can afford it right now.
11:33.0
From dati na hindi ako makakain sa restaurant,
11:35.8
ngayon, na-afford ko na kumain sa restaurant.
11:37.8
By achieving those opportunities,
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ika nga, because I believe
11:41.9
of my God-given talent,
11:43.4
alam mo, ito yung nangyari po.
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Ito yung nangyari yan.
11:45.5
Without me knowing,
11:46.7
I started to inspire others.
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Alam mo, pag meron kang self-belief,
11:51.5
naniniwala ka ng sarili mo,
11:52.7
since punong-puno ka ng paniniwala,
11:55.0
pwede mo nang i-share yung paniniwala niyan sa iba.
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Your self-belief can inspire others
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to believe also in themselves.
12:02.4
Sobra kasing punong-puno ka ng pag-asa.
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Likewise, if you're watching this
12:06.1
and listening to this,
12:07.5
by achieving your goals
12:08.7
and demonstrating your capabilities,
12:11.1
you become a role model
12:12.4
for those people who are around you.
12:14.5
To also encourage them,
12:15.7
pursue their dreams.
12:16.6
Again, it never fails me, no?
12:18.1
Nakaka-inspire talaga.
12:19.7
Again, I know that this person
12:22.7
is inspiring siya
12:23.5
pero medyo may mga iba
12:25.0
na yayabangan, okay?
12:26.5
Yung yabang factor,
12:27.6
iiwang ko na lang yan.
12:28.8
Pero let me share na lang siguro yung inspiration
12:32.7
ng nangalang Joss Mojica,
12:34.3
si Kang Kong Chips, no?
12:35.7
For one, bata lang siya.
12:37.2
Meron siyang ambitious goal
12:38.7
na ilabas ang kanilang pamilya sa kahirapan
12:42.2
by selling Kang Kong Chips.
12:44.7
Na-overcome niya yung challenges niya.
12:46.7
Paano? Alam niya kasi, mahirap eh.
12:48.7
Pero yun, tinuloy-tuloy lang niya.
12:50.4
And then, nag-start siya, nag-embrace ng opportunity,
12:52.5
nagbenta siya online.
12:54.5
Di ba? Nagluto siya, nagbenta siya.
12:57.5
Because of Mr. Senator Ping Lacson na bumili,
13:01.5
pinost, nag-viral.
13:03.0
So, ano nangyari? Nakilala ang product niya,
13:05.0
marami na bumibili.
13:06.5
That was the start.
13:07.5
Since kumikita na siya from zero,
13:09.5
naging 1,000, naging 100,000,
13:11.5
ngayon kumikita na siya ng million.
13:14.5
Nagiging, ano na, successful na siya.
13:16.0
So, confidence attract success.
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Yan. Nagiging, ano na siya,
13:20.5
parang inspiration na sa mga taong,
13:22.4
na gusto mag-umpisa.
13:23.4
Parang naiisip ng tao,
13:24.9
kung siya, 17-year-old, na kaya niya,
13:28.9
Kaya nga, ito lang ha, guys.
13:30.4
If you're in the journey,
13:31.9
journey ka pa lang,
13:32.9
wala ka pang masyadong kita,
13:33.9
wala ka pang masyadong success,
13:36.4
Maniwala ka sa iyong sarili.
13:38.9
Maniwala ka na binigyan ka ng Diyos na kakayahan
13:41.9
upang lumikha ng kayamanan.
13:43.9
Maniwala ka na makakamit mo
13:45.9
ang iyong mga pangarap sa buhay.
13:50.9
maging ambisyoso ka,
13:52.4
handa ka na humarap sa mga pagsubok,
13:54.9
at kung ikaw man ay magkamali at dumapa,
13:57.4
kailangan matuto ka sa pagkakamali
13:59.9
at matuto kang bumangon.
14:01.4
Hindi mahalaga kung ilang beses ka bumagsak,
14:03.9
ang mahalaga ilang beses ka bumangon.
14:06.9
Huwag mo isara ang iyong isipan sa mga oportunidad.
14:09.9
Buksan mo ang iyong isipan
14:11.9
sa mga maraming oportunidad at mga posibilidad.
14:14.9
Pagkatapos po niyan,
14:16.4
pag ikaw ay nakakamit ng maliit na tagumpay,
14:18.9
ang maliit na tagumpay ay magdadala sa iyo
14:21.9
sa mga malalaking tagumpay.
14:23.4
Ito na rin ang magiging iyong sandigan.
14:25.9
Ito na rin ang iyong magiging ika nga ay paniniwala
14:29.4
na pwede mo pang makamit ang mas malaking pangarap mo sa buhay.
14:32.9
Pag ikaw, naabot mo na ang iyong tugatog sa tagumpay,
14:36.4
ito ay gagamitin naman ng Diyos
14:38.4
para ikaw ay magiging inspirasyon sa ibang tao.
14:41.9
Kaya nga mga friendship, ano pang hinihintay niyo?
14:44.4
It is time to make a change.
14:46.4
It is time for you to start believing in yourself.
14:48.4
It is time for you to start believing in your God,
14:51.9
in your family and talents.
14:53.9
Kung nagustuhan niyo itong episode na ito,
14:55.9
please do me a favor.
14:56.9
Please type in the comment section kung ano natutunan niyo
14:58.9
and i-share niyo itong episode na ito
15:00.9
to a person who's losing confidence
15:02.9
and underestimating themselves.
15:04.9
That's the reason why they cannot get out of the rut.
15:06.9
Tatandaan niyo, as I always say in my podcast channel,
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to every problem, there's always a solution.
15:11.9
If you're not part of the solution,
15:13.9
you're part of the problem.
15:15.9
Always think positive.
15:21.9
Thank you for watching!
