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I am not perfect, but I have a story.
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That core is the soul of public speaking.
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I have no right to judge anyone.
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Especially myself.
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I am free to make mistakes.
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I am free to learn.
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I am free to be the best.
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Welcome to the huddle.
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Two of the most important elements in public speaking ay itong pinagdadaanan natin ngayon.
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Instinct and rationality.
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What is instinct?
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Instinct is your verbal reaction to a verbal stimulus.
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Kaya madalas, pag sinasabi natin,
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maternal instinct ko kasi ang umiyak ka agad.
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Instinct ko kasi, tumakbo, takot ako sa aso.
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Instinct in public speaking is your verbal reaction.
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May pagkakaiba sa atin ang reaction at response.
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Ang reaction is raw.
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Hindi pinag-iisipan.
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Ang response, pinoprocess.
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Now, ano ang goal na kinukuha natin?
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Eventually, ito oxymoron ito ha.
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Contradictory ito.
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Ang ina-achieve natin is a disciplined verbal instinct.
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Kasi, pag nasa telebisyon ka or you're in a public space
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and you are performing anything that has something to do with public speaking,
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lalo na pag may mga batang audience or vulnerable sectors of society are in front of you,
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you can't say just anything.
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Hindi ka pwede magmura.
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Ang instinct na hinahanap natin dito is your verbal,
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reaction to a verbal stimulus.
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Pag sinabi mo halimbawa, blue, iba-iba yun.
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May magsasabing, blue, give me your reaction.
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Ang blue, Natalie, to you is what?
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Ang blue to you, yes.
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So, from eyes to sky to dress, they're all blue.
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Ano ang ibig sabihin ng instinct na yun?
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Ang instinct, even rationality, mamaya,
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ang hugot nun is from your core story.
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So, hindi ka pwede magdikta na,
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hindi ang blue dapat ocean.
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Because your core story is unique.
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Your core, it's only you and your God who can enter into that core.
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So, dito ka nagiging unique, nagiging distinct.
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So, when you react to a contrast,
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or when you react to a political statement,
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or when you react to a sociological development,
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iba-iba ang pinanggagalingan.
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Anak sa labas ang tatay niya,
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ang tatay niya ay OFW,
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ang tatay niya ay galing sa probinsya,
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ang tatay niya ay abogado,
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ang tatay niya ay nakulong.
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So, you can imagine, if I say,
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Tatay, ano ang verbal reaction nun?
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So, walang magsasabi na,
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Tatay, anakakulong.
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Nakakulong, nakakulong, nakakulong, nakakulong.
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Again, that's another weakness in public speaking
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because we most of the time fall into the trap of blending.
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And to avoid that, celebrate your story.
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Celebrate your core.
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Kaya kanina sinabi ko,
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the public speaking's goal is to help you discover your power to tell your story.
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Ang hugot mo, kwento mo.
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Kwento mo, iyo yun.
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Nobody can invalidate that story.
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You own that story.
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Yun yung instinct wordplay na ginawa natin ngayon.
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These are tools that you use in public speaking.
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Yung rationality wordplay naman ay,
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halimbawa, sinabi nating,
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Pula, sabihin mo sa akin kung ano ang reaction mo at bakit.
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Rationality is a state of being reasonable.
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Rationality is a state of being rational.
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You tell me why when I say red.
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I received that only once.
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You know what I'm saying?
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because I associate red with rose.
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I received it only once.
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how do you react to that, Gabrielle?
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Love because ever since I was a child,
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when we talk about love,
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it always symbolizes,
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the color red always symbolizes about love.
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When I say red, what comes to mind?
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Run to a mic. There.
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When I think about the color red,
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I think about anger.
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Because when I get mad, I turn red.
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And with anger comes violence.
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And it's kind of graphic.
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Like hearts and everything.
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So, that's the first thing that comes to my mind.
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Notice that I had one word red from love to anger to rose.
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So, celebrate being different, being unique.
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Let's apply this into the word conversation exercise.
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Using instinct and rationality.
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Let's start with a word from you.
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At mag-uusap tayo based on that word.
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Philippine Women's University pa.
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Mahal na mahal ko.
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Dahil naalala ko ang journey ko sa education.
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I was encouraged by the late Helena Benitez
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to go for my masters.
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And then on this very stage,
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I graduated my master degree.
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And my doctoral degree in social development.
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Ikaw, anong ibig sabihin sa'yo ng Philippine Women's University?
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For me, Philippine Women's University is family and the stage of the growth.
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Where will I going to be educated and personally development.
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Ang description mo sa Philippine Women's University.
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Because it is a stage of growth.
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And then I meet strange people.
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But they influence me in a good manner.
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You keep on talking about growth.
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And bakit strange ang description mo sa mga taong nakakasalubong mo dito sa women's?
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Notice that I am taking on the dominant role here now.
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I'm taking the dominant role.
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Dahil istudyante kita, nagdo-dominant ako.
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But how do you answer that?
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Bakit strange at bakit growth ang pinag-uusapan mo?
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Strange in a way of hindi ko po sila kilala.
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And then good in manner because it has a learning stage po.
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Because I'm a student.
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And then, I'm strange kasi I'm not familiar to everything.
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So it is part of journey pa rin po.
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Nakita ka guys, that exercise of it started with a word.
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Pero dito, lalo na sa interviews and conversation.
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Lumalabas yung dominant at passive.
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Nag-dominant ako because I am in control.
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Pero there are instances when a word conversation exercise, pwede tayong patas.
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Pwede mo ako balikan.
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Ikaw, Tito Boy, when was the last time you experienced pain?
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Nagdo-dominant ka doon.
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Pwede naman ako magpa-passive. Ako lang ang tagasagot.
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Pwede tayo nag...
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You know, some of the most interesting conversations ay yung parehong engaged.
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Ikaw, kailangan ka. Close ka ba sa pamilya mo? Tapunan.
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Nag-nagtatakunan.
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The lesson here is you can do a conversation with just one word.
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And by listening intently.
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Number three, by being interested.
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Techniques on clarity, techniques on faceology, susunod na yun.
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But the basic requirements of, you know, just listening, just being in the moment,
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just being interested,
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Alright. Maraming salamat.
