Kylie Verzosa, naiyak nu’ng may mapag-usapan tungkol sa parents… | Ogie Diaz
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Yun talagang parang feeling mo.
00:29.7
Ayaw mong lumabas sa bahay kasi natalo ka.
00:31.8
I-alloy ako sa school.
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Unstable relationship.
00:34.7
Ina-question ko yung sarili ko.
00:36.1
Iniisip ko na bakit pa ako dito sa mundo.
00:40.9
Nag-model ako pero hindi enough.
00:43.6
Wala akong boses.
00:50.7
Traumatic sa'yo yung relationship mo with an actor.
00:53.8
Doon ako na-discredit kasi hindi ko alam kung stable ba tayo.
00:59.0
Hindi mo alam kung anong priorities mo in life.
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Hindi ko alam kung anong priorities niya in life.
01:03.6
May pinagdadaanan ako eh.
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And hindi ko sasabihin na madali.
01:06.5
Kasi mahirap siya.
01:09.6
So you both tried to fix things.
01:12.8
It's so hard to have a heartbreak.
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I mean yes, it teaches you so much.
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Pero napakasakit.
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It's so hard to have a heartbreak.
01:32.6
Dahil kasama natin ngayon,
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siyempre, ang Miss International 2016,
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Miss Kylie Versoza.
01:42.3
Oo, yung iba hindi ka nakakilala na,
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ay nag-Miss International pala si Miss Kylie
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kasi mas kilala ka bilang aktres ngayon.
01:50.5
Sobrang sayo ko mama kasi napalagay ko, feeling ko mas kilala nga ako
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bilang Miss International 2016 kaysa sa aktres.
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And mas prefer ko na mas kilala ako bilang aktres kaysa Miss International.
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Kasi yung alam mo naman ang memorya ng mga tao ngayon.
02:04.6
Pag madalas kang nakikitang umaante, aktres ito.
02:10.4
Yun yung gusto kong, oo, promise.
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Oo, eh yun ang tingin ko sa'yo.
02:15.2
Parang okay na ako.
02:16.4
Kaya na nag-research ako kay Kylie.
02:18.4
Oh my God, Miss International 2016 pala si Miss Kylie.
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Kasi nga, ang tingin ko sa'yo, aktres.
02:23.8
Oh my God, happy na ako.
02:25.6
Pwede na ako umalis.
02:26.6
Thank you so much.
02:28.6
So, naloloka ako, hindi ba?
02:30.8
Ilang taong ka na dito sa showbiz?
02:32.8
Mama, parang 8 pa lang.
02:34.8
Because nanalo ako ng Miss International 2016.
02:42.0
Pero honestly, ano ba talaga yung pangarap mo noon?
02:45.0
Maging artista o maging beauty queen?
02:47.0
Ang pangarap ko talaga noon, maging model.
02:49.6
Kasi lagi nilang sinasabi sa'kin na masyado akong matangkad para mag-TV.
02:54.0
Na walang i-prepare sa'kin.
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So, nag-beauty queen ako.
02:57.4
Pero ang dream ko talaga, maging artista.
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Yan talaga yung dream ko.
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Parang makikita sa TV.
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So, yung mga pangarap ng magulang mo para sa'yo?
03:06.6
Ano, maging beauty queen ka o huwag ka nang mag-showbiz?
03:09.6
At tapusin mo yung kurso mo and then magtrabaho?
03:11.8
I was grateful enough or sobrang swerte ko na yung parents ko.
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Pinapabayaan lang nila ako.
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Pero I'm proud to say na pinalaki ako ng maayos ng magulang ko.
03:20.4
I was raised with a good head.
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Hindi kami mayaman na pamilya.
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Siguro, comfortable.
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And pinalaki ako ng maayos.
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Like proper manners, how to act in public.
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Kung ano lang yung gusto kong gawin.
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Same kami ng mga kapatid ko.
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Ako, pangarap ko talaga was to have my own business.
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Yung parents ko kasi has a small restaurant business in Baguio.
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Actually, nag-close siya during the pandemic.
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And dream ko talaga to have my own business in the future.
03:46.8
So, nung pandemic at Miss International ka na noon,
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ano pinagkaabalahan ni Miss Kylie?
03:51.8
2022, feeling ko doon bumunga yung career ko bilang actress.
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And doon ako nag-focus.
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Nag-focus bilang actor.
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Doon ko nakuha yung mga unang leading roles ko.
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Housemaid role ko.
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Kasama ko si Jacqueline Jose.
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Doon ako medyo nag-start.
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Na-focus yung life ko.
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All I wanted to do was to become a great actress.
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Everyday, yun lang yung iniisip ko.
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I just wanna become a great actress.
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I want to win an award, yun.
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Nagawa ko yun, eventually.
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At sa mga hindi nakakaalam, nung elementary pala, i-Valedictorian ka.
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Yes, Valedictorian ako.
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Actually, medyo nerdy ako nung bata.
04:27.2
School, bahay, school, bahay.
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Pinakabahan ako kapag hindi ko nagagawa ang assignment.
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Hindi ko kaya pumasok ng classroom na wala akong homework.
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Kasi kakabahan ako.
04:36.0
Ang anxiety ako na hindi ko natapos.
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Hindi ako malabas. Hindi ako mainom.
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Hindi ako introvert ako most of my life.
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Ngayon, nababalansi ko, especially sa work natin.
04:46.8
Kaya ko maging extrovert, pero at core...
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Hindi kakakawala sa core mo.
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Oo. Kung core at my very self, to recharge, I need to be by myself.
04:56.0
I need time to reflect. I need time to think about things.
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I need time to analyze.
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Kailangan ko ng time for myself to become a better person.
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Pero, siyempre nasabi mo, nung pag hindi ka nakakagawa ng homework, parang natataranda ka, na-anxiety ka.
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So, the word anxiety, maliit ka pang bata, may anxiety ka na.
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I would say, I always thought about a lot of things.
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Ang daming laman ng utak mo.
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Tapos, hindi mo na alam kung alin ang uunahin.
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I was always such an over-thinker.
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But I do promote mental health.
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Ang advocacy ko is mental health matters.
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Yung dahilan nun was because I went through depression as a very young girl.
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When I was 22, 23, it was the hardest stage of my life.
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Parang, ayoko na magising. Hindi ako makabangon sa bed.
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Iniisip ko na bakit pa ako dito sa mundo.
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Oo. At a very young age.
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And nakapagtapos na ako ah.
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But, it was a very hard stage in my life.
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And, thankful na lang ako na I had a good support group or good people around me.
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Na yung daddy ko, may nakakaintindi sa akin.
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That's why, siya yung nag-lead sa akin to go to therapy.
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Doon ako nag-diagnose.
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Clinically diagnosed ka na?
06:04.0
Clinically diagnosed that I was depressed.
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And then, thankfully, I got over it the natural way.
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I really believe in taking care of yourself holistically.
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Yung hindi lang katawan, pero mentally, spiritually, emotionally, socially.
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Yung alagaan mo yung sarili mo.
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Hindi lang sa isang aspect, pero as a whole.
06:22.0
Kumusta ng mental health ngayon ni Kylie?
06:26.0
I'm at a better place right now.
06:27.4
Parang ayoko nabalikan yung mga 20s ko.
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Ano yun? Yung mga kagagahan days mo?
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Oo. Yung medyo walwal ka pa.
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Parang marami ka pang energy na.
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Pero, we're very anxious.
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Maybe, all you have to do is finish school.
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Yun lang yung madali.
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Kasi, when you're out of school, you have a whole life ahead of you.
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Na, what do I do?
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But, when you're young, all I have to do is finish school.
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Siguro, yun lang yung may risk ko on my 20s.
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Pero, otherwise, magalo yung 20s mo.
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But now, I'm in a much better place.
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I know my values.
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I know what I like and what I don't like.
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I guess that's the beauty of getting older and wiser.
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I would never want to go back.
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And I've learned so many things in the past that made me who I am today.
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Even yung depression.
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Thankful ako na nangyari yun.
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Thankful ako na natalo ako sa Binibining Pilipinas 2016.
07:14.8
Yun talagang parang feeling mo.
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Ayaw mo lumabas sa bahay kasi natalo ka.
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It's sad na you lost.
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Pero, ginamit ko yun as fire to win the next time.
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Pero, hindi ako na-depressed.
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Na-depressed ako before because of a lot of things happening in my life.
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I-LOE ako sa school.
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Unstable relationship.
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Pinakwasyon ko yung sarili ko.
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Ano ba yung gagawin ko sa buhay?
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So, it's a mix of things.
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Pero, ngayon, hindi na siya, kumbaga, ang depression sa'yo ay hindi na sumusumpo?
07:42.8
Or, pag alam mo paparating siya, kailangan mo mag-iba ng ambience?
07:48.6
Kapag alam ko na paparating na siya, mas inaalagaan ko pa yung sarili ko.
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Dito ko na-realize na I'm very sleep sensitive.
07:54.6
Kapag kulang ako sa tulog, hindi ako mentally stable.
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So, pag kulang ka sa tulog, ano usually ang ginagawa niya?
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I'm not my best self.
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Hindi ako nakakaisip ng maayos.
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Hindi ako nakaka-arte ng maayos.
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Hindi ako nakakasagot ng maayos.
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I can't make decisions.
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It's just as simple as getting enough sleep.
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So, sleep is so important.
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O yung diet ko, when I eat healthy food, mas magaan yung pakiramdam ko.
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Kapag mas magaan yung pakiramdam mo, mas...
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You feel good about yourself.
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And when you feel good about yourself, nakikita yun ng ibang tao.
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And mas maganda yung outlook mo in life.
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Mas maganda yung mga relationships mo.
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You feel better about yourself.
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And then your relationships are better.
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So, parang holistic change.
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So, I really take care of my health.
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I have a clean diet.
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Ang important din yung your environment.
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The people you surround yourself with.
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Yung mga tao sa paligid mo, dapat gusto mo at gusto ka.
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Pero kapag hindi ka naman gusto,
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ba't mo pa na sila gusto to be around you?
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So, wala namang kinalaman yung katawan mo sa mental state mo.
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Ano bang bewang mo?
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Parang kai-insecure niya tayo ng mga nanonood sa atin.
09:07.2
Actually, my body, it hasn't been like this all the time.
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Siyempre, tinatago ko siya on the days where I don't feel at my best.
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Pero, inaalagaan ko yung katawan ko.
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I'm very healthy.
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I take care of myself.
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Pinapaghirapan ko yung katawan ko.
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And it's hard work.
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Mahirap i-maintain.
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And when you get older, the harder it is to maintain your body,
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the more you have to take care of yourself.
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And I really, really, really take care of myself.
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And hindi ko sasabihin na madali.
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Kasi mahirap siya.
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Pero proud ako sa katawan ko.
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Mahal ko yung katawan ko.
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And I'm happy about it.
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And I know, mama, in the future, I'm gonna have kids.
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I'm gonna become a mom.
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And my body's not gonna be like this.
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But I'm gonna be proud of my body.
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At sinasamantala mo na ngayong kaseksihan mo.
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Habang wala ka pang family.
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Kasi mukhang hindi ko alam kung 18 o 20 itong bewang mo.
10:00.8
To date, ano siya?
10:04.6
Pero kapag naka-shaper ako, kapag naka-sola ako, nagka-24.
10:08.4
So, malaking tulong para maging ganyan lang kaliit yung katawan mo sa shaper.
10:14.0
Kapag sa body shaper, sa shapewear, nakakalu siya ng 1 to 2 inches right away.
10:20.4
Yung stomach mo mas...
10:21.8
Diba, kapag tayo mga babae, parang nag-exhale tayo, may puso tayo.
10:26.2
Hindi ko na kailangan mag-suck in.
10:28.2
O yung mga fats natin dito.
10:30.0
Oo. So, yung pala secret.
10:31.8
So, kaya yan ang ginawa mong negosyo?
10:34.4
O ano tong negosyo mo?
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Yung negosyo ko is sola.
10:37.4
Ang ibig niya sabihin, dalawang meaning.
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And second, sa Latin, it means a woman who can stand on her own.
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Parang independent woman.
10:47.2
Shapewear siya. Ito yung packaging niya.
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So, yung branding, ginawa ko siya.
10:52.6
Over a year namin siya, prepare mama.
10:54.8
Habang nag-filming ako, habang pinifilm ko yung pendu ko.
10:58.2
Nag-travel ako habang pinifilm ko yung ibang films.
11:00.8
Nag-chitchat ako sa mga partners ko.
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And it comes in 5 different styles, 3 different colors, and 6 different sizes.
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Ayan yung sinusuot mo?
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Yes, ito yung sinusuot ko now.
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And yung size niya, from XS to XXL.
11:15.0
Ang kagandahan niya, one, super compressing siya.
11:18.8
So, kinocompress niya the parts that needs to be compressed.
11:21.8
Yung stomach, yung back fat.
11:23.8
But, at the same time, it lifts at the right area.
11:26.8
So, may ruching dito. So, nakakaangat siya ng boobs.
11:29.8
And sa likod, nakakaangat din siya ng butt.
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Parang it gives you the perfect, hindi naman perfect, pero the best body shape for you.
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Without surgery or anything.
11:41.2
May knowledge ka ba sa pagninegosyo?
11:43.2
Nag-graduate po ako ng business management from Ateneo.
11:47.0
Siyempre, nag-showbiz ako after.
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Hindi ko sasabihin na I know everything about business.
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Kasi, I don't know much about business.
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But, I am learning. Every day, I'm learning.
11:56.0
From the simplest things to yung business namin is e-commerce.
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Shopee, Lazada, TikTok.
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From fulfillment, supply chain, from customer service, to marketing, social media, financials.
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Lahat yun inaaral ko.
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Pero, I try to surround myself with people, yung mga mentor ko.
12:13.0
And, nagbabasa ako ng mga libro.
12:15.0
So, marunong ka rin mag-online selling?
12:17.0
Yes! Nagla-live sell ako!
12:20.0
Hindi ako machika.
12:21.8
So, naihiya ka minsan?
12:23.2
Hindi naman ako nahihiya minsan.
12:24.6
Siguro, natanggal yung hiya ko from showbiz.
12:27.0
Kasi, wala kang mapupuntahan kapag mahihiya ka.
12:30.6
Pero, nag-live selling ako.
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Kasi, two months pa lang kami.
12:33.6
Pero, nag-live selling.
12:36.4
Nag-sold out kami nung live streaming.
12:40.0
Marketer, founder, live seller.
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Anyway, advocate ka ng mental health, Kylie.
12:47.2
In the past ba, yung younger years mo, wala namang trauma sa'yo?
12:51.8
Ano naman napunta sa depression?
12:54.2
Yung reason siguro kung bakit ako na-depressed.
12:57.6
Mix siya ng iba-ibang things.
12:59.2
Nag-LOE ako sa school.
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Hindi ko nakasabay yung mga friends ko or yung classmates ko.
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Pero, hindi enough.
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They only see me as myself.
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But, they don't see me as me.
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Wala akong boses.
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Yun yung feeling ko bilang isang modelo.
13:18.8
Siguro, yung shame also.
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Baka hindi ako makapagtapos dahil nag-LOE ako from school.
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Mix siya ng different things or unstable yung relationship ko.
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Actually, ang number one cause ng depression for younger kids is their love life.
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So, at what age ka nagkaroon ng love life?
13:38.2
So, late bloomer ka?
13:41.4
Kasi nag-college ako ng 15.
13:43.4
Ah, 15? College ka na. Hindi naman.
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15, 16. Pero, maaga din ako.
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Ibig sabihin, traumatic sa'yo.
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Yung first relationship mo?
13:51.8
Siguro, yung relationship ko when I was going through depression, doon ako na-discredit.
13:57.4
Kasi hindi ko alam kung stable ba to o hindi.
14:00.4
Hindi mo alam kung anong priorities mo in life?
14:02.6
Hindi ko alam kung anong priorities niya in life.
14:06.8
Kasi ako sure ako, pero ikaw sure ka ba?
14:10.4
At 15, naiisig mo na yan kung anong mga priorities mo?
14:13.4
Hindi, na-depress ako nung mga 23 after college.
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Yung mga relationships ko, super long relationships.
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So, hindi naman may kukonsider na traumatic yung relationship mo with an actor.
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I wouldn't say it's traumatic.
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I would say, part siya ng life that I really learned from, that I appreciated,
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and that piling ko na kailangan namin both pagdaanan.
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Happy ako where I am now, and I'm so happy where he is now.
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And I only wish him the best.
14:40.0
Kasi, yun nga eh, habang tinitingnan ko kayo ng ganyan, sabi ko, magtagal kaya sila?
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Kasi naglilibin na kayo.
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At least sa experience mo, yung mga ganyan na experiences mo,
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ako next time hindi na ako mag-i-immerse sa ganun ulit.
14:54.2
Sa palagay ko, in each breakup, may tatututunan ka about yourself and about kung ano ang gusto mo sa next relationship.
15:02.0
So, from that breakup, mas marami akong natutunan kung ano ba talaga yung gusto ko para sa sarili ko.
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Ano ba talaga yung hinahanap ko sa isang relationship.
15:10.6
Marami akong natutunan.
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Pero, marami din akong natutunan from the relationship.
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That I didn't know I needed.
15:16.8
That I didn't know.
15:18.0
That made me who I am today.
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I'm very happy with it.
15:21.8
I was happy with the relationship and I'm happy the way things turned out.
15:25.8
Hindi ako ma-vent sa social media.
15:27.8
Ahh! Hindi ka pala sumbong. Hindi ka pala rant.
15:31.8
Hindi ako maganun eh.
15:32.8
Kasi, I think personal issues should be resolved in person and between two people.
15:37.8
I don't see the point where it's supposed to be shared with other people because there's no point in sharing something that problematic.
15:45.4
Problems should be solved in person between two people.
15:48.4
Especially if it's a very private matter.
15:50.4
Yun namang pinost nung isa eh, kung makapagpapaalam ng maayos.
15:55.4
Hindi naman pagraran.
15:57.4
So, wala kang post nun. Dead maka. Ang galing mo naman.
16:01.4
Ang galing mo naman magdala.
16:03.4
Siyempre, behind everything, behind closed doors, yun na ako nang ka-breakdown.
16:07.4
Yun ko nang nilalabas lahat. Days, months.
16:11.4
Hindi ko nang siya pinapakita. Kasi...
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Dahil lang, kumbaga meron kang responsibilidad sa audience mo.
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Kailangan kita lang yung ako happy.
16:17.2
Hindi lang responsibilidad sa audience ko.
16:20.2
Kasi, wala naman akong feeling na ganun na I should be like this and I should be like that.
16:24.2
May pinagdadaanan ako eh. So, gusto ko na hayaan ko muna yung sarili ko na I'll go through it myself.
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Kasi hindi ko pa alam kung ano yung gusto kong gawin.
16:32.2
Sure ba ako? Papanimigan ko ba ito? Kaya ko ba ito?
16:35.2
May pinagdadaanan ako na ayoko pa ipakita sa tao na baka hindi pa ako ready.
16:40.2
Na gusto ko na isolve ko muna on my own.
16:43.2
Before going out and showing people or telling people.
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Ako yung type na gusto ko to sit down, relax and think about things muna.
16:52.2
When you get too much inputs, makamasway yung utak mo.
16:55.2
The relationship happened between you two. So, who best to fix the problem but you two?
17:01.2
Kasi kayong dalawa lang yung may alam what happened between the relationship.
17:05.2
So, you both tried to fix things.
17:08.2
But, yun nga. In the end, hindi rin nag-prosper yung pag-fix.
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At least, tinryin nyo. Pero, siyempre, sabi nila sa relasyon daw, it takes two to tango.
17:18.2
Hindi isa lang ang may kasalanan pa rin. Naniniwala ka to?
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Of course. There are always two sides to every story.
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And mama, yung mga pinag-uusapan ko ngayon, I'm not just talking about my previous relationship.
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But, I can also be talking about, let's say, a relationship I've had.
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So, hindi lang siya about the past relationship.
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The past. The summary of all of your relationship.
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The summary of relationships.
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Wow! Parang napakadami ah!
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Pwede lang naman!
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Oo, siyempre. Ang ganda-ganda ko.
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Maa na lang ako mapaisip.
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Pero, nakakatuwa dyan, ano. Diba sabi nila, ikaw daw ay nakakaranas ng mga heartaches at nakakabangon ka.
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Leso na yun sa'yo. Tapos, nagmamarka na yan sa puso at utak mo na. Never again.
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Feeling ko ang heartache is one of the biggest teachers in life.
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Nagiging bagong tao ka. Nagka-catalyst yung buhay mo. Parang either you go forward or you go backward.
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Pero, choice mo yun. Ako, I would prefer to go forward.
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Pero, mas nagiging, parang sinashed off mo yung your old self and trying to become a new one.
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Kaya, nagbo-bloom mo yung mga girls kapag single. Diba?
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Pero, it's one of the greatest, hindi ko naman masasabi na greatest things that you can have. Kasi, napakahirap.
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It's also one of the most hardest things that a person can go through. But, it will teach you so much.
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Sana ako mama, hindi na ako magka-heartbreak ever. Kasi...
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Ayoko na. Ayoko na magka-heartbreak.
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Bakit ganun ang pagod mo?
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Pagod mo lang. It's so hard to have a heartbreak. I mean, yes, it teaches you so much. Pero, napakasakit.
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Yeah. Madalas ba?
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Every time you have a relationship, tapos ang ending din, dun lagi. Di humahaba ang relasyon.
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Ang mga relationship ko, mahaba. Three years, four years.
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Tapos, sa ilang relationships mo, diba dapat natututo ka na? O nangyayari pa rin sa susunod na relasyon?
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Iba-ibang rason naman. Pero, I guess it also comes with yung maturity ng guy. Handa ba yung guy to commit?
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Handa ka ba to commit?
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You got the same face in your life? Pareho ba yung goals nyo in life? Yung dream the same?
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Diba dapat? May competition ba sa relationship nyo? Same ba kayo ng dreams and goals?
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Yun ang pahangitan. Yung nakikipag-compete yung isa.
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Hindi ko yun gusto.
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Tapos, nai-insecure dun sa kapartner niya. Na ang taas mo na, tapos ako ang dito pa rin.
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Hindi ko yun gusto. Kasi...
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Nangyayari na sa'yo? Na imbis na supportive yung isa eh, nai-insecure pa.
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I've always been in a supportive relationship.
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Yun naman yung thankful ako.
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Super supportive. So magaan lang sa pakiramdam.
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But, nag-i-end up, makaya as friends?
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I don't believe exes should be friends.
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Ako, baka tumasangkilay ng iba. Bakit naman hindi pwedeng maging kaibigan ng ex? Meron naman kayong pinagsamahan.
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Respeto din sa bago mong partner.
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At sa bago niyang partner.
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At sa bago niyang partner. Ako, you can be civil. Pero hindi kayo yung nakikipag-usap.
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Hi, how are you? Kamusta ka na? To me, medyo weird yun. Pero, you can be civil.
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Pwede, you don't have any...
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bad feelings against each other. But, I don't think there should still be a friendship. Kasi, bakit pa?
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Pero, siyempre, yung iba, eh, na-overcome ko na yan. Nag-get over na ako.
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So, next phase namin, friends ano kami? Adi, pagtatawanan na lang namin ng nakaraan.
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Actually, iba kasi yung sakit. Kasi, matagal. Natagal yung relationship.
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So, 5 years, baka engaged na kayo. Friends pa kayo. Tapos, naghiwalay pa kayo. Parang, ha? Weird.
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Pero, kung siguro, mabilis lang or it's just like a quick relationship. Sure, you can become friends.
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Why not? Right? But, if it is a long relationship, a committed relationship, and you're talking about the future,
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diba? The span of the relationship has passed. You can be okay with one another. But, there's no need to talk to one another.
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When you see each other, okay, fine. It's okay to talk. But, no need to.
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Pero, yung experience mo ng live-in, hindi mo na itatry next time? Because, malaki na tutunan mo.
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It would depend on the guy. I've been very independent and I've been living out of home since I was 15.
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Ah, talaga? Wala na ako sa bahay at 15. Grabe! Inalaw ka ng parents mo?
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I come from Baguio and I wanted to study in Manila. Syempre, mahirap yun para sa family ko, sa daddy ko, na pabayaan his first daughter na mag-aral.
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Panganay pa? Panganay. Pero, dream ko talaga was to go to the big city and that was Manila. Dream ko talaga yun.
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Parang, alam ko na I won't stay here. I love Baguio but I feel like I won't stay here. So, pinabayaan ako. So, at 15, I was already on my own.
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At 17, nag-model na ako. I was financially independent. And, noong patapos na ng college, ginamit ko yung pera na in-earn ko from modeling to pay for my last sem.
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Talaga? Sa school. Para lang ma-prove ko din sa sarili ko na okay naman tong modeling ah. Okay naman tong trabaho ko.
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Oo. Kaya alam mo yung value ng pera. Oo. Kasi hard-earned yung iyo. Yes. At saka, I think I handle my finances well.
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Ngayon, hindi na nakakaba-kaba ang parents mo? Hindi. At what age mo na ramdaman na?
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Mga okay na yung parents ko. Hindi na sila kinakabahan sa akin.
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Mga achievements ko in life. Noong nag-graduate ako ng college, sumali ako ng Binibining Pilipinas. Kahit natalo ako, andun pa rin sila. Proud sila.
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Super cute. Nanalo ako ng Binibining Pilipinas. Yun yung mga moments na happy ako dahil napapasaya ko sila. Kapag proud sila sa'kin, dun ako masaya.
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Noong nanalo ako ng Miss International, nung bahay pa yung lolo ko, happy ako kapag masaya sila. Dun ko sila nakikita na masaya when I have my achievements.
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But not to say na hindi sila proud sa'kin.
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All the time. Pero happy ako kapag napapasaya ko sila.
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Anong mga words coming from them ang madalas mong maingi?
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I'm so proud of you. Actually, naiiyak ako kapag sinasabi ko yun kasi. I'm so proud of you. I love you. I miss you. Ganun.
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Baka hindi lang nila sinasabi na baka pwedeng umuwi ka naman sa atin. Baka naiiya lang silang magsabi.
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Alam naman nila na yung buhay ko nasa Manila. Kung wala ako sa Manila, I wouldn't be doing the things I'm doing now.
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But proud sila sa'kin. And happy din ako na I have four other siblings na doon pa rin sa Baguio na they're doing so well.
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At least kasama pa rin nila yung parents ninyo. Diba? Sila yung malapit kay mami at daddy.
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Sila yung malapit kay daddy. And yung other kapatid ko, kasal na siya sa Korea. So happy ako.
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How you wish buhay pa yung lolo? Yung lolo mo na unang naniwala sa'yo?
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Ang pageant ko ng Miss International.
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Namipad pa siya from the Philippines to Japan para lang panuorin yung pageant ko.
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Tapos nung nanalo ako, barang happy ako na nakita niya ako na nanalo ko.
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Yung lolo ko yung breadwinner nung family ko. And siya yung parang nagbigay ng buhay sa amin.
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Siya actually yung nagpa-aaral sa'kin sa school kasi hindi na-afford ng parents ko.
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Kasi kapat pa yung kailangan mag-aaralin. And I wanted to study in Manila and it was a bit expensive.
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So siya yung hinapitan ko para mag-aaral sa atin eh.
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So hindi mo makakalimutan yung lolo mo?
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Oo. Kahit medyo strict siya. Pero yun yung hindi ko alam. May something sa generation na napaka strict and loving in a way na hindi mo maintindihan.
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So kung nabubuhay pa ang lolo mo ngayon, super proud sa'yo yun ngayon. Sa nararating mo ngayon sana.
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So at this point, seeing someone, di ba laging may ganun yun? Kung meron kang dinidate ngayon
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o meron kang boyfriend ngayon, sana siya na. Lagi ka bang ganun?
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Kapag mag-date ako ng someone, hindi siya for the short time. Gusto ko for the long time na. Forever na.
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Kasi bakit ka ba makikipag-date kung alam mo, oh hanggang January lang to. Or ka bang March lang to. Or oh six months lang to. Di ba?
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Pero wag na. Sa'yo naman yung oras mo. Di ba? Parang what for?
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A relationship is supposed to add value to your life to make you a better person.
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Make you learn things. Ako gusto ko ganun yung marami akong natututunan sa partner ko. Para I become a better person.
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Ano yung question niya?
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Ano yung inayaan lang kita?
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Oh anyway, ayan. So you're seeing someone at present. Buti wala yung mga ano, kunwari meron kang ginagawang pelikula.
25:23.2
Katulad nitong Elevator with Paolo Avellino. Wala bang mga ganun pag-ihipit? May kising-sing ba kayo dyan? May mga selos-selos?
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Napaka-supportive niya sa career ko. Naiintindihan niya na party yun ang trabaho ko. Super supportive siya and happy ako.
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Siyempre, since elevator na rin ang pinag-uusapan, ba't yun ang title?
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Elevator yung title dahil yung movie nangyayari sa loob ng isang elevator.
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And si Paolo, ang karakter niya, isang elevator boy na may idea siya, may app siya na pinipitch sa mga mayayamang investor.
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Na sumasakay na elevator.
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Na sumasakay sa elevator. May nakilala siyang mayamang na investor.
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Pero pinasa yung project sa akin. Pinasa sa akin sa assistant niya na girlfriend niya.
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Ah, girlfriend ka din nung ano?
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Girlfriend ako nung investor. So magka-clash kami, isa-try niya. Ganun yung story.
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So mangyayari yung kabuoan ng movie sa loob ng elevator.
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Fun siya. Hindi siya rom-com pero marami kang matututunan.
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And yung maganda dun, story siya ng dalawang OFW. So mahagip natin yung mga struggle ng OFW.
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Ano yung mga pinagdadaanan nila. Makita din natin yung ibang cultures, Singaporean, Malaysian na to get together.
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Dahil lahat, it's a story of two OFWs.
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At kayong dalawa yun ni Paolo?
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Kaming dalawa yun ni Paolo.
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Okay. So kinunan ito sa?
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Walang shot dito?
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Mostly in Singapore. Nag studio shoot kami dito sa Manila. Mostly in Singapore.
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Kumusta si Paolo bilang katrabaho?
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Tapakabait. Very professional. Very quiet. What you see is what you get. Ready siya lang.
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Buti hindi ka na-fall kay Paolo.
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I don't think you should fall. We are just working. And I appreciate yung professionalism that he gives.
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We actually barely talk on set kapag scene na lang. Pero mas prefer ko that way dahil mas nakaka-focus ako sa eksena.
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Mas gusto ko yung ganun kaysa sa sobrang madaldal na mas mabigat yung scene. Yung parang eh wait lang may kailangan pa akong gawin. May kailangan pa akong umiyak.
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Huwag na akong kausapin. We both respect each other's space. We have a very good working dynamic.
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Pero hindi ka ba natitense dahil ang lakas ng Kim Pao kesa sa Pao Kai?
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Actually, paano ko ng Kim Pao?
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So nanonood ka rin ng What's Wrong or ng Lin Lang?
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What's Wrong. Pero nakaagit ko yung Lin Lang. Nakikita ko yung mga video nila online. Kinikilig lang ako. Wala lang. And hindi ako madaling makilig ha.
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Kinikilig lang ako. And friend ko si Kim. Friend ko si Pao.
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Kinikilig ako sa kanila. Cute. Parang iba yung spark. Iba yung shine.
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Actually, inaasar ko nga si Pao eh. Joy. Keep it together.
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Wala ba inaangin?
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So, ayun nga. Parang nagkakaroon ng competition yan. Siyempre, bilang pelikula naman yung inyo at teleserye naman yung kanila ni Kim Chiu.
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Anong assurance na kahit anong gawin ni Paolo ay patok kahit pa sino ang kapartner niya?
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Yung Pao Kai o yung Paolo Kylie.
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Hindi na movie. Hindi ka ba kinakabahan? Ako sana kahit ang Kim Pao, supportahan din yung movie namin.
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Actually, sana Kim Pao supportahin nyo po yung movie namin. Dahil mahal ko kayo. Fan talaga ako ng Kim Pao. Sana supportahan nyo po yung movie namin ni Paolo.
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Please, thank you. Maganda talaga siya.
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Kasi baka isipin ng ibang fans na baka mawala atensyon ni Paolo kay Kim dahil andyan si Kylie.
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Logistics wise, tapos na naman i-film yung movie.
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Nag-promo na kami. Halos hindi pa namin nakikita yung isa't isa. Hindi kami nag-text.
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Ang text namin ni Paolo, happy birthday, happy birthday, happy birthday, happy birthday.
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Oh my God. Yun lang.
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Super friends lang talaga kami. Pero sana lalo na po ang Kim Pao family.
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Sana po manood kayo ng Elevator starring po ako at ang pinakamahal niyo, Paolo Avellino.
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This April 24 in cinemas nationwide. A film written and directed by Philip King by Rain.
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With entertainment and Viva Phelps.
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Please, thank you so much.
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Ayan. Okay. So anong maipapayo ni Kylie sa mga kabataan pagdating sa relationship since medyo ikaw ay nagdaan na sa ilang nasyon?
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Choose wisely. The person that you are with and if you decide that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with
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will dictate kung ano ang mangyayari sa buhay niyo from that moment on. So choose wisely.
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So don't, especially to the younger ones, don't be in a rush to fall in love, to find the right one.
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Because bata pa kayo and there are so many things you still need to discover about yourself, about life, about your loved ones.
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Don't be in a rush to find someone, to find your partner because it will come in the right place and in the right time.
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And you never know when you're not looking. So choose wisely. It will come. Work on yourself first.
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