00:23.1
Hindi mo natatanong yan.
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Mabilis ako magtiwala.
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Kasi hindi nga ako makuwenta.
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So that's something I learned.
00:29.3
Pero kung wala, responsibilidad yan ng magulang.
00:32.5
So kailangan pag-usapan ng mag-asawa.
00:34.5
O sige, meron kakayod.
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Pero meron dapat talagang mahitiwan sa bata.
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Hindi pwedeng wala.
00:40.5
Kasi sa'yo magagabay dun sa bata kung wala yung magulang niya.
00:44.9
May kasabihan niya na may mahalaga kung anong nangyayari sa buhay.
00:48.3
Ang mahalaga kung anong ginawa mo sa pangyayari sa buhay.
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At nalagi may mangyayari sa buhay mo.
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I mean, sana nga hindi.
00:55.3
Sana pwede natin planuhin na sobra siya.
00:58.3
So, cruise control na wala ka nang kailangan gawin.
01:00.7
Parang sit back and relax ka na lang and enjoy the ride, di ba?
01:04.0
But it doesn't happen that way.
01:06.1
Find something that you love and you enjoy doing.
01:09.8
And you get paid for what you're doing.
01:13.6
This is Chinky Tan, your Pambansang World Coach.
01:15.9
At sa episode natin na ito, makakasama natin ng isang lodi.
01:20.3
Pagdating po sa broadcasting.
01:24.9
Huwag na natin patagalin.
01:26.3
Let's welcome si Ms. Bernadette.
01:30.4
I'm Chinky Tan's driver for the day.
01:32.7
Yeah, grabe sosyalin.
01:34.0
Talagang napaka-bless ko naman na ika nga eh.
01:38.1
Ang driver ko eh, napakaganda.
01:45.6
Sana ko meron rin kayong matutunan sa kwento ko.
01:47.9
Kasi alam ko ang dami-dami pong natutulungan ni Chinky Tan.
01:50.8
Problemang pera, problemang pamilya po yan.
01:53.9
So, umpisa na natin.
01:54.9
Bernadette, a lot of people know you sa broadcaster.
01:58.3
But we want to know kung ano ba yung background ng isang Bernadette Sembrano.
02:02.8
Paano ba kayo nagpumpisa?
02:04.0
Ano ba yung background ng family?
02:05.2
I grew up in Fairview.
02:06.9
Both my parents are bankers.
02:13.6
So, nung panahon na yun, parang probinsya yung Fairview eh.
02:18.7
Wala pang tricycle nun sa amin.
02:20.3
Susundu ko si mama sa pagdadating na yung shuttle ng bank.
02:27.9
ang kasama ko rin sa bahay, dahil both of them were working,
02:31.1
madalas kasambahay.
02:32.8
So, alam ko yung mga usot ng mga sayaw,
02:35.1
pati mga pampaputi.
02:36.7
At nakikinig ako ng radyo,
02:38.4
dahil mga kasama ko kasambahay,
02:39.8
naririnig ko pampaputi ng kilikili,
02:42.8
lahat na binapangga sa radyo.
02:46.4
Yun yung environment.
02:48.0
Pero, mahilig rin ako pumunta sa mga bahay na kapitbahay.
02:51.8
Nangangapit bahay ka rin.
02:54.2
Kasi, masarap yung umlam sa kapitbahay.
02:57.9
So, pretty much, may dalawang kuya.
03:00.2
Yung dalawang kuya.
03:03.1
Maraming bawal yung bata ako, kasi babae ako.
03:06.6
Dahil babae daw ako.
03:07.9
So, nasa kwarto lang ako palagi.
03:09.5
Diary, sulat, ganyan.
03:12.4
minsan telebabad.
03:14.2
So, hindi ako masyado nakakalabas,
03:16.2
dahil only girl nga ako,
03:18.9
Pero, bunsu rin ako.
03:20.3
At buntot naman kay mama.
03:21.6
So, pretty much yan yung
03:23.4
paano ako lumaki.
03:24.8
Pero, sa isang pamilya kasi,
03:26.1
hindi naman naiiwasan yung mga,
03:29.3
pagdating sa pera.
03:30.5
I don't know kung naniniwala ka,
03:35.0
pinalaki nung bata pa,
03:36.5
pag tungkol sa pera,
03:37.6
nakakapekto kung anong pananaw mo sa buhay ngayon.
03:41.1
ano yung naging exposure mo,
03:43.1
when it comes to money,
03:44.9
Yung pwede kong sabihin,
03:46.3
syempre hindi ka,
03:47.2
yung pwede, bakit?
03:48.4
Malaki, para sa akin,
03:50.4
yung perception ng lipunan,
03:53.2
sa ano ba ang role ng babae at lalaki.
03:55.8
Siguro, nung unang panahon,
03:57.9
kung hanggang ngayon,
03:59.2
mag-message nga kayo,
04:00.6
kung ganyan din kayo.
04:01.7
Dati, ang sinasabi,
04:03.1
pag babae sa bahay,
04:06.8
ikaw ang breadwinner.
04:08.4
So, parang feeling ko,
04:10.1
dapat tanungin natin,
04:11.4
kung naniniwala ba tayo,
04:15.5
baka noon pwede yun,
04:16.7
dahil baka mas maginhawa naman yung buhay,
04:18.7
pero sa panahon ngayon,
04:20.1
yun ba dapat tayo mag-isip,
04:21.8
lalo na kung iniisip natin,
04:23.4
e para sa pamilya.
04:24.5
You go back to family,
04:26.0
anong kailangan ng family,
04:27.1
anong opportunities,
04:27.9
meron para sa pamilya,
04:29.0
hindi na yung ikaw,
04:30.5
hindi na yung ako.
04:34.1
Pabalik tayo sa goal,
04:35.2
ano bang goal ng pamilya,
04:37.2
kumitawang buhay,
04:38.1
as long as it can achieve that,
04:39.6
kahit sinong siguro,
04:44.7
kung naniniwala ako,
04:45.8
hindi naman yung magbilangan,
04:47.5
yan ang pinakamahirap,
04:51.0
pag nagpwentahan tayo,
04:53.7
and pag nagkulang,
04:54.8
kahanap ka ng magpupuno.
04:56.6
I don't think it works that way.
05:00.0
boy, kailangan ko ng tulong dito,
05:02.0
magtulungan tayo,
05:03.0
kung anong strength nung isa,
05:07.9
ikaw, natuwa ako,
05:09.3
lalabas rin pala si Chinky sa vlog natin,
05:11.3
pero ang sinabi mo,
05:14.3
yung may oras ka para sa pamilya mo,
05:16.3
importante para sa akin,
05:18.5
na merong oras tayo para sa pamilya natin.
05:21.8
dahil sa realidad ng buhay,
05:24.8
parehong nagtatrabaho yung mga magulang,
05:27.9
Pero kung may isa namang magulang,
05:30.1
o sabihin mo ng kamag-anak,
05:31.8
ang pwedeng mag-stay with the child,
05:34.1
para magabayan yung bata sa kanyang paglaki,
05:37.7
kung may lola, may tita,
05:39.1
na maayos nagagabay.
05:41.7
responsibilidad yan ng magulang,
05:43.5
so kailangan pag-usapan ng mag-asawa,
05:47.2
pero meron dapat talagang mahiiwan sa bata.
05:49.9
Hindi pwedeng wala.
05:52.5
Kasi sinong magagabay dun sa bata
05:54.2
kung wala yung magulang niya.
05:55.9
Tsaka yung maganda yung sinabi mo,
05:58.0
na yung sa relasyon kasi,
06:01.4
nagkakaroon ng frustration in a relationship
06:04.0
kung meron kang tinatawag na expectation.
06:07.1
Yung expectation,
06:08.1
ay, in-expect ko,
06:11.4
ay, hinahanap mo katulong.
06:13.3
Pero hindi asawa.
06:15.3
Tapos in-expect mo sa asawa mo,
06:16.8
ay, dapat ganito ba?
06:18.3
So, ang dapat siguro,
06:20.1
based on what I've just heard from you,
06:22.4
hindi dapat ang goal natin
06:23.8
sa relationship is expectation.
06:25.9
Dapat ang goal natin sa relationship
06:27.6
must be contribution.
06:30.4
Anong may hambog ko?
06:33.6
ano yung makukuha ko?
06:35.5
makafrustrate ka talaga.
06:39.0
like for example,
06:40.4
pakikuha naman ako isang,
06:42.0
may painit na kape,
06:43.8
Tapos hindi kinukuha.
06:46.7
Trapaho ng babae yun.
06:49.3
Ay, paano kung pagod din siya?
06:51.8
So, parang siguro,
06:52.9
ang blessing sa amin niya,
06:55.9
orange yung name naman yan,
06:57.2
para hindi ka naman gagrabe sa orange.
06:59.3
Dalawang babae naman siya sa pamilya,
07:02.9
napapangitnaan ng dalawang babae.
07:09.2
sanay akong may lalaki sa buhay.
07:10.8
Sanay siyang may babae sa buhay.
07:12.5
May ate, may batang.
07:13.8
May ate kang susundin,
07:14.8
may bunsukang pagbibigyan.
07:20.8
So, parang hindi si asawa na insecure
07:23.8
Kasi sigurang hindi rin nakikita
07:25.0
ng mga tao sa akin.
07:26.3
Mukhang hin-hin-hin-hin ko.
07:27.9
Pero parang may pagka-bruce ko din talaga ako.
07:31.5
the things that I enjoy
07:32.4
are medyo may pagka-masculine.
07:36.5
although puro saling-pusa lang.
07:37.9
Pwede ko kasi kasama.
07:41.5
sana sinama ako sa paglaro.
07:44.0
Sana sinama ako sa at least,
07:47.3
I guess yun na rin yung gusto mong i-break rin.
07:50.5
babae kasi ako sa loob lang ako ng kwarto.
07:53.6
ang naging mabuti naman doon,
07:55.5
mas nag-aral ako,
07:56.8
mas nagsusunat ako.
07:58.2
Kasi wala naman ako ng choice eh.
08:00.6
Nalala ako kalaro na babae.
08:02.6
Sige, let's go to the ano naman.
08:05.1
because of yun nga,
08:06.6
hindi pagkakaunawaan,
08:08.2
naging nagkahiwalayan,
08:10.7
you were part of a broken family.
08:15.2
I was 13 years old.
08:20.5
The turning point ng buhay mo.
08:22.3
Nalilito na rin ako kung ano yung age.
08:25.6
Tsaka, crucial yan.
08:27.1
Ngayon na naisip ko,
08:28.3
crucial yan sa lahat ng teenagers.
08:31.5
nalala ko kasi sinabi ng mama,
08:33.4
huwag mong sisirain yung buhay mo.
08:35.2
Gusto kong mag-rebelde rin doon.
08:37.5
Parang hindi mo ma-imagine na,
08:42.2
Ano kayong rebelde, no?
08:43.3
Pero, parang naisip ko,
08:45.1
parang paggalit ka sa parents mo,
08:46.5
it will hurt them really,
08:48.1
kapag naging pariwara ka.
08:50.9
you know where it will hurt your parents,
08:53.6
di ba, syempre, masakit sa'yo.
08:55.1
Sige, hindi ko gagawin yung sinasabi mo.
08:58.1
yung naging ambag niya sa akin,
09:00.1
sinabi ko rin kay mama to.
09:02.7
binigay niya lahat talaga sa amin.
09:06.2
I could have grown up to be a spoiled brat.
09:10.1
So, parang yung notion na kailangan ko ayusin yung buhay ko.
09:12.7
So, kailangan mag-aral ako mabuti.
09:14.6
Kasi, wala akong ibang aasahan.
09:17.3
Pero, yung totoo naman,
09:18.2
na alam kong palagi na dyan,
09:19.5
yung pamilya para sa akin.
09:21.3
Nung naghiwalay si mama at papa,
09:23.2
parang ang naging biyaya sa akin,
09:25.3
natuto akong tumayo
09:27.3
at paniwalain sa sarili ko na
09:29.6
I have to study hard
09:31.1
kasi wala akong ibang aasahan kundi ang sarili ko.
09:33.9
That was the bubog rin.
09:35.4
And that was the yabang rin rin.
09:37.7
Dahil nasaktan ka.
09:39.2
Pero, yung totoo,
09:41.6
never naman ako naging on my own.
09:43.9
Ako ang nagtatrabaho.
09:46.1
But, that is not true.
09:48.7
yung palagi naman,
09:49.4
nandyan si na mama.
09:50.4
Hindi nga ako humihingi ng tulong.
09:52.0
But, they're always there for me.
09:53.4
The mere fact na ina-adjust nila yung schedule nila
09:56.3
para makasama ako,
09:57.9
that's your family being there for you.
10:00.5
And, minsan gusto mo lang isipin
10:02.2
na I did it on my own.
10:05.0
But, no one can do it on their own.
10:08.9
parang you reach a maturity in your life na,
10:12.9
di mo naman talaga kaya mag-isa.
10:14.6
May mga tumulong sa'yo.
10:15.8
At, maraming tumulong sa'yo.
10:18.2
every successful person,
10:19.6
no matter how inspiring they are,
10:22.3
we should be humble enough
10:23.7
na dapat marunong tayong tumanaw ng utang na loob.
10:26.9
At, una mong tatanawa ng utang na loob,
10:31.2
hindi man perfecto,
10:34.5
I mean, lahat naman tayo,
10:36.1
while we're still trying to figure out
10:38.7
how to be good human beings.
10:40.4
And, I don't think there's anybody perfect.
10:43.2
at least yung magulang na alam ko,
10:44.9
I know that they want the best for us.
10:48.2
Yung kahit na best,
10:50.4
pero minsan yung process
10:53.5
hindi natin masisisi.
10:56.3
Wala namang eskwelahan na nagturo sa kanila.
10:58.5
Kaya sabi ko nga sa'yo,
10:59.8
vibes na vibes ko,
11:01.6
mahalang magulang ka.
11:03.7
Ikaw bang mabait ka sa pili?
11:07.2
di lang rin yung ano ko.
11:10.1
I'm sure may nakikinig
11:12.0
at nanonood ngayon,
11:13.2
na from a broken family.
11:16.0
So, anong masasabi mo naman sa kanila?
11:18.0
Kung sila ay naging biktima
11:20.3
ng isang broken family?
11:21.7
Hindi ko alam kung tatawagin ko pang biktima.
11:26.0
parang yun rin yung pala,
11:27.6
mas isang mga content ko,
11:29.3
nakagawa pa ako kanta,
11:31.4
Lahat tayo may bubog.
11:32.9
Na parang meron tayong ideal family.
11:36.3
But aksasabihin ko,
11:37.8
there's no such thing as an ideal family.
11:41.6
Even a family that seems so perfect,
11:44.5
lahat yan may imperfection.
11:48.0
Oo, and yung tinuro mo lang
11:50.4
kanina sa discussion natin,
11:51.6
huwag mo i-cocompare yung pamilya mo sa iba.
11:53.9
Dahil may kanya-kanyang dynamics at proseso
11:57.4
tayo sa sarili natin at ang ating pamilya
12:00.1
na dapat unawain mo
12:01.6
and how to make it work as a family.
12:03.6
Of course, may mga peg ka,
12:05.0
inspirations, sana, ganyan.
12:07.0
Pero iba yung pamilya mo eh.
12:09.0
Yung isang tao na figuring out
12:11.0
your own personality
12:13.0
is already complicated.
12:14.3
Eh yung dynamics pa ng family,
12:16.3
parang ang masalimuan,
12:17.9
yung ba na-blog na kanya.
12:19.9
So I don't want to call myself a victim.
12:21.9
Nandun na ako sa puntong,
12:23.9
dati siguro I would say,
12:24.9
victima. Parang, Oh ho,
12:26.8
Kasi palagi kayo may magagawa eh.
12:28.4
Yun yung sitwasyon mo.
12:30.8
Ba't Di ba, yun yung sitwasyon mo.
12:33.3
Parang ano eh, yung may kasabihan nga na
12:35.7
hindi mahalaga kung anong nangyayari sa buhay mo.
12:37.7
Ang mahalaga kung anong ginawa mo
12:39.7
sa pangyayari sa buhay mo.
12:41.6
At palaging may mangyayari sa buhay mo.
12:43.6
I mean, sana nga hindi eh sana pwede natin planuhin na sobra siyang,
12:47.9
na wala ka nang kailangan gawin.
12:49.3
Parang sit back and relax ka na lang
12:51.2
and enjoy the ride, di ba?
12:52.6
But it doesn't happen that way.
12:54.7
Na parang sabi nga ni asawa sa akin,
12:56.7
something will always go wrong,
12:58.2
sometimes, kaya yan.
12:59.2
Pero it's how you deal with it.
13:01.6
And it is how it is, di ba?
13:03.6
Parang, at maraming bagay sa mundo,
13:06.0
hindi natin kontrolado.
13:07.4
Ikaw, ano yung nakaka-stress sa bukid?
13:09.6
Nabibigay ng stress sa'yo?
13:10.9
Pag merong may sakit,
13:12.2
yun, that really stresses me out.
13:14.4
So, how do you handle it?
13:16.6
Panalangin talaga.
13:19.4
importante yung surrender.
13:22.1
Yung alam mo gagawin mo,
13:23.4
pero at the end of the day,
13:24.3
alam mo wala kang power.
13:25.5
At feeling ko yun yung grasya.
13:28.1
gawin mo assignment mo,
13:30.9
North, pwede bang,
13:32.8
sana, sana, sana.
13:34.3
Pero matapos ang araw,
13:35.9
alam mo hindi naman lahat temporary.
13:38.7
And that also teaches you to
13:40.8
value every moment
13:42.4
and every person in your life
13:44.1
na alam mong temporary.
13:45.9
Iba rin kasi yung feeling mong
13:47.0
angel lang and forever.
13:47.9
You kaya take things for granted
13:50.6
nandyan sila forever, di ba?
13:53.0
Hindi naman talaga.
13:54.1
Alam mo, nakaka-stress sa buhay.
14:00.8
If you try to control the things
14:02.3
that you cannot in life,
14:03.5
that stresses people.
14:04.8
Traffic, hindi mo control yan.
14:06.8
may co-complain ka lang.
14:08.7
Pag taas ang bilihin,
14:09.8
hindi mo mako-control yan.
14:11.0
May stress ka lang.
14:12.8
like for example,
14:13.9
ang gagawin mo, di ba?
14:15.1
Kung alam mong mataas ang bilihin,
14:16.9
dalawang pwede mong gawin.
14:17.7
Kung nabawasan mo yung
14:19.5
unnecessary gastos mo,
14:21.4
Pangalawa, dagdagan mo kita mo.
14:24.4
Control mo yan eh.
14:25.3
Yung pag-gastos mo
14:26.4
at sa pagdagdag kita.
14:28.5
So, parang ang challenge nga
14:32.0
Ganda na sinabi mo eh,
14:33.3
na yung gamot sa sakit,
14:35.5
hindi ko, ano eh,
14:36.9
Kaya pinapasadiyos ko na lang eh.
14:38.4
Let go of the things you can
14:39.8
and try to control
14:40.8
the things that you can.
14:42.4
So, mapunta naman tayo
14:45.0
Si Miss Biba nag-iipon.
14:47.7
Ay, interesting to.
14:50.7
marunong ako mag-iipon
14:51.7
pero hindi yung parang
14:52.9
the best way of making iipon.
14:55.3
Nung nag-asawa ako,
14:56.5
madam, nami-iipon ako
14:57.5
pero si asawa yung mas invest.
14:59.9
Kapag may sobrang
15:00.7
masyadong liquid,
15:02.9
dapat doon mo nilalagay
15:05.7
Siya yung mas marunong
15:12.3
hindi siya mawawala.
15:13.5
Yun lang ang ano mo?
15:14.9
Noon, nung bago kami.
15:17.0
di nitong pandemic,
15:18.2
nagka-loko-loko din.
15:19.6
May sinabi ka doon
15:21.9
Oh, create, handle, invest, and protect.
15:24.5
yung hindi ko na ano.
15:25.8
So, nagawa ko lahat yun.
15:28.2
yung medyo mali ah.
15:30.1
Malagi inisip ko,
15:30.9
anong natutunan ko dito?
15:34.3
hindi rin ako naging good steward.
15:37.6
I have to be a good steward
15:40.9
when it comes to money,
15:41.8
ayoko kasing makuenta.
15:43.9
Ayoko naglilista.
15:46.3
kailangan mo ilista,
15:48.7
Kailangan alam mo nasaan.
15:50.0
Hindi yun naman mukhang pera.
15:52.9
nakalista at nakasino,
15:55.2
Or kapag nakabudget din
15:56.5
yung pang-tulong mo,
15:57.7
di naman pala masama yun.
16:01.0
pwede akong mag-budget sa pang-tulong,
16:03.7
Yung perspective,
16:04.8
ito yung sinabi mo,
16:05.7
yung perspective got me curious,
16:08.0
May namanggit ka eh.
16:09.1
Ayoko magbilang sa pera,
16:10.8
kasi baka magmukha akong pera,
16:12.4
mabilang ako sa pera.
16:16.2
yung nangyari rin sa parents mo?
16:20.0
May connection yan eh.
16:24.6
alam ko rin talaga,
16:28.5
I want to emphasize,
16:30.5
na yung dapat sa parents,
16:32.2
kung meron man kayong hinanakit
16:33.6
at mag-ihiwalay kayo,
16:37.2
both parents are doing
16:38.2
their best din naman.
16:42.1
kailangan lang ma-make sense mo,
16:45.1
and at the end of the day,
16:46.5
you have to equip your children.
16:47.9
So dapat pala maingat ka
16:49.0
sa mga sinasabi mo
16:52.0
I guess kaya rin ako
16:53.8
I guess I consider myself
16:59.5
Let's go back to the lesson.
17:00.7
Ano yung lesson na natutunan mo,
17:02.4
yung sa pagpapahiraman ng pera?
17:07.5
You have to learn it.
17:09.3
kasi mahilig ako,
17:10.1
kasi medyo mabilis ako
17:11.4
mag-to let go of money.
17:13.7
bahala ka na dyan.
17:15.2
Hindi mo na tatanungin.
17:16.4
Mabilis ako magtiwala.
17:17.7
Kasi hindi nga ako makwenta.
17:21.5
that's something I learned.
17:23.0
Doon sa parting yun.
17:24.8
doon sa ibang aspeto naman
17:26.5
and doing other things,
17:27.7
ngayon na nagpo-vlog ako,
17:29.8
ang gandang learning sa akin
17:31.9
we have our own channel.
17:33.4
Ang gandang learning sa akin
17:35.4
hindi lang yung channel,
17:38.6
Lahat ba gagawin ko
17:39.5
pag sinabing kaya mong gawin?
17:40.9
Or do you just focus
17:41.7
on your strength?
17:42.6
Kasi lahat kaya ko eh.
17:47.3
is it the Pareto principle?
17:49.1
That 20% of your efforts
17:51.9
80% of your income?
17:54.5
parang dapat ganun.
17:55.6
Ano ba yung dapat
17:58.8
sa conversation na ito
18:00.4
habang sinasabi mo.
18:02.6
parati ako ang dinadala.
18:04.3
I see your mother
18:06.7
while you are saying this
18:09.6
na dun din ang influence
18:12.7
Kasi when I see my mama,
18:14.2
I'm very much like her.
18:16.6
mas magaling siya ni hama.
18:19.4
siya talaga lumaki sa hirap eh.
18:21.4
Noong nagkamali nga ako,
18:22.6
madami rin siyang pagkakamali ha.
18:24.4
Sabi niya sa akin,
18:25.4
sabi niya nga sa akin,
18:26.7
bakit hindi ka nagsasabi sa akin?
18:29.3
di ba dapat matuwa ka nga,
18:30.7
hindi ka pinoproblema
18:33.0
kung nagkamali na nga ako,
18:37.8
mas open yung discussion
18:40.4
anong gagawin po?
18:42.3
believe it or not,
18:44.8
actually baka nga 45,
18:47.6
anong gagawin ko?
18:49.5
anong gagawin ko?
18:53.1
Yung mga questions talagang prying.
18:55.4
Because I want to learn from her.
18:56.7
Tama, tama, tama.
18:59.2
yan importante yun.
19:00.6
It may be your mom,
19:01.7
it may be your dad,
19:03.4
just look for someone.
19:04.5
Bago kayong bumuha
19:05.5
ng mga importante
19:06.8
at malalaking desisyon sa buhay,
19:09.7
huwag kayong mahihang magtanong.
19:12.8
Hindsight lang, diba?
19:14.3
yung during that time,
19:15.4
yung napautang mo.
19:17.4
kung nagtanong ka,
19:18.4
hindi yung magmangyayari.
19:21.2
at natutunan ko pa.
19:24.1
yun palang mga pinag-investan ko before.
19:26.9
I could have earned more
19:27.9
if I just knew where to put that investment.
19:33.2
Magtanong na magtanong.
19:37.1
Imbis na malugmok,
19:38.5
kung meron man kaming ugali
19:39.9
ako nakuha kay baba,
19:41.7
ang bilis tumayo.
19:44.2
bangon ng bangon,
19:46.7
anong gagawin ko?
19:49.5
mabilis kaming umaksyon,
19:51.2
kaya kailangan may isipin mo din.
19:53.4
Kaya ka naluloko minsan.
19:55.3
pero maluloko ka din
19:56.5
kung hindi ka masyado discerning,
19:58.7
Let's talk about naman,
19:59.8
best money decision
20:01.4
that you have ever made
20:03.6
So there are two,
20:04.5
and that's just recently.
20:05.7
Invest nga yun sa
20:10.0
ngayon nagpatulong din ako
20:12.3
kina Brother Rex.
20:14.2
Nag-invest rin ako doon
20:16.8
Pero ang natutunan ko,
20:18.5
dapat spread out.
20:22.3
sana maturoan mo ako mag-art.
20:25.5
ayoko pasukin siya
20:28.4
Alam mo naman ako,
20:29.1
meron akong ganyan.
20:29.7
Ayokong pumunta sa,
20:31.9
okay lang sa akin kumita
20:32.8
but I don't want it to be
20:35.1
that I get into things.
20:38.3
because I like it.
20:43.8
But if it appreciates,
20:45.7
Happy-happy rin naman tayo.
20:47.4
it's also good for your family.
20:49.6
yun ang isang sikreto
20:51.7
sa mga successful na tao.
20:55.3
and you enjoy doing.
20:57.7
for what you're doing.
20:58.8
I heard that in your ano.
21:01.0
yung interviewing people,
21:04.3
Imagine I'm driving myself
21:05.6
to the coverages,
21:07.4
interviewing people,
21:08.3
pero na-enjoy ko talaga.
21:09.9
Kasi na-enjoy ko talagang matuto
21:12.2
nagkaka-social life ako
21:13.5
dahil hindi naman ako lumalapas
21:14.6
kung hindi ko gagawin to eh.
21:16.6
So parang I love,
21:17.9
I love telling stories.
21:19.0
I love being inspired
21:20.9
and sharing your story
21:25.5
we want to challenge you.
21:29.0
Na-stress ka na sa trabaho mo,
21:30.7
nabobore ka na sa ginagawa mo,
21:32.6
parang feeling mo
21:33.4
wala ka na talagang buhay.
21:35.1
Ito yung challenge ko sa inyo.
21:37.6
that you love to do
21:39.9
Even if you do not get paid,
21:41.8
kahit di ka bayaran,
21:42.7
gagawin mo pa rin libre.
21:44.7
Pero ito yung best part.
21:46.0
Ito yung best part.
21:51.2
hindi ba tayo mapalat lang to?
21:53.1
Kasi hindi naman lahat ng tao
21:54.6
will get that opportunity.
21:57.7
Parang, do people,
22:00.1
parang ilan na yung kilala
22:01.4
kung talagang masaya
22:03.9
Ako masasabi kung masaya ako
22:06.6
Ikaw masaya ka sa ginagawa ko.
22:09.2
hindi ko alam kung
22:13.6
when you're in a survival mode,
22:16.4
wala kang choice eh
22:17.2
kung ano yung i-offer sa'yo
22:18.2
yung gagawin mo eh.
22:19.1
Pero hindi ka tatagal dun eh.
22:20.5
Kasi hindi mo nga love eh.
22:21.7
Hindi ka nag-enjoy eh.
22:23.2
kailangan i-align mo yung sarili mo.
22:25.0
You need really to come
22:26.6
to a point in your life
22:27.5
you find something.
22:28.6
Like for example,
22:29.5
si Manny Pacquiao,
22:30.6
dun na po umpisa.
22:31.4
Diba, magpapaxing siya
22:35.5
I don't think so.
22:36.5
Gusto mo ba naman
22:37.1
binubugbog yung face mo?
22:39.4
Ginawa niya to survive eh.
22:41.0
Pero it came to a point
22:44.2
na may pangarap siya.
22:45.6
Tapos na-recognize siya,
22:46.7
na champion na siya.
22:48.5
minahal na niya yung ginagawa niya,
22:50.1
na-enjoy na niya.
22:54.1
magkano kinikita niya.
22:55.5
Bilyo na pinag-uusapa.
23:00.9
Ang goal lang niya is to
23:02.9
and to enjoy what they're doing.
23:05.2
In the process of enjoying,
23:07.3
Kaya kailangan talaga
23:08.1
sa mga nakikinig at nanonood ngayon.
23:09.7
Yan ang challenge.
23:10.6
Challenge is to find your purpose.
23:12.8
So you do what you love
23:14.1
versus you love what you do?
23:17.6
you do what you love
23:18.8
and you love what you do
23:20.0
and it will come to a point
23:21.2
you love what you do
23:22.0
and you will do what you love.
23:25.4
ako parating nagsasabi,
23:26.6
para manlalaman ang purpose mo sa buhay,
23:28.7
find something that you're good at.
23:30.1
Gusto ka ba magaling?
23:30.9
Hindi kung anong gusto mo.
23:33.6
ever since when I was young
23:35.0
to become a PBA player.
23:38.9
Mahihirapan nga tayo doon.
23:40.8
Iyon ang problema ko.
23:43.5
I don't have the gift of height.
23:45.0
Pero without me knowing,
23:46.2
ever since I was young,
23:51.1
the gift of perspective.
23:55.0
Na hindi ko alam.
23:58.8
talagang love ko talaga ito eh.
24:00.3
Love ko talaga mag-inspire,
24:02.4
especially when it comes to the area of finance.
24:04.8
And I see that in you also.
24:06.9
Love mo yung ginagawa mo.
24:09.5
ito yung nalang questions.
24:13.6
yourself these following questions.
24:16.2
is the money that you're earning right now
24:18.3
with your present career and profession na ginagawang
24:20.7
can sustain your family?
24:22.0
Five to ten years away from now.
24:24.3
Number two question,
24:25.3
are the people that you are working with
24:27.1
are still the people you want to work with
24:29.2
five to ten years away from now?
24:31.2
And number three,
24:32.1
are you really enjoying what you're doing right now
24:34.4
and you can really safely say,
24:37.7
ito na yung gagawin ko for the rest of my life.
24:39.5
If your answer is yes, yes, yes
24:41.0
to those three questions,
24:43.4
You have found something that you want to do
24:45.0
for the rest of your life.
24:46.2
But if your answer is no
24:47.7
to one of those questions,
24:49.6
anong ginagawa mo?
24:50.5
Pero napapaisipin talaga,
24:52.7
Kasi sana pwede all eh.
24:54.7
Sana all kagaya natin.
24:57.2
Pero paano kung wala lang talagang oportunidad
24:59.8
at ang kanilang drive
25:01.2
really just to provide for the family
25:03.1
whether they like something or not?
25:05.0
Alam mo, ang sagot dyan,
25:06.7
matutuwa magmangarap.
25:08.0
Kailangang may ambition ka sa buhay.
25:09.7
Ang goal sa buhay is not to survive.
25:12.0
Ang goal sa buhay is to thrive.
25:14.7
Masabi ng Panginoon,
25:15.9
His plan is to make us the head,
25:18.4
He wants to make us the lender,
25:19.9
not the borrower.
25:20.9
He wants to put us up to the top.
25:22.0
So the top never be at the bottom.
25:24.1
His plan is to prosper us,
25:26.5
to give us hope in the future.
25:28.8
Probably, hindi mo pa naaabot
25:30.3
yung gusto mo sa buhay.
25:31.6
Pero, ang ibig sabihin,
25:33.2
huwag kang titigil
25:34.6
magkaroon ng pangarap at nafisyon.
25:37.1
And aminin man natin,
25:39.1
kung meron kang pag-asa sa kinabukasan,
25:41.4
magkakaroon ka ng kapangyarihan
25:43.3
sa pangkasalukuyan.
25:44.9
Pag wala ka ng pag-asa
25:48.7
wala ka ng kapangyarihan
25:52.0
gumising pag wala ka ng pag-asa.
25:54.3
Kahit ang dami mong pera,
25:56.5
you have only a few days to live,
25:59.7
Pero kahit wala kang ka pera-pera ngayon,
26:01.8
broke na broke ka.
26:03.1
Pero kung puno-puno ka ng pag-asa
26:04.7
at alam mo may laban ka sa buhay,
26:07.5
talagang sarap gumising
26:08.9
at sarap lumaban.
26:10.7
at sana ang takeaway
26:11.8
ng mga viewers mo,
26:17.5
Totoo dapat may ambisyon.
26:20.0
yun yung pinakamahalaga.
26:22.0
yung mangarap at pangarap
26:23.8
at yung hope actually.
26:25.8
Iba yung dream sa hope.
26:28.0
To hope that things will be better.
26:31.6
Lord, maraming salamat
26:32.7
na kumakain ako isang beses ang araw.
26:35.5
na may tirahan ako kahit na maliit.
26:38.3
na binigyan mo ako ng pagkakataon.
26:42.3
na meron akong tinakain
26:43.4
isang isang beses ang araw.
26:45.9
na darating ang panahon.
26:47.5
Tatlong beses ako kakain isang araw.
26:50.7
na maliit lang ako.
26:52.0
Pero, darating ang panahon
26:53.9
magkakaroon ako ng sarili kong bahay.
26:57.5
na ako ay nagkukomit ngayon.
26:58.6
Pero, darating ang panahon
27:01.2
na magkaroon ako ng sarili kong sasabihin.
27:03.1
At importante yung
27:04.2
ang pagpapasalamat
27:05.4
hindi ibig sabihin
27:06.3
hanggang dito pa lang.
27:10.2
akin ang pagpapasalamat
27:11.5
it's the gratefulness
27:12.9
out of gratefulness
27:14.2
kaya hindi ko sasayangin
27:15.5
ng bawat sandali.
27:16.8
Dahil marunong kang magpasalamat.
27:18.5
And when you know na
27:21.6
you don't want to take things
27:23.6
or life for granted.
27:27.1
pinagpapalaan ng Diyos
27:28.5
yung mga taong marunong magpasalamat.
27:31.0
One thing that God cannot really
27:34.7
Pag nagkocomplain ka sa buhay,
27:38.1
di ba yung mga Israelites
27:39.1
na tinulungan niya?
27:41.9
binibigyan sila ng ano?
27:46.1
Nag-deliver pa ng gardi niya.
27:49.0
may mga vlogging pa.
27:50.7
nagpapatala ng pugo,
27:53.5
na diniliver pa ng andoks.
27:55.9
At meron silang tubig
27:58.4
na galing sa ano pa to.
28:00.2
Na filtered ng Agua Vida.
28:01.7
O, nangyayong parter siya.
28:03.9
O, hindi sila sponsored.
28:06.4
sa araw-araw na pinagkakaloob
28:08.8
ng himala sa kanila,
28:13.2
Tinapay na naman.
28:17.8
binilang-bilang nila,
28:20.7
ang distansya ngayon,
28:21.6
kung maglalakad ka
28:22.5
from Egypt to Jerusalem
28:24.8
to the Promised Land,
28:30.5
Dahil sa pagre-reklamo,
28:34.5
kung ikaw may hiningi ka
28:36.2
tapos wala pa rin,
28:37.9
nagre-reklamo ka,
28:39.2
o, sakot ni Lord,
28:43.2
pag nagpa-pray ako,
28:44.7
pag hindi pa dumadating
28:46.6
hindi ko kine-question si God
28:47.9
because God is good.
28:53.6
is not the giver.
28:57.1
So, ang prayer ko,
28:58.2
ano pang kailangan
28:58.9
mong baguhin sa buhay ko
29:00.3
para ipagkaloob mo
29:03.2
bilang pangwakas,
29:04.1
bilang pangwakas,
29:08.7
na medyo may challenge
29:12.5
challenge ang meron,
29:14.8
meron mapagpapasalam.
29:16.5
Yun yung naniniwala ako.
29:18.1
Kaya ako rin pala
29:18.8
mapaplog yung libro natin,
29:20.1
When Bad News Is Good News.
29:21.3
Minsan maraming bagay
29:25.4
merong aral din yan
29:26.7
na itinuturo sa atin
29:28.2
about our family.
29:31.2
yung faith natin.
29:37.0
challenge na dumating
29:39.9
itinuturo sa pagkataon
29:45.1
in a different way
29:51.3
Because all things
29:53.3
for those who are cold
29:54.5
according to God's purpose.
29:57.5
ang iyong mga channel,
30:07.0
Bernadette Zambrano
30:08.6
Please subscribe.
30:12.7
Bernadette Zambrano.
30:18.2
may mga panid na pa tayo
30:21.3
malimutan pa ba ako?
30:22.3
Parang yun lang naman.
30:23.6
Maraming, maraming
30:25.2
Thank you very much
30:27.1
And maximize natin
30:28.1
ang mga maximizers po kami.
30:29.8
Yes, walang sinasayang
30:33.0
tamang karunungan,
30:33.8
tamang disiplina po
30:34.6
ang susi sa pagyaman.
30:37.4
dropping off Chinky now.
30:38.9
Thank you for watching.
