00:22.2
Kailan siya mag-air?
00:24.3
So we're here now. We're excited.
00:30.0
So parang ang story, Korean tapos Pinoy.
00:57.5
So yung dalawang culture.
01:00.5
Actually, ate Tin, yung setting talaga dapat nito is Indonesia.
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So we shot it as if we were in Indonesia.
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And then our executive chef, who's played by Nicola Saputra, he's from Jakarta.
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And then somebody from Korea went to Jakarta to be in the same kitchen as me.
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Pero may story na ma-unfold.
01:22.7
E, kamusta yung katrabaho yung mga Korean actors?
01:26.2
They're both fun.
01:27.0
They're both different.
01:28.4
But they were really nice to work.
01:30.5
Pero hindi, kasi nag-start ka nung sa 2007, sa Koke.
01:35.0
But before Koke, may isa pa, di ba?
01:38.5
Young Claudine na.
01:39.7
So ilang taon ka nung?
01:41.5
And then sumalang ako kay Koke with Direk Wen at eight, nine.
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And then, ayun na, sunod-sunod na siya.
01:48.3
So tagal mo na din sa showbiz. Magtutu decades ka na din halos.
01:52.6
Hindi ko siya nare-realize.
01:53.8
Kasi parang I feel like, fully commit ako sa kanya when I turned 15.
01:58.1
I took a break to study.
02:00.0
I wanted to be normal, I wanted to go to school nang walang work after, parang gano'n.
02:05.3
Kung saan talaga yung heart mo, no?
02:06.6
Yeah. I looked for it. Namiss ko siya.
02:09.9
I love it. I love what we do.
02:11.5
Baka it was also the world that I was exposed to growing up.
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So it's the only world I know.
02:16.4
Yung parents mo in the industry, di ba?
02:18.9
Your relatives, your titas.
02:20.9
So parang talagang, ito yung norm for you.
02:24.4
Anong pinakagusto mo sa ginagawa natin?
02:27.5
I love being on the set.
02:29.1
It's my happiness.
02:29.8
It's my happiest place.
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So pag natatapos yung isang project, parang nasa-sad na ako ulit.
02:35.8
I'm already gearing up for the next one.
02:37.8
Pero syempre, yun yung mga things that you love.
02:39.8
But eventually, as you stay longer in the business, there will always be things na you will not like.
02:46.8
Ano yung mga hindi mo nagustuhan?
02:49.8
I think what comes with being a public figure, it's a different light.
02:53.8
As much as you don't want people to care so much about your life.
02:59.0
That was the hardest thing for me to surrender.
03:01.0
Until you kind of outgrow it, parang okay na yun.
03:04.0
If they care, they're good.
03:05.0
It's better than they don't care.
03:07.0
Sa showbiz kasi, love life, number one.
03:11.0
Second, family life.
03:13.0
Syempre yung surname mo, talagang lalo silang, ah, doon sila interested.
03:18.0
Tapos meron pang, pati yung mga friendship life mo in the business.
03:23.0
Like big deal na sa kanila yung nag-unfollowan.
03:26.0
Hindi na friends.
03:27.0
Hindi na sila friends.
03:29.0
Yeah, yeah. That's true.
03:30.0
Tapos diyan na magsisimula yung mga issue. Bakit nag-unfollow na? Bakit maging dito na?
03:34.0
Baka sa social media kasi.
03:36.0
Because when I was starting out, even when I was a teenager pa, parang wala naman masyado pong ganoon.
03:41.0
Ah yes, naulutan mo.
03:42.0
Pasinong six years old, wala po.
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2005 to 2006, 2007, wala po.
03:46.0
Parang later on na lang.
03:47.0
But if you know how to use it to your advantage, in a way, since we can share what we want to share, may control ka kahit papano nang gusto mong ilabas.
03:57.0
Doon sa content mo.
03:58.0
Right. Your own content. Pero pag may lumalabas ng not from you, wala na. You have no control over that.
04:04.0
So anong ginagawa mo kapag beyond your control na?
04:08.0
Yung mga lumalabas.
04:09.0
Kasi nakaka-frustrate when you try to be on control of everything. Before I used to be like that. Pero now, okay na. Okay na yun. Everything passes eh. So I let it go.
04:18.0
Ano yung pinaka-mahirap i-let go?
04:21.0
Siguro the things that were said and are said are super easy to let go.
04:27.0
But it's the more personal impact on you that's hard to...
04:32.0
Like ano yung impact?
04:34.0
How you see people, how you see friendships, how you see everything. It changes. You're never the same.
04:42.0
Parang you're wiser, you're smarter.
04:45.0
Yung mga controversies kung paano mo hinandle before.
04:48.0
Pag if you look back, meron ka bang mga thoughts na I could have handled it differently or should have done this.
04:56.0
Dapat ganito na lang.
04:58.0
For sure. Especially as you grow old. And then you know better. You feel like you would have done things differently. And then that will play in your mind. Pero wala eh. What's happened, happened. And then you know better. You know how to make decisions better.
05:12.0
Pag alam mo ng ang bawat galaw may consequence or may effect yan in the long run.
05:18.0
Eh yung biggest misconception sa'yo?
05:20.0
Yung bad person, bad daughter.
05:23.0
So paano mo dini-deal yun? Yung misconception na yan?
05:25.0
Nakukuha mo ba ito pag na-meet ka? Mabait ka pala sa personal.
05:30.0
Mabait ka naman pala. May mga ganun, no?
05:33.0
Doon mo magigets na, ano bang tingin niya sa'kin?
05:35.0
Tingin na lang sa'kin. Am I that bad? Like ano ba, what am I saying?
05:39.0
But it takes time for me to warm up din, ate Tin. Hindi din ako yung parang, it's always instinctive na when I become warm sa first ano, it means I have a good feeling about you.
05:49.0
Pero pag medyo may ano ako, tao lang, ganun talaga. We have our, we have our walls.
05:54.0
We have our walls, but don't be cynical. Parang still trust in human beings.
05:60.0
Kasi ang bata carefree.
06:03.0
I'm sure when you were six years old in the set, ah naglalaro ka lang sa set ni Dire Quen, di ba?
06:08.0
Hindi ka pa conscious nun? Hindi mo alam na may mga ganito pala sa mundo ng showbiz?
06:12.0
Di ba nakakamiss minsan yung innocence?
06:14.0
Nang wala kang alam?
06:15.0
Yeah. Naive ka lang.
06:16.0
Naive ka lang? Masaya ka lang?
06:18.0
Wala sila sinasabi sa'kin at the back of my, ano right now. Nag-awork lang ako. They all like me. They love me.
06:24.0
Tapos tumatagal ka na. Oh, shucks.
06:28.0
May nababasa ka na sa dyaryo. Ganito palang tingin sa'kin.
06:32.0
Napi-principle sa office ka na.
06:35.0
Na-management ano-ano.
06:36.0
Ganito palang dating ko sa mga tao.
06:39.0
But also, kapag ginanun ka, pumapasok na din yung hindi mo alam kung should I be myself?
06:46.0
Or should I put on something para hindi na nila sabihin to about me? Tumating ka ba dun sa ganung point?
06:52.0
Yes. But you become more aware.
06:53.0
Yes. But you become more aware.
06:54.0
You become so aware that you know how to handle yourself in different environments and in situations.
06:60.0
Like, when you're in the set, I enjoy yung nakikisama ka sa lahat. You treat everyone like a friend and your family.
07:06.0
Because when you love them naman, they will love you back eh.
07:09.0
So, na-accept ko na na just be open especially when people don't know if they could talk to you or not.
07:15.0
Sometimes you have to be the one to show them na, hey, like, we can talk.
07:19.0
Pag tumatanda ka, lalo na yan, pinagdaanan mo yan. Stage ng interview.
07:23.0
Stage ng It Girls. Lumaang ka sa stage ng Love Team.
07:27.0
Ang hirap yung stage ng It Girls kasi the fans are pitting everyone against each other.
07:35.0
It's sad when it bothers others and then you feel it. Sana hindi mo hinayaang nakapasok yung iba sa utak mo.
07:43.0
Yung ganun, mas nakasad pag nagkakaroon ng actual effect.
07:47.0
Yes. So, paano mo hinandal yun? Yung ganun.
07:49.0
Yes. So, paano mo hinandal yun? Yung ganun.
07:50.0
Parang laging may competition between the other girls na kaedad mo.
07:54.0
Hindi kasi ako rat race, ate Tin. Like, I don't feel like I'm competing with anyone.
07:58.0
If anything, everyday I feel like I'm competing with myself.
08:01.0
I don't know. It's not interesting to compete with other people.
08:04.0
Parang I have my own goals na would never be the same with others.
08:08.0
Iba talaga magiging life ko. And then maybe it's being exposed so early on.
08:13.0
Tapos nakakarinig ka na ng stories. And then you're like, parang I don't wanna go through that with another person.
08:19.0
But life happens.
08:21.0
Paano yung sa love team stage ng buhay mo?
08:24.0
When I look back, it's always happy memories.
08:27.0
I look back and I always remember like yung milestones namin.
08:30.0
Oh my gosh, na-achieve natin to.
08:32.0
Our first ever movie together.
08:35.0
Our first MMF together.
08:37.0
Our first. Daming first.
08:39.0
So, I look back and I'm so grateful for it.
08:43.0
Pero paano mo nahandal yun nung time na yun na yung love team mo tapos you're in a relationship?
08:48.0
Sobrang hirap nun. Tapos may fans pa in between.
08:51.0
And the management pa in between.
08:54.0
It was a public relationship. Yun yung nangyari.
08:58.0
And then that's why everybody felt like they were part of the relationship.
09:04.0
May say lahat. But we were young. Okay lang.
09:06.0
And then you learn how to take care of your next one.
09:08.0
So, ano natutunan mo dun sa relationship na yun?
09:11.0
Number one, basic. Just don't overshare. Be protective of your partnership.
09:17.0
Don't let everybody in.
09:20.0
And then but second siguro is don't be possessive over a person.
09:25.0
Just be a partner. Be a supportive partner. Hindi siya ownership pala.
09:30.0
Kasi when you're in a relationship with your love team, you feel like you own each other in the relationship and then even at work.
09:36.0
So, parang you both probably don't feel like you can fly or explore. Yun lang.
09:43.0
You don't own a person. You just become a partner pala.
09:46.0
You don't have another person.
09:48.0
When you go through heartaches, controversies, anong laging sinasabi ng mami mo sa'yo?
09:54.0
Don't let it make you a bad person. Especially the worst one she really told me.
09:58.0
Like, just make sure Julia that your heart stays the same when you get out of this.
10:02.0
Huwag masira yung mundo for you.
10:04.0
So, I think that stayed. Kasi very hopeful pa rin ako sa world.
10:08.0
Yun yung pinaka maingay, no? Yung 2019.
10:10.0
Yeah, and I was just 22.
10:15.0
Yung mata mo pa nun. Grabe.
10:17.0
So, paano mo hinandal yun na 22? Yung ganong ingay?
10:20.0
Hindi ko din alam. Paano?
10:21.0
Palaban ka talagang para makapag-post ka ng ganon, Julia.
10:25.0
Talagang nag-post ka ng something na talagang straight to the point ng address ni Julia.
10:33.0
Ano yan? Peak of your emotion?
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Or super ano na yan? Paano dumating dun sa decision na yan?
10:39.0
Sa point na yun? I don't know, Atitin, if I did that for myself or did it for the people around me.
10:43.0
Like the people who were really hurting for me.
10:46.0
Kasi di ba, pag ikaw naman nasasaktan, parang kaya. Pero pag parang yung sa paligid mo na yun, please.
10:53.0
Like, why are you allowing this?
10:55.0
But I don't know, like kanina. Sa kanila, you're referring to your family?
10:58.0
Family. My family, my closest friends.
11:01.0
Sila yung umiiyak. Ako yung parang, parang umiiyak. Okay lang. Ano ba?
11:06.0
So, maybe that was for them. You have two choices.
11:09.0
Am I going to, magmumukbok ba ako?
11:12.0
Or magpapatuloy ako? Siguro yung phase na yun, na 22.
11:16.0
I was so sure, Atitin, that wait. Like this is not the end of my world.
11:21.0
Hindi ako magmumukmok. We're gonna keep going.
11:23.0
You also have to take accountability for anong naging role mo sa chaos na yun.
11:30.0
So, anong role mo dun sa chaos na yun?
11:32.0
Siyempre ako personally, I'm sure na may naging role ako in somebody else's pain, in other people's pains.
11:39.0
In the same way that they also have contributed to.
11:42.0
To my pain. But I think you know na, na okay ka na when you already acknowledge na.
11:48.0
You know, baka I have a role in this. Baka may shortcoming din naman talaga ako.
11:53.0
Baka I really did something that, that hurt somebody.
11:58.0
Yeah, of course. You have to have a role. Maturity yun ah. Para dumating ka sa point na yun.
12:02.0
Or dahil, antagal na kasi. 2019 pa. So, years of realization. Kasi maraming realizations yan. Every year iba ang realizations.
12:11.0
It's passing through the fire, getting out of the fire, and being burned. Yung after, yung marirealize, mas napaso ako dun. Shocks.
12:19.0
Yeah, pero may napaso ka ding iba. Parang you have more compassion ah.
12:22.0
Siyempre it's sad when you think like, baka nakasakit din ako talaga ng tao. It's sad.
12:27.0
Paano ka naghihim?
12:29.0
I took accountability. Hindi naman pwedeng everybody just hurt me. I'm sure there's some people that I hurt along the way.
12:41.0
Anong naging role ni Gerald nung time na yun? In the process of you going through the fire and dealing with everything.
12:48.0
Was he a friend to you? Did he support you? Did he encourage you? Did he apologize to you for going through this fire?
12:56.0
Maybe mas sa family ko. Because I also remained very strong lang. Pero hindi kami nun, ate Tin. Hindi kami nun. So, I can't say that he was a partner to me.
13:06.0
So, ang hirap nung partner yun. Hindi kayo.
13:10.0
So, paano mo inanavigate yung isang issue na hinususgahan na kayo nung time na yun?
13:15.0
Tapos nag-apologize siya sa family mo?
13:18.0
Or kinausap niya yung family mo?
13:20.0
After na everything. Kasi we had no partnership. So, he didn't really have access to my family also. So, parang we navigated this in our own ways.
13:28.0
Of course, there were times that we had conversation like, paano nauwi sa ganito?
13:32.0
How did we get here?
13:34.0
How did it get here? Pero okay naman. He really remained strong din yun. Very strong.
13:39.0
Imagine before getting together, natest muna kayo.
13:42.0
Oh my gosh. Actually. And then even when we got together, another kind of fire.
13:49.0
Yeah. Pero parang when you go through na what we went through before being together, parang everything is kakayanin.
13:55.0
Paano niyo kinaya?
13:56.0
Nothing is permanent. Yun na lang. Nothing is permanent. Dilipas din. True enough. Thank you. Thank you.
14:03.0
So, when you look back at that noisy face in your life, anong natutunan mo dun?
14:08.0
Resilient ako. I'm proud. I don't give up. Fight lang. Fight ng fight sa life.
14:15.0
Di ba when you go through something, it can either break you or make you?
14:19.0
Yeah. Naging fuel siya. It's the fuel I needed.
14:21.0
You didn't allow it to break you?
14:23.0
Pero how did it make your relationship strong after going through that?
14:29.0
I love it when he puts it in a way na parang, of course, there are some things that we face. Pero nagiging cute na nga lang yung mga nafe-face namin ngayon.
14:37.0
Because of that. But at the end, I feel like with our age, like me also, like being the end of the last leg of my 20s,
14:46.0
I think the problems you face are more mature na eh. It's more adult. It's how do two people work out? How do we mesh together?
14:54.0
Ganoon na lang. Hindi na siya petty anymore.
14:56.0
Ilang years ang difference na?
14:59.0
May effect ba sa relationship?
14:60.0
Sakto siya. Perfect. He's 35. So siguro everything ng mga crisis ko ng 20s ko. Figuring out myself, navigating my 20s.
15:07.0
Nadaanan niya na. So na-witness niyang dinadaanan ko yun. So I'm so thankful na ang patient niya sa aspect na yun.
15:14.0
Ano yung best advice na nabigay sa'yo ng mami mo about love?
15:18.0
Hindi siya nangyayang alam. It's more like when we were already in the middle of a relationship, she was telling me,
15:22.0
Julia, don't lose who you are. Parang still have your own identity. Diba usually, at it, and when we become in a relationship,
15:30.0
parang nagiging identical ka na dun sa partner mo. So she just didn't want, she didn't want,
15:36.0
she wanted me to make sure na I still had my individuality.
15:40.0
Paano mo na kikip yun for yourself?
15:43.0
May daily check-in ka.
15:44.0
Na apart from him, diba?
15:46.0
Na hindi lang siya. Dapat nakikip mo pa rin yung individuality.
15:50.0
Ano yung common ground sa inyo?
15:51.0
Our common ground, we're both a Pisces. Water babies kami. We love the sun, we love the water, the ocean, we love activities.
16:01.0
But yung mga differences namin is what makes it fun.
16:04.0
Alam mo, ito laging tinatanong.
16:06.0
Pag ilang years na kayo in the relationship?
16:08.0
This is our fifth year.
16:09.0
Grabe, fifth year. Ako nung fifth year namin ni Paul, lahat ng interview ko, do you talk about marriage?
16:18.0
Lahat ng ganyan, napag-uusapan nyo na ba ang marriage?
16:20.0
First year nga namin, yun na yung…
16:22.0
Yun na yung tanong?
16:23.0
Yeah. So parang, ang bilis naman nun.
16:25.0
Alam mo, ganito yun sa showbiz ha. Kayo ba? Tapos pag kayo na, kailan kayo ikakasal?
16:31.0
Or buntis ka na. Or hiwalay na yan.
16:35.0
Yan lang yun. Yan lang yung niikutan nila.
16:38.0
Paano mo hini-handle yung ganun sa relationship?
16:40.0
Ngayon ko lang na-experience yung ganun kadaming questions about marriage.
16:44.0
So ako, why? I think people forget sometimes I'm not even in my 30s yet.
16:48.0
Kasi malalaman mo yun bilang isang babae, lalo na if you're in this stage of your life in your 20s.
16:54.0
Ako alam na, alam ko na yun. Ito yung age na I wanna settle down. Ikaw, meron kang ganun for yourself.
16:60.0
When I was younger, I thought 25. Nung 19, ako 20.
17:04.0
But now I think I'm just so grateful with the pace of my life now. I'm not rushing. I'm taking my time.
17:13.0
What's so special about this relationship right now?
17:16.0
He's so secure in our relationship. Parang siya talaga yung nagiging anchor ng relationship.
17:22.0
So when I see how the confidence that he has in our partnership, syempre it makes you confident in what you guys have. So I appreciate that.
17:32.0
Since you guys are together for 5 years, can you imagine if it's a book, yung chapter 1 niyo was... Ano na agad? Pick agad ng story.
17:41.0
Ano na? Kung baga, ito na kagad, ang plot twist. Nasa chapter 5 na kayo. Ito na ba yung nagsasettle ang mga dust?
17:50.0
Syempre there are still things that I'm navigating for myself. Yung chapter 5 is just getting to the exciting part.
17:57.0
What's your biggest frustration in life?
17:60.0
If I'm being honest, my biggest frustration right now is I just want to make sure that sa friendships ko, I really wish that I have the right people in my life.
18:09.0
The right friends. Because you know what it's like to have people turn their backs on you.
18:14.0
So you want to make sure that the people who are in your life are not fair-weather friends or not.
18:20.0
Loyalty and friendships, minsan mas importante po yun sa loyalty and relationships.
18:24.0
May narinig akong ganun na may questions sila. Anong mas masakit? Heartbreak ng friendship or heartbreak ng relationship?
18:30.0
Friendship for sure.
18:34.0
Or kind of because if you don't work out with a person, it's just you don't work out with a person. And then love, like it'll hurt you talaga.
18:40.0
And friendships too, but you just don't expect friends to turn their back.
18:44.0
So madami kang natutunan sa friends in the industry.
18:52.0
Doon mo makikita ang andaming ni-reveal din sa'yo.
18:54.0
Yeah, just thank you.
18:55.0
In the course of time.
18:58.0
Yeah, naprotect ako doon.
18:60.0
May tita calls it the perfect storm. The sister of my mom. Nagka-storm daw.
19:04.0
Tapos lahat ng hindi meant sa life mo. Tapos nag-stop yung storm, mga nandyan daw.
19:09.0
Yun yung mga real people sa life mo. I said perfect. Yun yun. It was called the perfect storm.
19:15.0
Alam mo, hindi mo makakalimutan yung mga tao who were there for you when you're going through fire.
19:21.0
It means a lot. Yan yung mga tumatatak sa'yo.
19:24.0
Term yan ngayon, hashtag yan. The world is healing.
19:27.0
The world is healing.
19:29.0
Dahil may mga hugging photos.
19:31.0
Okay, the question is, is the world really healing when that happened?
19:35.0
For me, yes. Siyempre, I'm gonna personally speak for myself.
19:39.0
I never wanna speak for anybody else.
19:41.0
It's a moment that, of course, bina-value ko yun. That's why as much as possible.
19:46.0
Siyempre, ang daming nag-a-ask sa'kin.
19:48.0
And I don't want to go into details so much. Kasi ayoko naman that other people would feel like it was an ingenuine moment.
19:55.0
Siyempre, it's a really real moment. Diba? Kasi siyempre,
19:59.0
it was messy. So, pag na-iron out yun, kahit konti, it helps.
20:05.0
Nakatulong ba yun?
20:06.0
Yeah. Maybe to fully close it. Para lang alam mong the people in the past, you were able to close that to them.
20:14.0
Hoping that it also gives them peace.
20:17.0
So now, what are you most grateful for?
20:19.0
I'm just so grateful for my life. I wouldn't have it any other way.
20:24.0
Wala din natin din. It's too heavy to carry.
20:26.0
So, if there's one month,
20:27.0
So, if there's one month,
20:28.0
mandra or words you live by at this phase or stage in your life, ano yun?
20:35.0
Just ride the wave. All of it.
20:50.0
Kasi diba before, we wanted to sit down.
20:52.0
Dami natin pushin po.
20:54.0
It's nice to have a conversation na
20:56.0
you already passed through the fire.
20:60.0
And now, we're just looking back at the learnings.
21:02.0
Yeah. And we're not sad looking back.
21:04.0
Yes. It was painful. It was chaotic at that time. Pero pag you look back, oh, it was necessary for me to pass through that.
21:12.0
Kasi it has made me the woman I am today. Diba?
21:15.0
I think it also has made you a better actress. Kasi diba, pag actress ka, dapat...
21:20.0
Ang dami mong bala.
21:21.0
Ang dami mong bubog.
21:23.0
Nakadaang dagda to sa motivation.
21:25.0
But thank you also, Ate Tin. Grabe, you made me strong.
21:29.0
Oo. Hindi mo lang alam. Pero pinalakas mo talaga ako nun.
21:33.0
And dumaan din ako ng sarili ko.
21:35.0
Ikaw din ang nag-send sa akin noong 2022.
21:37.0
Yes. Pero nung winotch kita, you made me stronger pa.
21:41.0
Super good example ka talaga ng rising above. So, thank you for that.
